Author Topic: How can you tell if someone who contacts you is just jealous? (Read 1239 times)

UrbaneAspects · « **on:** 16 August 2010, 04:55:35 pm »

Recently I was contacted by a male massage therapist on my escort ad on the same site. He had similar stats as me (age, height, etc) and in the same town.

Well, I thought his emails were less than savory. His 1st email was, "having any luck?" He then went on to make comments saying how he made lots of money since he's been here, and that he could never do escort work even though 2 clients offered him $650 to watch him have sex with the client's partner

He then went on to say, "well, I have to head back to my real job tomorrow".

I told him that to each is own, and that I wouldn't even take someone offering that amount of money seriously especially on THIS website. I also told him that I like being in a job where Im in control of when I work. If a real job means answering to someone and working fixed hours, suit yourself!

I seriously think he was jealous of my image. Thats why sometimes I just ignore emails from other escorts/working guys

Miss Jameson · « **Reply #1 on:** 18 August 2010, 12:02:57 am »

First off, who does that? I have but once had a young lady ask me was I busy because my ad had more clicks than hers. Even then I thought that was off. What I'm doing is none of your business. That's why I don't like when people ask about how you did when you tour. What works for one person almost never works for another. If you've got advice on bad clients or a good hotel to stay in, that's great. Otherwise, the rest is hearsay and should be kept to one's self.

Whoever that was they should've been ignored from the beginning. And when was the last time you went to the gym?

Apparently you got some pinned up aggression or something that you need to take out on a heavy bag. That's what I do when I find things getting to me. After that, the haters and their comments roll off of you like water off a duck's back.

Love and light sweetcheeks!

*amber* · « **Reply #2 on:** 18 August 2010, 04:26:40 am »

sounds like a arsehole to me

UrbaneAspects · « **Reply #3 on:** 18 August 2010, 04:27:39 am »

Quote from: Miss Jameson on 18 August 2010, 12:02:57 am

What I'm doing is none of your business. That's why I don't like when people ask about how you did when you tour. What works for one person almost never works for another. Whoever that was they should've been ignored from the beginning. And when was the last time you went to the gym? Apparently you got some pinned up aggression or something that you need to take out on a heavy bag.

Well, I was at the gym Sunday lol...but there's been alot of variables affecting me last week day...namely I was running on a total of about 7 hours of sleep for 3 days (I actually snuck in 5 hrs during the overnight)! You're right, he should have been ignored. Come to find out, he actually lives in Dallas! When I seen that, I was like...no wonder. The guys in Dallas must really be having a tough time because even the male dancers are outnumbering the customers.

I got an idea...how about the guys with the 'REAL JOBS' stick to their 'real job' and let the rest of us professionals who realize escorting is a REAL job handle the clients.

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