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Alessandra A

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Lonely on tour
« on: 17 June 2015, 01:21:38 am »
I'm on tour right now for 10 days, I've never been on a tour alone before and I'm only on my 3rd day, but I feel lonely when I'm not with a client. Does anyone else feel like this? And what do you do to keep yourself busy so your not feeling alone, it also sucks because I have my sister here but she doesn't know what I do so I can't really let her know that I'm in her city.

Also, has anyone ever got a sore jaw from either grinding your teeth at night or from stress, I guess with stressing about this tour, my jaw is acting up and today's been the worse, I don't know what uv can do for the pain as it is interfering with my work - bjs!

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Re: Lonely on tour
« Reply #1 on: 17 June 2015, 08:42:26 am »
Many touring escorts will only do two/three/four days max on a tour for this very reason.  I'm one of them.  I just like to know my family are close to me and have my home comforts to hand.

I never toured with anyone so don't know what it's like but there is probably a big difference, as in, at the end of a working day you have someone to let steam off with.

Do you have the nature to go out and relax somewhere on your own, if say, you finish work at 7 pm.
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Re: Lonely on tour
« Reply #2 on: 17 June 2015, 08:53:55 am »
There's some ideas for things to do here http://www.saafe.info/main/index.php?topic=26208.60 :)

I can't help much because I always work by myself, but if you've got wifi could you find one of your (work) friends to chat to on Skype? It's not quite the same, but at least you can have a moan about work if you want to. I did three weeks solid touring Ireland by myself a couple of years ago and I was just about certifiable by the time I got back.

Failing that, does your hotel have a gym or a pool you could try just to get out of the room for a bit?

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Re: Lonely on tour
« Reply #3 on: 17 June 2015, 12:34:35 pm »
Yes me too...it can be so lonely, I'd only tour with my girlfriend.
Teeth grinding is a stress reaction....
Body and mind are saying, 'We don't like this situation and we are protesting! >:('

Once you sort out your work issues it should go away.
But I agree with Amy, physical activities, dancing, running,walking
skipping, yoga etc should release some of the physical tension.
Got Youtube on your laptop?

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Re: Lonely on tour
« Reply #4 on: 18 June 2015, 07:01:09 pm »
Sweet mother of jesus; 10 days?!!! I feel like that after one day of working. I haven't really dabbled in tours much, the most being 2 days, and I found that very lonely at night. I just got stuck into Netflix.

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Re: Lonely on tour
« Reply #5 on: 18 June 2015, 09:16:54 pm »
There's some ideas for things to do here http://www.saafe.info/main/index.php?topic=26208.60 :)

I can't help much because I always work by myself, but if you've got wifi could you find one of your (work) friends to chat to on Skype? It's not quite the same, but at least you can have a moan about work if you want to. I did three weeks solid touring Ireland by myself a couple of years ago and I was just about certifiable by the time I got back.

Failing that, does your hotel have a gym or a pool you could try just to get out of the room for a bit?

 :o that's just outrageous... Amy lol
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Re: Lonely on tour
« Reply #6 on: 19 June 2015, 07:55:42 am »
I'm on tour right now for 10 days, I've never been on a tour alone before and I'm only on my 3rd day, but I feel lonely when I'm not with a client. Does anyone else feel like this? And what do you do to keep yourself busy so your not feeling alone, it also sucks because I have my sister here but she doesn't know what I do so I can't really let her know that I'm in her city.

Also, has anyone ever got a sore jaw from either grinding your teeth at night or from stress, I guess with stressing about this tour, my jaw is acting up and today's been the worse, I don't know what uv can do for the pain as it is interfering with my work - bjs!

Xoxo
Hi If you want to get yourself some rescue remedy few drops on the tongue its a herbal treatment and works well for stress it may help with the jaw grinding I do that all the time but I do take sleeping pills if it gets so bad my mouth can become very painful and its not just the blow jobs on large cocks causing it I can tell you. also it does get lonely on the tours I am often using my laptop watching catch up tv online  in the hotel rooms its a killer when its too quite ,I was so busy last week I didn't have time to think but its not always like that is it.

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Re: Lonely on tour
« Reply #7 on: 19 June 2015, 08:03:15 am »
Sweet mother of jesus; 10 days?!!! I feel like that after one day of working. I haven't really dabbled in tours much, the most being 2 days, and I found that very lonely at night. I just got stuck into Netflix.

I know! I thought 10 days would be great for me, I was just being money hungry and thought I'd be able to make a few thousand. But I got home sick pretty fast and then cut it short, only 6 days! Still a long time, but I'm looking forward to sleeping in my own bed !

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Re: Lonely on tour
« Reply #8 on: 19 June 2015, 08:06:45 am »
I'm on tour right now for 10 days, I've never been on a tour alone before and I'm only on my 3rd day, but I feel lonely when I'm not with a client. Does anyone else feel like this? And what do you do to keep yourself busy so your not feeling alone, it also sucks because I have my sister here but she doesn't know what I do so I can't really let her know that I'm in her city.

Also, has anyone ever got a sore jaw from either grinding your teeth at night or from stress, I guess with stressing about this tour, my jaw is acting up and today's been the worse, I don't know what uv can do for the pain as it is interfering with my work - bjs!

Xoxo
Hi If you want to get yourself some rescue remedy few drops on the tongue its a herbal treatment and works well for stress it may help with the jaw grinding I do that all the time but I do take sleeping pills if it gets so bad my mouth can become very painful and its not just the blow jobs on large cocks causing it I can tell you. also it does get lonely on the tours I am often using my laptop watching catch up tv online  in the hotel rooms its a killer when its too quite ,I was so busy last week I didn't have time to think but its not always like that is it.

Thanks Hun! It was definitely from stress and being in a new surroundings! It ended up getting very bad on my second day I went and bought some muscle relaxers and that did the trick!
I was very busy the last couple days so I didn't get to think much about being lonely, only exhausted and sore! LOL but one more day and I'll be on the plane home!
Thanks for the quick remedy I'll keep that in mind next time it happens :)

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Re: Lonely on tour
« Reply #9 on: 19 June 2015, 10:26:04 pm »
I have no issue touring alone but I miss my pets and that level of work tends to make me tired and burned out fast so I do no more than 5 days.

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Re: Lonely on tour
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