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Jessiegirl

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Re: making friends with clients
« Reply #15 on: 11 May 2024, 03:59:05 pm »
I've made friends with clients where we click but have clear boundaries so don't meet socially but do text regularly.

An escort friend of mine married a client and are still happily married so it can work.

I had one propose recently but politely declined.

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Re: making friends with clients
« Reply #16 on: 11 May 2024, 11:05:38 pm »
I do worry that I should avoid getting carried away.

I have heard of people getting together with clients, actually a couple that I know met this way (lovely people)... but sometimes it feels so far outside of what I do and who I see to think of this happening.

I'm not sure of where I'd begin.

In honesty, I began doing this as almost a shield between me and anyone else meeting in that way.

Has anyone else done this?
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Re: making friends with clients
« Reply #17 on: 11 May 2024, 11:57:09 pm »
I've made friends with clients where we click but have clear boundaries so don't meet socially but do text regularly.

An escort friend of mine married a client and are still happily married so it can work.

I had one propose recently but politely declined.


Hope you kept the fucking ring!!!!
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Jessiegirl

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Re: making friends with clients
« Reply #18 on: 12 May 2024, 06:05:48 am »
Actually there was no ring. Never thought about that. It was so unexpected.

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Re: making friends with clients
« Reply #19 on: 12 May 2024, 12:19:56 pm »
LOL ;D
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Re: making friends with clients
« Reply #20 on: 14 May 2024, 11:25:40 pm »
Ok, Mr. Handsome is coming to see me on Thursday!

I'm bang in trouble, I think that I could fall in love with this one.

We are speaking on the phone a lot.

I have NEVER let one through the net like this.

Everything inside me would usually say no but I really like this one.

He says the same...... this is going to wind up being a cautionary tale, I just hope not.
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Re: making friends with clients
« Reply #21 on: 14 May 2024, 11:27:35 pm »
.....and I have told him that I can't charge him to see me (but I might need help with the odd bill).... is that bad? He is far better off than me.

I don't want to take advantage but I do need help..... you should see my Eon electric bill!!
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Jessiegirl

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Re: making friends with clients
« Reply #22 on: 15 May 2024, 08:09:07 am »
Depends how long have you been seeing him and felt like this. If not long I'd keep charging until definitely sure.

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Re: making friends with clients
« Reply #23 on: 15 May 2024, 08:50:07 am »
IMO and its only that my opinion,  I would be sitting him down and asking him straight how he felt about me, if he had feelings beyond that of SW and client and be honest and tell him you do.
That conversation also for me would need to include how he felt about you continuing to work while in a relationship with him as this is your job and you don't intend to give it up.

Only once the lines are drawn would I take the financial aspect away from the meetings, but that's me I've boon duped a couple of times and am now more cautious,  I find the good looking ines tend to know they are and know how to play you to move to free sex.

I really hope this is everything you want it to be x

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Re: making friends with clients
« Reply #24 on: 21 June 2024, 07:35:40 pm »
I have found that much more people want to be my friend now, when I'm an escorts, than when I wasn't one haha  ;D
It says something, doesn't it? They want to have you as a friend, and then get friendly sex. Moreover, they don't know you, how can they be your friend? I think when we're working, we're not our real selves most of the time. So what are they planning to base this friendship on?
I think they just want to have a company of a pretty woman, plus, if lucky, friendly sex.
I personally wouldn't be able to have real friendship with someone who knows that I am/was an escort. It will only be a matter of time, when they find out your surname, and then you are at their mercy, they can tell everyone.

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Re: making friends with clients
« Reply #25 on: 22 June 2024, 03:46:43 am »
i advocate not mixing that

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Re: making friends with clients
« Reply #26 on: 22 June 2024, 12:08:33 pm »
mkay but I’m curious as to how OP is getting on 👀 in a similar situation and wondering what to do!x

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Re: making friends with clients
« Reply #27 on: 28 June 2024, 02:43:58 pm »
Nope
It rarely ends up like pretty women

My friends who have done this have found that the punters overall want free sex ( they don’t want a relationship on normal regular terms dating and stuff

It’s just a way of getting lots of free sex and when your tired from work blah blah they still expect you to be in work / GFE mode for them



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Re: making friends with clients
« Reply #28 on: 28 June 2024, 06:30:09 pm »
So many clients both past and present have been great company and full of fun plus very interesting to talk to. That is just in my bedroom. I've no desire at all to meet any of them in the real 🌍

Good luck to any sps who feel differently and take things in a new direction though. Many people find they make friends and even find life partners through their work but this job is a different kettle of fish entirely. It's not "just a job"  where we can tell new friend's pals or relatives what we do for a living.  Not for me anyway.




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Re: making friends with clients
« Reply #29 on: 01 July 2024, 01:17:42 pm »
I'm interested in the outcome of this as initially I can see he's getting free sex.
Hes made an appointment, he should be paying.
In my experience, it rarely ends well and you end up losing time wasted on them plus money they didn't pay, plus money lost from other clients you didn't see because you wanted to spend time with them.