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Gypsy

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Men Getting Irate Over not Receiving Instant Replies
« on: 02 February 2025, 12:16:21 pm »
Just this really.

Had someone who I've seen before but not for ages email me Friday afternoon about a booking on the 13th. I don't remember this man and he didn't say the length of time or what he wants on that day. I actually had someone in mind of who it could be but I can't be certain. He says to email him back to confirm which I didn't do as he doesn't want to see me until the 13th!!!! That isn't even this week!

He sent me a text just now telling me he'd emailed me. His emails went to junk anyway. The fact that I read them only because I happened to check that folder is not the point, I was going to email him tomorrow to ask him to phone me nearer the time as I do not confirm appointments so far in advance. He might have the software to see what time I'd read the email, but that's not the point.

He's an absolute cockwomble for his attitude. I said to him that I don't always respond straight away to emails on or around the weekend as I don't always work them and I don't work all the time.

What an absolute self entitled tosser! God forbid that I might have actually been taking time off or busy with other things. How awful to presume I'm entitled to a life outside of this!

Really fed up of this attitude  ::) People are so entitled these days it's shocking.

These days there are no Prince Charmings. A girl just has to be her own hero

E_FitGirl

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Re: Men Getting Irate Over not Receiving Instant Replies
« Reply #1 on: 02 February 2025, 01:25:29 pm »
They seem to think we don't have lives, hobbies, friends/family/relationships, or other work outside of this. I think they think we sit in a flat/hotel in lingerie 24/7 waiting for calls.

All businesses have working hours and I dont plan to run mine any differently!

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« Reply #2 on: 02 February 2025, 08:15:30 pm »
Put up an autoresponse on AW (I’m guessing this is where he emailed you).

I was fed up dealing with belends.

If someone has seen me before they get the automated response with further instructions/details etc and the ones that haven’t, don’t follow up with a call as they are mostly wankers sitting on their computers thinking they’re on a dating site.

I love the automated response as you’re not ignoring them but they can’t kick off because you’ve told them exactly how to contact you from there.

They all assume we’re on the job 24/7.

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Re: Men Getting Irate Over not Receiving Instant Replies
« Reply #3 on: 02 February 2025, 10:08:23 pm »
I've had this recently with a guy from a site I haven't previously used.
He wasn't getting irate but was clearly monitering when I had read the messages and if I didn't reply straight back he would send another message.
He seemed an ok guy when we spoke but I'm beginning to wonder now if he'll be trouble in a booking.

Gypsy

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Re: Men Getting Irate Over not Receiving Instant Replies
« Reply #4 on: 03 February 2025, 10:58:57 am »
Put up an autoresponse on AW (I’m guessing this is where he emailed you).

I was fed up dealing with belends.

If someone has seen me before they get the automated response with further instructions/details etc and the ones that haven’t, don’t follow up with a call as they are mostly wankers sitting on their computers thinking they’re on a dating site.

I love the automated response as you’re not ignoring them but they can’t kick off because you’ve told them exactly how to contact you from there.

They all assume we’re on the job 24/7.

No, not AW. Just my email address. 99% of men know it's reasonable I have a life outside this. But he wanted a booking nearly 2 weeks in advance, could understand it more if it was the next day.
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SquirtyQueen

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Re: Men Getting Irate Over not Receiving Instant Replies
« Reply #5 on: 03 February 2025, 11:10:43 am »
Impatient comms are a red flag to me, I think they'll be a pain in the room if they can't even pre-communicate with good manners.

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« Reply #6 on: 03 February 2025, 03:46:13 pm »
I don’t answer emails now. I find it a complete waste of my time, as proved by one I’ve just opened out of curiosity that I received this morning.

Would I give him a 5 minute booking for £20!!!

This is why I don’t answer now.

Gypsy

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Re: Men Getting Irate Over not Receiving Instant Replies
« Reply #7 on: 13 February 2025, 01:42:02 pm »
Figured out who it was. And he was right, not seen him for years. He was okay, but not someone who I'd now see, pushed too many boundaries >:(

Got far too many people I would pick over him now. One of which I did a 90 minute booking with this morning. Lovely, lovely man he is.

And this other guy didn't call when asked, either.

One of those stories where everything worked out for the best in the end :D ;D
These days there are no Prince Charmings. A girl just has to be her own hero