That topic is strange... "No, my brother and father never used services of prostitute". Like this is something they are going to mention over the family dinner

Yes Jenny, its very good for a laugh if/when you are quiet and bored. 

Quote from: JennyJazz87 on 10 October 2011, 08:38:18 am

It's an interesting read, but wow it's 26 pages long. That'll take ages to even skim through. I still might do it as I have nothing better to do at the moment.
 

Took me best part of an afternoon (and a fair bit of baccy), in between doing a few other things.   I just want to know what the deleted posts said now!   

I'll carry on today, if I have time. Though many of the responses seemed similiar

curvygrace

I was the mumsnetter whose quote you mentioned

I don't think I have a  crazy, distorted attitude at all.  I am not naive and I absolutely DO  know how men work.  Totally.

All i was trying to say is unless a prostitute really really loves sex with strange men of any age, shape, personality then I doubt she is loving every single meeting with a client.  I am sure that women who enjoy sex with anyone at all are very few.

It was just a comment to highlight mens distorted views on having sex with prostitutes.  It is clear that many completely forget that they are actually paying for it to believe that the woman is having a fantastic shag with lots of orgasms.  While I am sure that this does in fact happen on occasion, I am  sure it is not the norm.

Whilst, I am not trying to be rude to any escorts with my comments I am trying to say how thick some of these men are.  Believing that they have made some fantastic connection.  How fantastic a connection can you actually have if you have to pay a woman?!

No I hacven't worked as a prostitute, but I don't think I need to have experience of the work.  I am a woman and I would most definitely NOT  enjoy having sex with a man I did not not fancy physically, in the same way as a man I did fancy.  I am not saying it could not be a pleasant enough encounter, but that's it.  I do believe that it is a=only a small percentage of women(or men) or really do like having sex with anyone.

Unless working a a prostitute is you only sex life, and even then, I cannot believe that you can be that sexually attracted to these men.

And no, I don't believe that it is only men who have to pay for it that see escorts.  What I meant was how ridiculous it sounds when a man states he has made a connection with a prostitute.  Surely it can never be the same thrill as meeting a woman who actually wants to go out with you/have sex because she actually physically fancies you.

I am generalising and I know that some men like the thrill and are good looking and can pull, those who already have a good sex life at home.  These will be in the minority though.  I am guessing in the main, most clients are married men who are middle aged who could not pull a 20 yr old woman!

Not at all. I am very interested in anyone's opinion on the subject 

I just struggle to see how the majority(not all) of prostitutes really are having a fantastic time sexually with all of their clients.  I may be wrong, but I imagine that this happens a fraction of the time.

Also, please correct me if I am wrong but again, surely the vast majority of men who see escorts are (probably) middle aged men.  I would be very intrested to hear that in actual fact they are all fit, sexy 25 yr old men!!

My post is not a dig at prostitutes at all, more a bit of a dig at men, who are so blinkered that they totally buy into this fantasy  that the girl that they have paid is having such a fantastic time that she would shag him for free.

I know you girls have to be very careful what you say as I guess many clients read what you write!

Sorry mellow, but I don't think you did answer my questions!

You make it sound like your clients are very varied, but are they not, usually middle aged men.  Men, who might not necessarily HAVE to pay for sex in general, but pay to have sex with either much younger or more attractive women?

I am presuming by your posts that you are one of these escorts who does have orgasms very easily with clients?  Again, I think you may be in the minority.

As for getting paid for it rather than for free, again, I am presuming that would normally want of variety and perhaps be one of the rarer women that would have sex with a whole host of men(i dont mean this in a bad way), in the way that a swinger might.  In this instance, I can see why you may as well get paid.

I don't believe most escorts have this mindset though, although I would be interested to hear others responses.

As i said previously though, my post was more about some of the ludicrous comments from men that I have read regarding how the girls they have sex with are having a fantastic time, than why a prostitute does what does

Your presumumptions are breathtaking.

So a little straw poll, who thinks I answered carmey's questions?

Much as I'd love to stay and chat I have men to do and 'things to see'