okay so i am a 20yr oldstudent and started escorting 2years ago until last year when I was introduced to sugardaddy website. I met a guy who wanted an "arrangement" he gave me ?1000 / month and only saw me 2/3 x a month for 6months.

it was well until month 7 in our arrangement my tuition fees went up and i asked him 4an increase in allowance to cover my tuition... that was it I didn't hear from him for a month then a text saying "sorry this didn't work out hope u find someone suitable"I was shocked and confused but it was my fault for asking for more money right?? he left me high & dry.

anyway 1 year later he starts to contact me again by text saying he misses me and we met up for the first time, had sex and he promised money next day but when I woke up he was gone. we arranged to meet again and when we met I asked him 4 allowance and he said was sorting it out. I trusted him as in 1st arrangement he always had my money on time. so after seeing him twice and him waking me up through the night 4sex I have nothing.

anyway he messaged me asking to meet me a 3rd time and replied saying I wanted my allowance 1st because he is enjoying my benefits and I aint got nothing. I am still in shock at the reply he replied " well darling i am not enjoying benefits as u think, I will give u the allowance soon however I have a problem with using condoms, u have to agree not to use them for us to continue"

WHAT THE F%@&? he knows I have always been strict about using condoms 4 my health & his. so I replied him condoms are there to protect us they are a friend not an enemy!! no condoms no sex!! he replied "sorry u feel that way I have had the snip & do not sleep around do u?"

I feel like he is trying to do me out of my money given that he was respectful and always paid allowance in in advance and always agreed to use condoms even the last 2times. what do I  to get my money as he still  asks me to meet him. HELP ME PLEASE

Personally, I would have said 'OK, we can do away with the condoms, but I need you to pay me my allowance first or I'm not going to be able to do it.'

Then blocked him once he'd paid.

But I fear you've learnt an expensive lesson.

I agree, for all the stress he`s put you through he`s lucky not have VAT put on the bill lol.

So yeah, agree, get the money, then walk away, block his number and forget the boundary pushing asshole.

He deserves nothing more!!! xx

okay so i am a 20yr oldstudent and started escorting 2years ago until last year when I was introduced to sugardaddy website. I met a guy who wanted an "arrangement" he gave me ?1000 / month and only saw me 2/3 x a month for 6months.

it was well until month 7 in our arrangement my tuition fees went up and i asked him 4an increase in allowance to cover my tuition... that was it I didn't hear from him for a month then a text saying "sorry this didn't work out hope u find someone suitable"I was shocked and confused but it was my fault for asking for more money right?? he left me high & dry.

anyway 1 year later he starts to contact me again by text saying he misses me and we met up for the first time, had sex and he promised money next day but when I woke up he was gone. we arranged to meet again and when we met I asked him 4 allowance and he said was sorting it out. I trusted him as in 1st arrangement he always had my money on time. so after seeing him twice and him waking me up through the night 4sex I have nothing.

anyway he messaged me asking to meet me a 3rd time and replied saying I wanted my allowance 1st because he is enjoying my benefits and I aint got nothing. I am still in shock at the reply he replied " well darling i am not enjoying benefits as u think, I will give u the allowance soon however I have a problem with using condoms, u have to agree not to use them for us to continue"

WHAT THE F%@&? he knows I have always been strict about using condoms 4 my health & his. so I replied him condoms are there to protect us they are a friend not an enemy!! no condoms no sex!! he replied "sorry u feel that way I have had the snip & do not sleep around do u?"

I feel like he is trying to do me out of my money given that he was respectful and always paid allowance in in advance and always agreed to use condoms even the last 2times. what do I  to get my money as he still  asks me to meet him. HELP ME PLEASE

Asking for more money might have put him off. To be honest it's his choice to pay you or not under his terms and conditions only. s he is the boss in this situation paying your wage. This is why to never rely on others especially sugar daddies as things can change. It sounds to me though that he changed his ways after you asked for an increase. Some men can read very well between the lines. You could always become an independant escort.

I think this explains why Sugar-Daddy deals are never as good as they seem. If you dont set clear boundaries from the start then people are always going to try to push you.

Block him, learn from it and move on.

R xx

Just walk away and forget it. I'm surprised no-one else has said it already.

You've had a reasonable amount of money from him, there's no point in getting fussed about the detail. Maybe it was pushing for more that made him feel he should have more. But whatever, it was experience. Find some normal regulars instead.