Author Topic: I used to take larger clients until....... (Read 3756 times)

Ieaio · « **on:** 07 October 2013, 04:22:36 pm »

I had no problem with accepting larger clients, granted it proved difficult to mount the very larger but nothing i couldn't overcome with a quick chit chat to the ladies of saafe. BUT ....

then i had a large client for an incall and he broke my bed

We spent about 20 minutes of the booking putting the bed back together & he had worked up a sweat and he looked terribly embaressed. We couldn't just go on the floor, no space my bed takes up the room. It wasn't like he'd just snapped a few slats out of place he'd literally bent the metal that holds it all together. Well hey, an excuse for me to buy a king sized bed in replacement but gosh the poor guy & my poor bed hehe.

Also a quick shout out to the site <3 it's like having invisible escort friends haha nice to have a community to chat, giggle and vent to.

Lady_Lust_XXX · « **Reply #1 on:** 07 October 2013, 05:08:42 pm »

Don't forget you can claim your insurance rhona for some replacement money. Every little helps.

Cat_BBW · « **Reply #2 on:** 07 October 2013, 05:14:21 pm »

The wood slatted beds and metal beds are no good for larger people. Go for a sprung divan with pocket sprung mattress.

Dexi Delite · « **Reply #3 on:** 08 October 2013, 11:40:22 am »

Quote from: Cat_BBW on 07 October 2013, 05:14:21 pm

The wood slatted beds and metal beds are no good for larger people. Go for a sprung divan with pocket sprung mattress.

I have to agree. When I first started doing incalls I got a slatted bed from Dreams. After 3 weeks the bed was falling apart and it definitely wasn't over used. I had no end of problems with Dreams trying to get my money back (which took over 3 months), but I dread to think what could have happened if I had had a large client . I went to another store in the end and bought a divan as it seemed a lot sturdier and it's still going strong.

Cat_BBW · « **Reply #4 on:** 08 October 2013, 12:21:14 pm »

Quote from: Dexi on 08 October 2013, 11:40:22 am

Quote from: Cat_BBW on 07 October 2013, 05:14:21 pm
The wood slatted beds and metal beds are no good for larger people. Go for a sprung divan with pocket sprung mattress.

I have to agree. When I first started doing incalls I got a slatted bed from Dreams. After 3 weeks the bed was falling apart and it definitely wasn't over used. I had no end of problems with Dreams trying to get my money back (which took over 3 months), but I dread to think what could have happened if I had had a large client . I went to another store in the end and bought a divan as it seemed a lot sturdier and it's still going strong.

As a big girl myself, I have learned the hard, embarrassing way what happens if a big bottom meets a slatted or metal bed frame

meetingdiversity · « **Reply #5 on:** 08 October 2013, 01:09:38 pm »

Quote from: rhonasg on 07 October 2013, 04:22:36 pm

I had no problem with accepting larger clients, granted it proved difficult to mount the very larger but nothing i couldn't overcome with a quick chit chat to the ladies of saafe. BUT ....

then i had a large client for an incall and he broke my bed We spent about 20 minutes of the booking putting the bed back together & he had worked up a sweat and he looked terribly embaressed. We couldn't just go on the floor, no space my bed takes up the room. It wasn't like he'd just snapped a few slats out of place he'd literally bent the metal that holds it all together. Well hey, an excuse for me to buy a king sized bed in replacement but gosh the poor guy & my poor bed hehe.

Also a quick shout out to the site <3 it's like having invisible escort friends haha nice to have a community to chat, giggle and vent to.

I had this problem until brought a Divan bed. Now the bed takes them no problem. Before it happened often.

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SoyFeliz · « **Reply #6 on:** 08 October 2013, 10:51:40 pm »

Hi Rhona and Saafe!

I agree, it is amazing to of found a place full of open-minded and like-minded people in this industry!
Rhona, I was just wondering (due to the thread title) if you intend to refuse larger clients from now on, how do you intend to do so?

I only ask because this has been a huge worry of mine (larger gentlemen that is - not so much the broken furniture). I am quite petite and don't have the best record for sexual experience despite my desire to escort. I want as many good experiences as possible and preferably no disasters, I worry that if I meet with someone obese they may simply SQUISH me to death should they like a particular position! I know this is very unlikely and perhaps larger gentlemen wouldn't attempt such positions? But I do worry, if I ever met 'a bad guy' they would find this an easy task (though I am going to be as safe as possible when 'working' - hopefully I will be able to 'check in' with 'a buddy' and return the same favor).

I guess I would be confident enough to either leave, or turn them away if they visit me and I don't think I'm suitable. Though I wouldn't feel very good about it.

So I just wondered Rhona, will you be purchasing a divan bed and continuing to see larger gentlemen, or will you screen your clients differently from now to ensure they're not 'too large'?

Thank you! Stay Saafe people xxxx

SoyFeliz · « **Reply #7 on:** 09 October 2013, 04:36:43 am »

I've just realised what I probably need to be asking is what do larger gentlemen appreciate in bed/during a booking? If any ladies have experience they could share I would appreciate it. I've noted the divan bed lol.

I shall mentally prepare myself to be confident with gentlemen of any size. I know the easiest option would be to go and gain the experience in 'the real world' but I can't. I will just have to wait and see

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*** Sorry ladies, I've just searched the board to find any advice. I searched 'overweight' and came across a couple threads.
http://www.saafe.info/main/index.php?topic=2178.msg21319#msg21319
http://www.saafe.info/main/index.php?topic=10609.msg84342#msg84342

I found some good advice from the Saafe ladies, as always. By the way, I don't mean to sound discriminating or offensive, I am just a little worried I could disappoint a poor man investing a considerable amount of money for such a short amount of time. I just hope my clients will let me know if there is anything they would like me to prepare in advance for them and if not - I will try my best anyway. Ladies do you find a lot of clients are extremely overweight? I like larger men, I don't really like muscles at all but are many gentlemen obese? Thinking about it now, I haven't met that many gentlemen in 'the real world' I have thought 'he would be too large to have sex with' (when deciding whether I could escort) but I am yet to experience many types of penises, including the penes of overweight guys.

Saafe - I'm sorry if anything here is out of place, please delete if necessary xxxx

meetingdiversity · « **Reply #8 on:** 09 October 2013, 02:30:58 pm »

Quote from: SoyFeliz on 09 October 2013, 04:36:43 am

I've just realised what I probably need to be asking is what do larger gentlemen appreciate in bed/during a booking? If any ladies have experience they could share I would appreciate it. I've noted the divan bed lol.

I shall mentally prepare myself to be confident with gentlemen of any size. I know the easiest option would be to go and gain the experience in 'the real world' but I can't. I will just have to wait and see ...

*** Sorry ladies, I've just searched the board to find any advice. I searched 'overweight' and came across a couple threads.
http://www.saafe.info/main/index.php?topic=2178.msg21319#msg21319
http://www.saafe.info/main/index.php?topic=10609.msg84342#msg84342

I found some good advice from the Saafe ladies, as always. By the way, I don't mean to sound discriminating or offensive, I am just a little worried I could disappoint a poor man investing a considerable amount of money for such a short amount of time. I just hope my clients will let me know if there is anything they would like me to prepare in advance for them and if not - I will try my best anyway. Ladies do you find a lot of clients are extremely overweight? I like larger men, I don't really like muscles at all but are many gentlemen obese? Thinking about it now, I haven't met that many gentlemen in 'the real world' I have thought 'he would be too large to have sex with' (when deciding whether I could escort) but I am yet to experience many types of penises, including the penes of overweight guys.

Saafe - I'm sorry if anything here is out of place, please delete if necessary xxxx

In society you get all sizes ranging from the thin to the large. It is always a good idea to go on top in case they're not careful putting pressure on your chest where your heart is. This would be my main concern. But even on top will need to be changed in to place as legs cannot fit comfortably at the side. This is what found myself. Some are happy with oral and little play.

The escorting world is so different. If you can put up with a possibility verbal abuse and people wanking over the phone all the time also time wasters acting immature with constant texts. Then this is the job for you. The money is good but it all comes with a price of others who will take liberties.

See also the main SAAFE.info site for more Support And Advice For Escorts

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