Author Topic: Long Term Client that I can't get out of my head! (Read 5237 times)

China_Grl · « **Reply #15 on:** 25 November 2019, 11:58:48 am »

Bad idea to mix business with pleasure

ana30 · « **Reply #16 on:** 25 November 2019, 12:02:56 pm »

Quote from: China_Grl on 25 November 2019, 11:58:48 am

Bad idea to mix business with pleasure

This.

Gypsy · « **Reply #17 on:** 25 November 2019, 12:58:23 pm »

I'm sure there's a regular poster on here that has a married client as a boyfriend. I'm surprised she hasn't commented as she posts quite often.

I'm absolutely sure there is at least one lady who is in that situation.

Lushblossom · « **Reply #18 on:** 25 November 2019, 01:30:35 pm »

Those situations are rare indeed though.

ana30 · « **Reply #19 on:** 25 November 2019, 07:37:27 pm »

Quote from: Gypsy on 25 November 2019, 12:58:23 pm

I'm sure there's a regular poster on here that has a married client as a boyfriend. I'm surprised she hasn't commented as she posts quite often.

I'm absolutely sure there is at least one lady who is in that situation.

Yep, and for every lady who met her partner as a punter and ended in a successful relationship with him there's 10 who ended up with a broken heart or in an unsuccessful relationship. I'm not saying ending in a sucesful relationship with a client doesn't happen, it does, but it's just a rare thing. It defo doesn't happen with a married guy who only sees you for sex, has never introduced you to his family and circle of friends nor discuss having a real relationship.

regieeee · « **Reply #20 on:** 25 November 2019, 08:50:20 pm »

This is more like "infatuation" entirely different from realistic "romantic" prospect.

I often think we do it when the hormones are still active.

Society also reinforces this idea "there has to be something special" going on when there's sexual chemistry. There has to be more. "He has seen me all these years. I must be special to him". "Pretty Woman" for example.
There's nothing wrong to have this sort of feelings, though.
He paid for his fantasy. You delivered.
It's all nice.
Everyone is happy.
Better than "oh, what an awful booking".

Gypsy · « **Reply #21 on:** 25 November 2019, 09:27:28 pm »

Quote from: regieeee on 25 November 2019, 08:50:20 pm

This is more like "infatuation" entirely different from realistic "romantic" prospect.

I often think we do it when the hormones are still active.

Society also reinforces this idea "there has to be something special" going on when there's sexual chemistry. There has to be more. "He has seen me all these years. I must be special to him". "Pretty Woman" for example.
There's nothing wrong to have this sort of feelings, though.
He paid for his fantasy. You delivered.
It's all nice.
Everyone is happy.
Better than "oh, what an awful booking".

Lol, yes that's very true!

And I don't want anything to change as such ... I'd be absolutely horrified if he wanted an actual relationship and me to stop working etc etc etc ...

So I suppose it's all good

ana30 · « **Reply #22 on:** 26 November 2019, 01:10:22 am »

Quote from: Gypsy on 25 November 2019, 09:27:28 pm

Lol, yes that's very true!

And I don't want anything to change as such ... I'd be absolutely horrified if he wanted an actual relationship and me to stop working etc etc etc ...

So I suppose it's all good

I believe you just answered your initial question

Enjoy it while it lasts! (insert jealous emoji on this space)

Gypsy · « **Reply #23 on:** 26 November 2019, 08:03:49 am »

Quote from: Ana30 on 26 November 2019, 01:10:22 am

I believe you just answered your initial question

Enjoy it while it lasts! (insert jealous emoji on this space)

Thank you

And thanks to everyone who has commented. I just needed to get this off my chest instead of having it go around my head all the time.

Newbie81xx · « **Reply #24 on:** 26 November 2019, 04:52:45 pm »

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Gypsy · « **Reply #25 on:** 26 November 2019, 10:21:08 pm »

Quote from: Newbienomore on 26 November 2019, 04:52:45 pm

And thanks to everyone who has commented. I just needed to get this off my chest instead of having it go around my head all the time.

Now you have purged...... bin him off .....from personal experience I now know to NEVER mix business with pleasure.

Well, as I said in my first post this guy can go a long time without booking anything. I saw him at the end of January this year and then he next turned up in August!

So I may not have to bin him off as such, if he ever books again he'll probably have forgotten all about it.

Gypsy · « **Reply #26 on:** 27 November 2019, 03:34:21 pm »

I have just looked back in my books - for the first time in 4 years! - and I have only seen this guy 10 times.

That's not very many $:-\$

I think I first met him in August 2017. Again, I thought it was earlier than that and I could have sworn I've seen him twice as many times as I have done! And as far as I'm aware he's only phoned me once where I couldn't see him, although I didn't save his number at first, so he could have phoned me more. But if he kept getting no response then surely he would have given up ...

I must think about him a lot to think I've seen him more times than I actually have done! That's the only explanation I can think of anyway.

He must see other people, although I seem to remember him saying he doesn't. But with the results I've just found I don't trust my memory much at the moment!

Mirror · « **Reply #27 on:** 27 November 2019, 05:56:55 pm »

Quote from: Gypsy on 27 November 2019, 03:34:21 pm

I have just looked back in my books - for the first time in 4 years! - and I have only seen this guy 10 times.

That's not very many $:-\$

I think I first met him in August 2017. Again, I thought it was earlier than that and I could have sworn I've seen him twice as many times as I have done! And as far as I'm aware he's only phoned me once where I couldn't see him, although I didn't save his number at first, so he could have phoned me more. But if he kept getting no response then surely he would have given up ...

I must think about him a lot to think I've seen him more times than I actually have done! That's the only explanation I can think of anyway.

He must see other people, although I seem to remember him saying he doesn't. But with the results I've just found I don't trust my memory much at the moment!

I don't think it's necessarily frequency or booking length related, I know there are people I sort of 'know' even though I only bump into them once or twice a year - and this goes for clients too. Some clients I only see every 6-12 months, others monthly there can still be a connection or feeling of 'knowing' BUT that doesn't mean there's an unhealthy attachment and neither do I have any ideas in my head about anything other than a client relationship. Just depends who the person is, and how you keep it real and box it off.

regieeee · « **Reply #28 on:** 27 November 2019, 07:52:23 pm »

"When I was younger . . "

Maybe, you need to cherish the sort of sentiment you have now whilst it lasts!

It's easy to appreciate how lonely you might be feeling if you are young and should be "cuddling up" with a partner. Maybe, it's him "for now" but it could be someone else next. It's fairly common for someone so young and a likely very pretty woman to feel the way you do.

I develop certain positive emotion towards a long-term "married" client, who visited me from further afield once or twice a year. That's precious, especially in my age group!

Gypsy · « **Reply #29 on:** 10 December 2019, 06:42:31 pm »

Well, I have seen this man again so he didn't frighten himself off over what happened last month.

We did the usual stuff but I couldn't help but wonder how the booking would end. Would we just revert back to what we usually do or would we have sex again. Anyway, I only had to wait half an hour to see.

I left it up to him what he wanted to do - I did not suggest anything. But he wanted to have sex again and again it was rather intense. Lots and lots of eye contact and kissing.

I really don't think he knows I fancy him. Every time I pay him a compliment he is genuinely surprised. And he beams at me, which is funny and sweet at the same time.

I'm enjoying it for what it is anyway. Thank you, Mirror, I think you gave the best advice

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