As stated in my previous posts, I just started escorting last week, went live on AW last thursday, and got a lot of messages from men for booking on friday.

My initial 24 hours from the moment I was on AW until my first booking was already stressy.
-I had so many men contacting me, and 95% of these were total time wasters, which was really frustrating.
-Then on Friday morning my AW account gets deactivated for not verifying.
-Then the hotels messed up my booking and whilst I was parading around my room in lingerie and laying out condoms, lube, etc., someone puts a key card in my hotel room - a couple comes walking in and I am startled (the hotel assigned the same room to them)
-Then my first client when I disclose the name of hotel (initially telling him it will be around Birmingham City Centre) which he was absolutely fine with, when I told him the name of the hotel he starts getting anxious telling me he cannot come to Broad Street because he experienced a traumatic incident there with his previous wife
-My client finally plucks the courage to come -as he begins to get comfortable there is a knock on the door - rushing to make sure no one is going to barge in again I open the door. Its the duty manager apologising and asking me to confirm my name for the booking and confirm the name on my debit card (which would be my real name, which I would not want the client to hear!).

After all of that palaver, the first appointment was fine as it could be.

Then my second client came two hours later. He again was super nice and sweet, he actually reminded me exactly of the guy I used to date. One moment I was fine, next moment I started crying. I am SUPER embarrassed looking back at this now, and even reliving it right now whilst typing this out.

I feel it was perhaps an overwhelming day - but has anyone else ever got emotional in front of a client ? :/ - yes its unprofessional I know

Luckily, the guy was so nice and we ended up actually just talking for ages and he didn't even ask for his money back, but I just felt so bad as he was coming to deflower a newbie escort and here he ends up with a crying young woman. 

You need to be very thick skinned to work in the business. You might not be ready for it x

Full Escort may be too much for you.
Have you considered doing massage with HE.

There are always going to be idiots and some send texts only to freak us out with disgusting suggestions about hardsports etc.

You were lucky he was nice to you the next one could get angry and shout at you.

Hotels can be tricky I have heard many times of others walking in or staff walking in.
Get a door stop under your door or put the chain on if there is one.

I used to be a cheeky B when I first started I used to chase men out of my room all the time I never thought about the hotel staff I think I was a little loopy tbh.

Better days now lol I play much nicer and am careful of the staff.

A thick skin is essential.

Full Escort may be too much for you.
Have you considered doing massage with HE.

I don’t think the services she offered would have made a difference to what happened in the hotel. X

On Saturday I planned to roll in to my work flat at 12. 40 min drive. Fancied chilling with son. Local cafe. Nice latte.

Then somebody booked at 11 and I decided I would go at 11.

Then another guy called and I told him 12. He begged for 10. I dropped my plans and rushed in.

He didn’t show. Then the 11am texted at 1050 to say called in to work.

Quiet for hours And constant no shows then when I double booked they both showed. I then felt guilty. Wanted to cry.

Then yesterday was just as bad.

I ended up losing temper with a stupid man who was not listening to my instructions for directions.

Had that been my first day no way would I have returned.

On my first day as an escort I was lucky. Four lovely clients.

Let’s try and help the OP out here without negative comments. X

This reminds me of when I was a taxi driver. Lots of bad days. On my first day they made a point of giving me all the good jobs. I didn’t have a bad first day so I stayed.

I do think I would have insisted he took half the money back if it happened to me.
But I really feel for you as this job can be incredibly stressful and mentally draining at times. I sometimes have fantastic weeks where all the clients are lovely and respectful and I hit my target easily. But I have just as many weeks where the phone barely rings, clients are all horrible and rude, and I just hate everything about the business. It’s swings and roundabouts and it’s important to make time for self care every day to avoid burn out x

Just because your first day didn't go to plan, it is absolute rubbish that this suddenly means it's not for you. Everyone has bad points in any job and that doesn't mean that it isn't for them.

Bad days happen.


I think the fact that you came on here to speak about what happened just goes to show that you're fully capable of giving it another go.

Exactly all of that.

Wholeheartedly agree with the positive comments on here and numerous examples of bad days. This job is like any other; good days and bad days. Sometimes it rolls into good weeks and bad weeks.

You cried because you dealt with an overwhelming amount of unfortunate things happen on your first day. I was lucky, my first day was brilliant. But I did deal with a lot of what you dealt with in regards to TWs, I still do now but I don't even notice it anymore and it certainly doesn't affect me in the way that it did.

You will get used to these aspects, or you'd better had if you want to stick with this job because they will never go away. Things happen in hotels all the time; I once had my room assigned to 3 other sets of guests during a stay; I nearly caused the old dear a heart attack when she walked in to see me pegging a guy!

Pick yourself back up, become fairly strict in who you will and won't see and you will find things to a little smoother.