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saltysweet

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Re: Long Term Client that I can't get out of my head!
« Reply #30 on: 11 December 2019, 12:12:10 am »
It's a climance  ;D !
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Re: Long Term Client that I can't get out of my head!
« Reply #31 on: 11 December 2019, 08:17:05 am »
These days there are no Prince Charmings. A girl just has to be her own hero

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Re: Long Term Client that I can't get out of my head!
« Reply #32 on: 14 December 2019, 07:33:14 am »
I always assume a lot of clients are deluded enough to imagine I actually fancy them so when I do fancy them, or, more likely, have a particular ‘yen’ for them if not exactly attraction (like, enjoy their company more than the average client) I take it as par for the course  that many of them will assume it anyway even if on some level they know it’s just the notes what I love  ;D

I have fallen for a client once though. Didn’t end well for me, never again.

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Re: Long Term Client that I can't get out of my head!
« Reply #33 on: 14 December 2019, 09:07:13 am »
I always assume a lot of clients are deluded enough to imagine I actually fancy them so when I do fancy them, or, more likely, have a particular ‘yen’ for them if not exactly attraction (like, enjoy their company more than the average client) I take it as par for the course  that many of them will assume it anyway even if on some level they know it’s just the notes what I love  ;D

I have fallen for a client once though. Didn’t end well for me, never again.

Sorry to hear that  :'(

Yes, I know what you mean about clients who assume that. Those types of men are usually those I don't see again.

This particular client is very humble though. In fact, he is one of the most humble men I have ever met. And that's very attractive to me at least. He's quite shy and even though we had sex in the last booking he was shy about asking for it again.

I'm very glad he did though  ;)

I know where the limits lie though and I don't expect whatsoever anything to happen outside the bedroom.
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Midlands Ms

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Re: Long Term Client that I can't get out of my head!
« Reply #34 on: 14 December 2019, 11:41:51 am »
I think that’s ok as long as you’re able to compartmentalise like that, like, sex with him, it’s work but good work   :)

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Re: Long Term Client that I can't get out of my head!
« Reply #35 on: 15 December 2019, 05:41:57 pm »
I sometimes read forums for men who are looking for escorts.

In these forums, it is a leitmotiv for punters: "do not fall in love with an escort! We cannot trust them, they will not be faithful, etc."

I seem to read in this thread the exact equivalent of what can be found in these forums for men. LOL
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Gypsy

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Re: Long Term Client that I can't get out of my head!
« Reply #36 on: 15 December 2019, 06:37:41 pm »
I sometimes read forums for men who are looking for escorts.

In these forums, it is a leitmotiv for punters: "do not fall in love with an escort! We cannot trust them, they will not be faithful, etc."

I seem to read in this thread the exact equivalent of what can be found in these forums for men. LOL

 :D :D :D LOL
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Re: Long Term Client that I can't get out of my head!
« Reply #37 on: 18 December 2019, 07:23:01 am »
e delusion sligtly off topic but i had a client last night say; "my problem is that all you girls fall in love with me all the time" to which i audibly snorted as he was not just average looking but very overweight , facially really not great and kind of drooled everywhere plus supreme arrogance. anyway i thought he was joking, but he elaborated. "you think you won't but you'll surprise yourself. they all fall for me"
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Re: Long Term Client that I can't get out of my head!
« Reply #38 on: 18 December 2019, 10:38:03 am »
I sometimes read forums for men who are looking for escorts.

In these forums, it is a leitmotiv for punters: "do not fall in love with an escort! We cannot trust them, they will not be faithful, etc."

I seem to read in this thread the exact equivalent of what can be found in these forums for men. LOL

I think I would be less likely to cheat, why the F would i be wanting to give it up for free lol
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Re: Long Term Client that I can't get out of my head!
« Reply #39 on: 18 December 2019, 11:44:07 am »
I think I would be less likely to cheat, why the F would i be wanting to give it up for free lol

Some people may consider any sex paid or not as cheating.

Some members here post about not being able to tell partners they are sex working, some don't want anyone else to know.

Also they don't know what we tell other clients.

Don't know if anyone else feels this but there's a perception if a woman can have sex with different partners, she isn't trustworthy.

This can be applied to man but I think it's more so for women.

But yes paid sex work can for me provide the excitement of an extra encounter within convenient boundaries, keeps me under control. Anything outside of a booking and or not agreed with my private life would be cheating.

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Re: Long Term Client that I can't get out of my head!
« Reply #40 on: 18 December 2019, 11:45:42 am »
I think I would be less likely to cheat, why the F would i be wanting to give it up for free lol

Yes, exactly!

They must mean by working is to cheat  ::) ::)
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Re: Long Term Client that I can't get out of my head!
« Reply #41 on: 18 December 2019, 02:07:48 pm »
Yes, exactly!

They must mean by working is to cheat  ::) ::)

Ha ha so they would want us to stop working as well. OMG now I really have broken out into a sweat. Definitely the single life for me  ;D
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