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Mirror

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Re: making friends with clients
« Reply #30 on: 01 July 2024, 02:15:46 pm »
This worked for me but I didn't do it with every client who wanted to spend time with me, it just clicked into place naturally with one and was only 'temporary' (I had a variety of things to resolve in my life). Now a fair few years into marriage! A year or two before this I did also became friends with another client, but this was on a clear "there'll be no other bookings basis" and no romantic involvement I knew it he knew it.

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Re: making friends with clients
« Reply #31 on: 01 July 2024, 10:43:31 pm »
Majority of the time relationships with clients don't work because they have fallen for your "escort personna" not who you are in real life. And they may well just be after free service. Or just the thrill of the challenge of convincing you to have sex for free. Insist on dating without sexual contact for a period of a few months to ensure they are not using you for freebies. But good luck...you will need it!
« Last Edit: 02 July 2024, 02:50:39 pm by lora »

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Re: making friends with clients
« Reply #32 on: 02 July 2024, 12:36:56 pm »
I have let only a couple through the net but purely for sex and it's not something I do lightly.

They were also married anyway so couldn't and wouldn't want it to go any further

I think it's only human/natural that friendships can end up forming.

I know people in other sectors that have become friends with customers/patients etc.

Doesn't make it ok but sometimes it can't be helped.
« Last Edit: 23 September 2024, 02:31:47 pm by Fifi »

Lushblossom

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Re: making friends with clients
« Reply #33 on: 21 July 2024, 11:06:25 am »
Personally I prefer not to be friends with clients outside of work. I value my me time and am far too busy with other areas of my life.

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Re: making friends with clients
« Reply #34 on: 21 July 2024, 05:14:24 pm »
I don't consider any of them to be friends.
Once they've left they're not thought about until they next contact me.

Mirror

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Re: making friends with clients
« Reply #35 on: 21 July 2024, 09:18:37 pm »
Majority of the time relationships with clients don't work because they have fallen for your "escort personna" not who you are in real life. And they may well just be after free service. Or just the thrill of the challenge of convincing you to have sex for free. Insist on dating without sexual contact for a period of a few months to ensure they are not using you for freebies. But good luck...you will need it!

He noticed the difference immediately, it has to be different I don't want to be in work mode in my personal life.

Dani The Masseuse

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Re: making friends with clients
« Reply #36 on: 22 July 2024, 06:56:12 am »
I have been doing this for a while now but I have found myself making friends with a client.

I have heard the "Pretty Woman" tale of girls marrying clients, I don't think that it is like that.

Usually, I don't let them cross the barrier but I think that we get on like a house on fire.

Am I being foolish?
I know girls who have married clients.  Big mistake. I know girls who've had babies with their married clients.  Guess who's holding the baby alone and guess which one is living his best life?

ScarlettSays

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Re: making friends with clients
« Reply #37 on: 04 September 2024, 11:16:22 pm »
Each to their own. No right or wrong answer.
It's always ended with some issue or other for me. It's a big no now for me. No exceptions!