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My timewaster spider sense is on the blink
« on: 31 August 2010, 02:47:43 pm »
Normally I am quite good at spotting them but been caught out a couple of times recently. Guy calls today looking for a 2 hour app and says he is going to get a hotel booked and which one is best for me? Tells him and he says ok can I meet you down there in an hour? Sure thing just text me the details of the room. Then I get a text saying 'on my way now. whats your name?' well thats weird you don't need to know my name apart from the one you already know - my working name but he may have forgotten so I text him my work name. Waiting for the text to say which room he is in and the booking reference etc and surprise surprise has been left hanging.

Luckily I didn't leave the house as I hadn't the details through yet so I have only wasted a bit of slap. More pissed off with myself for not picking up on it.

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Re: My timewaster spider sense is on the blink
« Reply #1 on: 31 August 2010, 07:01:57 pm »
LOL, Im sorry to be laughing at this one...but I found it to be quite funny.

Unfortunently, it happens to the best of us. Its just a matter of when, and not if. But...in that case, it did sound rather suspicious. In addition, I'd be even more leery if it was a last minute one. Usually a client books a hotel without needing an escort's input...either we meet them there or we dont. So yeah, sounded like a prick

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Re: My timewaster spider sense is on the blink
« Reply #2 on: 01 September 2010, 11:14:31 pm »
I had a booking from a client I had seen before, who had given me rave reviews for today.  I am in Cheltenham on tour, so I went into town to have a look at the shops (and maybe try a few dresses on).  I had not heard from the client and left him a message on aw this morning with my phone number asking him to get in touch and verify we are still on.  He had sent me a message just 2 days before saying how excited he was.

Only an hour and a half to go and still I have heard nothing.  Half an hour later I get a call asking if I'm free and I said yes.  An hour later I did have a booking, but it wasn't with the guy who I was meant to be with.  I've not heard a dicky bird off him.  I shall wait until tomorrow before writing his review (just in case) but I don't think it is going to be very positive if he hasn't contacted me by then.

You expect it off ppl you have not met before, but not from the ones you have!  :o
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Re: My timewaster spider sense is on the blink
« Reply #3 on: 02 September 2010, 07:07:11 am »
My timewaster sense seems to have fallen into the dumpster lately!

Just today, I was on my way to the next town (reluctantly) when a client texts me, "u available". After a few exchanges, that lead me to cancelling my hotel reservation (which costed me $25 cancel fee)...and then the idiot says, "how much is a half-hour"  >:(

After declining, he says "well, thanks anyway" in which I lost my cool and texted him "well obviously you have no interest in hiring so don't waste my fucking time"

I hope I dont get a bad review for that, but I was VERY upset that he would contact me with some shit like that after I'd just cancelled out a hotel in another city. I was stuck for 2 hours afterward figuring out what to do next  >:(

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Re: My timewaster spider sense is on the blink
« Reply #4 on: 02 September 2010, 08:19:59 am »
My timewaster sense seems to have fallen into the dumpster lately!

Just today, I was on my way to the next town (reluctantly) when a client texts me, "u available". After a few exchanges, that lead me to cancelling my hotel reservation (which costed me $25 cancel fee)...and then the idiot says, "how much is a half-hour"  >:(

After declining, he says "well, thanks anyway" in which I lost my cool and texted him "well obviously you have no interest in hiring so don't waste my fucking time"

I hope I dont get a bad review for that, but I was VERY upset that he would contact me with some shit like that after I'd just cancelled out a hotel in another city. I was stuck for 2 hours afterward figuring out what to do next  >:(

That is the one thing that still bothers me.  In every other job I have done I have naturally commanded and recieved respect and although it would be unfair to say that all punters disrespect escorts, there are a large portion that really don't.  They are arrogant, selfish and totally thoughtless.  They phone you a million times without thought that you may have a life outside of escorting, or may 'actually' be with a client and then get stroppy when you don't answer and then ask a million questions, only to say, cheers!  And never be heard from again.  Then of course there are the ones that call you up with one name and a day or two later call you up again asking for your services.  You just know they have their cock in their hand the whole time.  I've had ones book me for hotel meets that never existed and others tell me they want a regular when the evidently don't.

Do they think we all have one brain cell between us?

Thank God the majority are lovely nice people, because there are more than enough that need to get a life!!!!

Rant over  ;)
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Re: My timewaster spider sense is on the blink
« Reply #5 on: 02 September 2010, 08:39:43 am »
That is the one thing that still bothers me.  In every other job I have done I have naturally commanded and recieved respect and although it would be unfair to say that all punters disrespect escorts, there are a large portion that really don't.  They are arrogant, selfish and totally thoughtless.  They phone you a million times without thought that you may have a life outside of escorting, or may 'actually' be with a client and then get stroppy when you don't answer and then ask a million questions, only to say, cheers!  And never be heard from again.  Then of course there are the ones that call you up with one name and a day or two later call you up again asking for your services.  You just know they have their cock in their hand the whole time.  I've had ones book me for hotel meets that never existed and others tell me they want a regular when the evidently don't.

Do they think we all have one brain cell between us?

Thank God the majority are lovely nice people, because there are more than enough that need to get a life!!!!

It's all so true! I even have one or two guys that are such chronic timewasters that when they call I actually answer my phone and pretend to take their appointment but just never write anything down - I usually take a real appointment from someone else instead! - because we both know there won't be any actual meeting. ::) I just hope it distracts them briefly from wasting other escorts' time; they do get their thrills in the most tedious way, don't they?

If it's any consolation, it's been said on this forum before that most people in any industry who work with the general public have to deal with plenty of ridiculousness. Of course, we're unfortunate in dealing with 100% horny blokes but I don't think anyone is safe from being phone-wanked at these days. ::)
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Re: My timewaster spider sense is on the blink
« Reply #6 on: 02 September 2010, 08:45:23 am »
Haha that just reminded me of when I used to work in a call centre working on a questionnaire.  Every now and again I would get propositioned.  I used to tell them I was 4 foot wide and 3 foot high with warts on my face and they still chatted me up lol.  This is a serious phone call!!! lol.  Stop asking me out!!! weirdo! hehe
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Re: My timewaster spider sense is on the blink
« Reply #7 on: 03 September 2010, 10:54:46 pm »
Yeah, it's very annoying. I try to be as understanding as I can... these guys are wrestling with their own demons. It's a heady combination, sex and money, and they have worries and concerns we know nothing about.

But it still doesn't make it okay for them to mess us about!