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darkchocolate

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make sure you are clean!
« on: 24 May 2016, 09:56:57 am »
Hello Ladies,

i just called off a booking from a new client because he was just being extremely stupid  :FF. i don't think i over reacted in anyway because i found what he said rather offensive and i don't tolerate such rubbish from people.

So basically, this idiot called me and requested for an hour's appointment which i said fine but then he was so loud on the phone telling me stuffs about how he got kicked off from his flight because he tried to have a fight with someone blah blah blah and needed some time to chill out . I tried to cut him short by asking want time do you want the appointment ? . Then he went on to start asking if he could do some things off my enjoy list and i replied with OK .

Now this is the bit that got me really upset, he started asking me are you clean down there, make sure you are clean, could you have  a wash and kept saying clean the place properly  in a loud tone ! . i got upset because i felt he was being rude about it , i never see a client without having a clean nice shower and am guessing we all do that anyway .

The way he kept going on about it made me so upset that i responded to him by saying excuse me, you don't need to be rude about this and have been seeing clients for long time and none of them has ever spoken to me about cleaning up the way you did . i rarely have someone say that to me  and this only happens once in say every 6 months and even if they do, they say it nicely and this happens mostly with potential clients that am yet to see.

 Most times when they eventually visit, they apologise for asking me to clean up saying that they have had past experience with a WG that didn't shower or clean down there so the thought is best to remind us all to clean up  ::).

Do you ladies get offended by this ? i mean if i said to my potential clients make sure you are very clean and wash your part wouldn't that be rude? but some of them thinks is OK to speak to us like that  :FF. anyway rant over ;D, i just wish to know your opinion on this and please don't tell me i overreacted by calling off the appointment because i won't allow anyone speak to me in such manner all because he's paying me to entertain him  and i could already tell that he is going to be the boundary pushing type just by the way he was speaking to me and the stuffs he said about me kidnapping him ;D ::) 
"they should never mistake my humbleness for stupidity ! i may not speak of it but i recognise bullshit when i see one"

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Re: make sure you are clean!
« Reply #1 on: 24 May 2016, 10:13:00 am »
I would have ended the call as soon as he mentioned trying to have a fight with someone on a plane but yes I would have found him abit offensive but would not have agreed to a booking from the fight on a plane comment first and foremost. He sounds like a nutter.

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Re: make sure you are clean!
« Reply #2 on: 24 May 2016, 10:16:26 am »
I would have ended the call as soon as he mentioned trying to have a fight with someone on a plane but yes I would have found him abit offensive but would not have agreed to a booking from the fight on a plane comment first and foremost. He sounds like a nutter.

You are very right babe ,because of the unsteady flow of business lately have been so desperate to catch up on bills and because of that have been trying to accommodate appointments from people i would never see on a good day >:( .
"they should never mistake my humbleness for stupidity ! i may not speak of it but i recognise bullshit when i see one"

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Re: make sure you are clean!
« Reply #3 on: 24 May 2016, 10:22:55 am »
Yes business is very up and down so I can understand trying to persevere with an enquiry but no matter how slow it's not worth booking in people that are obviously wronguns or continuing with a call when they are cretins.

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Re: make sure you are clean!
« Reply #4 on: 24 May 2016, 06:56:05 pm »
I have to admit, I'm always a bit miffed when someone asks me if I'm clean cause I know my own procedure prior to meeting a client but PLENTY of escorts only use a baby wipe inbetween, it's pretty well documented so although us clean ladies may be slightly put out by it....I can understand why it might be a concern for clients.

But the guy you speak of sounds like a total tool, he took it too far so I don't think you being totally offended and refusing to see him is unreasonable.

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Re: make sure you are clean!
« Reply #5 on: 25 May 2016, 06:26:23 am »
This can be a punter concern, hhowever whether someone with less than good hygiene would adjust their habits is questionable.

I also find that along with a few other questions, it's a sign of a TW.

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Re: make sure you are clean!
« Reply #6 on: 25 May 2016, 08:05:58 am »
Agreed.  "iggy" (ignore) and move on.   ::) you don't need any insults.

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Re: make sure you are clean!
« Reply #7 on: 25 May 2016, 10:01:47 am »
Yes you get those questions time to time, It makes me wonder why they think we don't want to bathe. I hate feeling icky. If anything the scrub down routine is funny to watch after a booking especially if it was a gross client, I squirm in the bath and use up all my exfoliant lol. I think some people can't handle the natural taste/ smell of a vagina, saw a post on instagram the other day about how pussy should taste like lollipops. I mean guess we could use flavoured lube but it goes tacky quick so, and the folk bothered by that will be bothered about all kinds of things that happen during sex like queefing or cramp or the inability to fuck ontop for an hour straight.

katrina

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Re: make sure you are clean!
« Reply #8 on: 25 May 2016, 10:48:38 am »
A potential client has emailed me via adultwork sending long details of what he wants to do in the intended booking as long as I am what he wants ...He says he absolutely loves licking pussy but only if I'm clean fresh and std free...not a problem but the fact he also wants me to 'be really into it and for me to have a shuddering full body orgasm for hours and that he could lick me all day and I'm not to be a clock watcher has put me off him ::)


I have a client coming today who always politely asks if we can shower together at the beginning and I really don't mind at all, this particular client never asks for oral without or to do oral on me either, he never makes any demands or tries to stay longer than he's paid for.  He's a very nice man who I always look forward to seeing  :)


 

Emma_C

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Re: make sure you are clean!
« Reply #9 on: 25 May 2016, 12:39:16 pm »
Sounds like his fight has made him feel the need to humiliate Wgs on the phone as part of his chill out time. What a looney telling someone he's trying to book that he's had a fight on a plane.

Had one guy say it to me once, then he apologiesed for asking. I just laughed & said I had a shower last night so I'm good then laughed so he realised I was joking. It is demeaning to be asked that, a gown woman doesn't need to be told how to behave. I always turn it back around onto them, best way to deal with these types. Makes me laugh same guy turned up for another in the evening & wasn't freshly showered, hypocrite!

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Re: make sure you are clean!
« Reply #10 on: 25 May 2016, 12:55:21 pm »
I hate it when they ask do I keep an eye on the time what on earth do they expect us to do how can we plan our day and have a successful business if we do not?

Kendra

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Re: make sure you are clean!
« Reply #11 on: 25 May 2016, 01:14:09 pm »
Sounds like his fight has made him feel the need to humiliate Wgs on the phone as part of his chill out time. What a looney telling someone he's trying to book that he's had a fight on a plane.

Had one guy say it to me once, then he apologiesed for asking. I just laughed & said I had a shower last night so I'm good then laughed so he realised I was joking. It is demeaning to be asked that, a gown woman doesn't need to be told how to behave. I always turn it back around onto them, best way to deal with these types. Makes me laugh same guy turned up for another in the evening & wasn't freshly showered, hypocrite!

But as I said in my earlier post.....

Us ladies on here clearly look after our own person hygiene so it might be offensive to us when someone assumes we're not clean but PLENTY of escorts don't shower in between so I can totally see why it might be a concern for some clients.

One thing I do hate is when I'm questioned about STI's as if I'm riddled with it. My gum clinic said that a sex worker that doesn't do the likes of bareback etc but comes for regular check ups is probably less risk than a non sex worker as lots of people go out on the weekend and have one night stands where going to visit a gum clinic doesn't enter their head unless they're having symptoms unlike us who take out sexual health seriously.

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Re: make sure you are clean!
« Reply #12 on: 25 May 2016, 03:09:34 pm »
It would annoy me. We are service providers naturally we should be clean, so we really don't need a client to patronise us.

I had a client call me telling me to make sure I shower after every client (I was doing hotel incalls, even then I space them out a good hour sometimes longer so I can chill) and make sure I brush my teeth and use mouthwash before his booking!

My reply was, I hope he also remembers to shower, use soap, mouthwash, brush his teeth and pull his foreskin back when washing his cock, I then put the phone down, so many minutes later I get a text saying "sorry" lol.

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Re: make sure you are clean!
« Reply #13 on: 26 May 2016, 10:43:33 am »
I had one who said ' shower and fresh breath' I text back , of course but I have immaculate white teeth etc .....and he called me with a second and said" I'm so sorry I meant me, I will have showered and fresh breath" it was a great funny booking too xxx

MsDee

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« Reply #14 on: 26 May 2016, 12:33:37 pm »
Hello Ladies,

i just called off a booking from a new client because he was just being extremely stupid  :FF. i don't think i over reacted in anyway because i found what he said rather offensive and i don't tolerate such rubbish from people.

So basically, this idiot called me and requested for an hour's appointment which i said fine but then he was so loud on the phone telling me stuffs about how he got kicked off from his flight because he tried to have a fight with someone blah blah blah and needed some time to chill out . I tried to cut him short by asking want time do you want the appointment ? . Then he went on to start asking if he could do some things off my enjoy list and i replied with OK .

Now this is the bit that got me really upset, he started asking me are you clean down there, make sure you are clean, could you have  a wash and kept saying clean the place properly  in a loud tone ! . i got upset because i felt he was being rude about it , i never see a client without having a clean nice shower and am guessing we all do that anyway .

The way he kept going on about it made me so upset that i responded to him by saying excuse me, you don't need to be rude about this and have been seeing clients for long time and none of them has ever spoken to me about cleaning up the way you did . i rarely have someone say that to me  and this only happens once in say every 6 months and even if they do, they say it nicely and this happens mostly with potential clients that am yet to see.

 Most times when they eventually visit, they apologise for asking me to clean up saying that they have had past experience with a WG that didn't shower or clean down there so the thought is best to remind us all to clean up  ::).

Do you ladies get offended by this ? i mean if i said to my potential clients make sure you are very clean and wash your part wouldn't that be rude? but some of them thinks is OK to speak to us like that  :FF. anyway rant over ;D, i just wish to know your opinion on this and please don't tell me i overreacted by calling off the appointment because i won't allow anyone speak to me in such manner all because he's paying me to entertain him  and i could already tell that he is going to be the boundary pushing type just by the way he was speaking to me and the stuffs he said about me kidnapping him ;D ::)

It is a miracle he managed to have you on the phone for that long, if someone had told me that he got kicked off a flight for picking a fight I would not touch him with a barge pole.