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Title: Male escorts messaging to book
Post by: sparkly_top on 14 March 2021, 04:44:57 pm


Is it just me or do you get lots of male escorts asking to book in? I only realise when I check their profiles on AW.

Always wonder why they do this!
Title: Re: Male escorts messaging to book
Post by: amy on 14 March 2021, 05:12:25 pm
Bless. If they're advertising as straight then it's likely the only way they get any sex.
Title: Re: Male escorts messaging to book
Post by: Mirror on 14 March 2021, 06:10:38 pm
As long as they make a booking like anyone else I am fine.

The market for straight male escorts is reputedly very small.

Title: Re: Male escorts messaging to book
Post by: sparkly_top on 14 March 2021, 06:32:47 pm
Bless. If they're advertising as straight then it's likely the only way they get any sex.

Perhaps.. I didn't even think of this as thought they would be getting enough sex!
Title: Re: Male escorts messaging to book
Post by: Jessiegirl on 14 March 2021, 10:24:36 pm
I've had loads of male escorts message me in the past but i put on my profile I'm not interested. They just want free sex. Some obviously see other escorts and pay based on their feedback.

Some can get quite cocky too expecting you to see them for free as if they're gods gift. Lol
Title: Re: Male escorts messaging to book
Post by: Harriet_Lille on 20 May 2021, 02:15:06 pm
I get them and people in general messaging me asking to do collaborative work, including making videos and cam work.
I don't use male escorts for that, least of all random male escorts on AW.
Title: Re: Male escorts messaging to book
Post by: Tickle on 20 May 2021, 06:10:35 pm
I had one prospective client call and got the feeling I was being messed about when they didn't go into details or nail down a time. They called again in the late evening. For one reason or another I got the feeling I was being bullied. They were parked in the road outsidw ith engine runnign and I cancelled on him and put the phone down. Oh, did that get a snotty response. I hadn't learned how to block calls yet so he kept ringing until I picked up. I think I gave him a mouthful. He came over as a narcissistic arrogant sod and he claimed he was an escort too and messaged his profile address. Like, so what? I don't care and never looked at it. Short version is he was still bullshitting and gaslighting and insulting while claiming to be parked outside when there was nothing there and I could hear the noise of his car driving down a road. I let his ego have the final say just to shut him up. If he was an escort as he claimed he should have known better.

I've had some prospective clients I made the mistake of complimenting for one reason or another and wow does it go to their head. Instant block.

I've had a couple of calls over the years from prospective clients who were trying to con me into being their GFE for free and the odd one who was a timewaster trying to talk me into being his fuck buddy because he though he was god's gift.
Title: Re: Male escorts messaging to book
Post by: English Green on 20 May 2021, 06:18:17 pm
I have had loads message me for a booking and there advertising themselves as a male escort. It's a big turn off so i ignore quite a few of them however some do have feedback from other escorts. I think there trying there luck hoping they can earn a living getting paid but the ones i have seen on there profile i would not pay them haha
Title: Re: Male escorts messaging to book
Post by: PinkestChick on 20 May 2021, 06:32:08 pm
I had one guy begging and begging to make content with me. I had been an escort for like 2 months so was naive and I think he prayed on this. He kept begging to make content with me and I kept telling him that I only wanted to make solo content (take the hint boundary pusher). He was adamant that he was a professional and had made loads of money blah blah blah.

Long story short he ended up booking an hour session anyway, god I wish I'd had the confidence to block his ass earlier because he turns up with a cheesy knob  :-X :-X :-X professional my ass! After he leaves he starts pestering about making content again. When I finally tell him to stick it where the sun don't shine he tries to tell me about how he used to run a franchise of massage parlous and some other fantasy bullshit. Honestly I laugh at myself now about how I handled it looking back.

There's not much more in this industry I hate than fat, ugly, blokes (which he was but besides the point) trying to exploit and profit from genuine sex workers  :FF
Title: Re: Male escorts messaging to book
Post by: Cass on 20 May 2021, 06:40:07 pm
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There's not much more in this industry I hate than fat, ugly, blokes (which he was but besides the point) trying to exploit and profit from genuine sex workers

Me too, I literally hate them and how they prey on young sex workers. They're just the hagglers and boundary pushers who've bought themselves a cheap tripod and lighting set off eBay and use it to try to get themselves a free shag, some wank material and money they've scammed out of someone naive or desperate. Bastards.
Title: Re: Male escorts messaging to book
Post by: Saffy on 20 May 2021, 06:51:48 pm
You have these male escorts bother you especially when you are new hoping to get duo bookings. 

I had clients who were ok left them good feedback on aduktwork. The next thing you know they are now offering services.  One is active at the moment and if he's ever given a woman an orgasm in his life I will eat my shoe!  Whilst he's not ugly and has a medium-large dick, he's  mid 40s and prefers them good looking and 20 years younger...hmmm
Title: Re: Male escorts messaging to book
Post by: PinkestChick on 20 May 2021, 07:11:23 pm
They seem to think that they'll be flooded with work from beautiful women and they'll shag themselves silly because they've convinced themselves that's what we do. The amount of vanilla friends that have asked me if I think that they can make a good amount of money from sex work. I always say "Sure, if you're willing to sell your ass hole". They don't like that response and the conversation usually stops there.

I've only ever had guys from AW tell me that we can make a fortune offering duos and I just laugh now. Once guy was convinced that we could make a boat load of money on OnlyFans because he had found a untapped goldmine that we could advertise on on the internet (you know that place that every sex worker knows about!). His untapped goldmine you ask? Reddit  ::)
Title: Re: Male escorts messaging to book
Post by: oleyoleyWG on 21 May 2021, 01:41:09 pm
Hi the guys that I’ve had messages from that have profiles always always seem to have profile pics with really bent cocks it’s seriously a pattern and makes my stomach turn xx
Title: Re: Male escorts messaging to book
Post by: Maz on 22 May 2021, 09:46:04 am
Me too, I literally hate them and how they prey on young sex workers. They're just the hagglers and boundary pushers who've bought themselves a cheap tripod and lighting set off eBay and use it to try to get themselves a free shag, some wank material and money they've scammed out of someone naive or desperate. Bastards.

Had one of these the other week wanting to do content. Normally I turn them away but was actually up for giving this one a go and had it all arranged until he started asking for a face pic to which I said no. He kept pushing it, saying it's a professional arrangement and there needs to be a level of trust etc.

I still said no but despite that he said he'd still proceed as he could do with the content. I cancelled in the end as I didn't feel up for it anymore. From now on I'll stick to turning them down.

Title: Re: Male escorts messaging to book
Post by: fallen angel on 22 May 2021, 12:19:18 pm
They seem to think that they'll be flooded with work from beautiful women and they'll shag themselves silly because they've convinced themselves that's what we do.

This always makes me chuckle. The times I've heard " You have the best job in the world, getting paid to have sex all day"
Followed by how they would love to do the same.
Until I remind them of the reality  which is that they wouldn't be choosing these women they think they would want to spend all day shagging or even know what they looked like before they arrived and if they didn't fancy them they would still be expected to look happy and give them a good time.
Suddenly it loses its appeal  for them  ;D
Title: Re: Male escorts messaging to book
Post by: Jessiegirl on 22 May 2021, 03:14:40 pm
I used to get a lot of requests from them I decided to put on my profile I'm not interested. If they want to book me that's fine.

I actually know a couple of male escorts and most of their business is with gay men.
Title: Re: Male escorts messaging to book
Post by: Phoenix on 23 May 2021, 04:16:10 pm
This always makes me chuckle. The times I've heard " You have the best job in the world, getting paid to have sex all day"
Followed by how they would love to do the same.
Until I fill them in on the actual reality and that they wouldn't be choosing these women they think they would want to spend all day shagging and that if they got any takers at all they would most likely be 50+ larger and less attractive ladies who weren't able to get it for free ... the female version of the reality of our work life.
Suddenly it loses its appeal  for them  ;D

The reality is that we 50+ women are also earning a very tidy income charging top rates to 20 something young guys  who aren't horrified - indeed prefer - the older woman 😎
Title: Re: Male escorts messaging to book
Post by: fallen angel on 23 May 2021, 05:02:21 pm
The reality is that we 50+ women are also earning a very tidy income charging top rates to 20 something young guys  who aren't horrified - indeed prefer - the older woman 😎

Yes of course, no disrepect meant to any over 50's, it was maybe not the best wording to get the point across but it is a sad fact of life that not everyone is equally blessed in the looks and build department.
I just meant that these guys have a totally skewed idea of what the reality of this work is and when you are not given the chance to see or choose who is going to be walking through the door to avail themselves of your services it suddenly dawns on them that maybe it's not quite the "perfect job" they first assumed.
Title: Re: Male escorts messaging to book
Post by: thickthighs on 23 May 2021, 05:07:35 pm
Yes of course, no disrepect meant to any over 50's, it was maybe not the best wording to get the point across but it is a sad fact of life that not everyone is equally blessed in the looks and build department.
I just meant that these guys have a totally skewed idea of what the reality of this work is and when you are not given the chance to see or choose who is going to be walking through the door to avail themselves of your services it suddenly dawns on them that maybe it's not quite the "perfect job" they first assumed.

yes that was a rather shitty comment to us older larger escorts
Title: Re: Male escorts messaging to book
Post by: fallen angel on 23 May 2021, 05:43:45 pm
yes that was a rather shitty comment to us older larger escorts

Apologies ladies. I've ammended the post so as not to cause offence as none was meant.
Title: Re: Male escorts messaging to book
Post by: Femme fatale on 24 May 2021, 03:04:02 pm
Hi the guys that I’ve had messages from that have profiles always always seem to have profile pics with really bent cocks it’s seriously a pattern and makes my stomach turn xx
It's true I've seen some very odd shaped hardons and coat hangers !
To be honest it looks painful