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ladyofthemansion

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Letting guys use your loo before they've paid.
« on: 17 October 2012, 02:08:23 pm »
Grr. Just had one asshole use my loo then come out with the pathetic cash machine excuse and of course he didn't return.

Have let loads guys use my loo in the past before before handing me the money.

Now wondering if I have to change that and am I going to sound really petty for saying you can't have a wee till you've paid!

So annoyed! :-(
I'm glad I got all the Cynthia Payne books before the prices rocked to sky high.

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Re: Letting guys use your loo before they've paid.
« Reply #1 on: 17 October 2012, 02:44:48 pm »
If they say - could i nip to the loo first? just say - lets sort out the money first then you can nip anywhere you like.

As soon as they walk through the door ask for payment, dont feel cheeky about doing this.

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Re: Letting guys use your loo before they've paid.
« Reply #2 on: 17 October 2012, 04:30:06 pm »
I have only had one of these and he had left the door open slightly and I could see him wanking in the toilet so when he came out and said he was leaving I told him straight as he had obviously had a service of sorts he could either pay me or I would call the police (I was bluffing as nothing they could have done about it) and he suddenly found my fee.  I just wonder how many other ladies he had gone to see and wanked in the loo for his thrill of wanking in an escorts toilet and walked away without paying
What type of man gets his thril from wanking in a womans loo then walking away??   :FF :FF

Now I always take the money from them and then show them the bathroom to stop this type of thing.  I also no longer get amazed or stunned/shocked by the actions of some
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Re: Letting guys use your loo before they've paid.
« Reply #3 on: 17 October 2012, 05:54:49 pm »
Grr. Just had one asshole use my loo then come out with the pathetic cash machine excuse and of course he didn't return.

Have let loads guys use my loo in the past before before handing me the money.

Now wondering if I have to change that and am I going to sound really petty for saying you can't have a wee till you've paid!

So annoyed! :-(

Maybe that guy was looking an excuse to see you first...
to check whether it was convenient or not to be with you.
 ??? ??? ??? ???

Escort38

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Re: Letting guys use your loo before they've paid.
« Reply #4 on: 17 October 2012, 06:07:46 pm »
This is an odd one.  If a new client asks to use the toilet as soon as he is in the front door I never refuse him. None
have decided not to stay though and I have just assumed they have a genuine need to pee or wash their hands.
Not getting into the subject of guys using the loo but not washing hands, that is for another thread  ::)

I suppose some men will ask to go to the bathroom to make a quick decision whether they like you or not, to be honest
I have never really thought about it.

If a new man comes in and asks to use the bathroom as soon as I have closed the door  then I would not feel right asking
him to pay me first, I always have a couple of minutes chat with a new one before asking for my fee. He has the right to look me
over in a discreet way and it is his decision to stay or leave. None have ever left but my opinion is they have the right to, the fee
is a lot of money to spend and men are entitled to be happy with what they see. Others may disagree with me.

I was shocked reading that you caught him wanking though!!  I must be naive. Never imagined they might do this!
You learn something every day in this job  ::)

ladyofthemansion

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Re: Letting guys use your loo before they've paid.
« Reply #5 on: 17 October 2012, 06:11:04 pm »
I have on odd occasion had walk outs and agree that is their right but I don't use a bog in a restaurant If I'm not spending money.
I'm glad I got all the Cynthia Payne books before the prices rocked to sky high.

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« Reply #6 on: 17 October 2012, 06:14:04 pm »
I shall charge them ?1.00 to use the loo like they used to do in Harrods!!!  ;)

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« Reply #7 on: 17 October 2012, 06:16:23 pm »
Happened to me once, work called him in. If it wasn't for the fact he had seen me several times previously, and had written some very good things about me online I'd have taken it personally. Never seen him again but suspect it's more to do with personal situation than anything else.

Did use the loo in a coffee shop yesterday without buying anything, result of local council closing all public conveniences and I wasn't going to go into McDonalds after the last time.

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Re: Letting guys use your loo before they've paid.
« Reply #8 on: 17 October 2012, 06:17:24 pm »
I shall charge them ?1.00 to use the loo like they used to do in Harrods!!!  ;)
;D ;D ;D


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Re: Letting guys use your loo before they've paid.
« Reply #9 on: 17 October 2012, 11:39:08 pm »
Don't take it personally.
Not everybody is everyone's cup of tea and I'm sure at some point we will all get a client who doesn't find what they had envisaged. It is a lot of money that they are paying and I feel that if I wasn't what they expected then of course they have the right to leave in a courteous manner.
I do think some of them do it just so that they can see you in the flesh and had never had any intention of paying in the first place. Some do it because they genuinely get cold feet. Some do it 'for a laugh' and some do it because they have nothing better to do and are a bit pathetic. No point in letting it bother you, just another reason to pity some of these guys.

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Re: Letting guys use your loo before they've paid.
« Reply #10 on: 18 October 2012, 12:56:49 am »
Grr. Just had one asshole use my loo then come out with the pathetic cash machine excuse and of course he didn't return.

Have let loads guys use my loo in the past before before handing me the money.

Now wondering if I have to change that and am I going to sound really petty for saying you can't have a wee till you've paid!

So annoyed! :-(

what a cheeky cu......

ladyofthemansion

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Re: Letting guys use your loo before they've paid.
« Reply #11 on: 18 October 2012, 05:19:03 am »
I would prefer them to say that I am not what they are looking for than the stupid excuses. Wish I had tried to get some money out of him for wasting my time. My toilet feels soiled now!
I'm glad I got all the Cynthia Payne books before the prices rocked to sky high.

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Re: Letting guys use your loo before they've paid.
« Reply #12 on: 18 October 2012, 05:16:41 pm »
I'm the same re guys not having the balls to say we are not what does it for them. 

What you got to remember is that guys who are not 'allowed' to use your loo might simply go outside your main door wherever it is and pee there. 

There have been guys known to wank and spunk all over a femmes door when something didnt go right, so if you refuse them your loo be prepared for a mess outside our door, it may not happen but then again it might. ::)
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ladyofthemansion

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Re: Letting guys use your loo before they've paid.
« Reply #13 on: 18 October 2012, 06:11:54 pm »
If some guy spiked on my door I'd cause him untold shit with his DNA!
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Re: Letting guys use your loo before they've paid.
« Reply #14 on: 29 October 2012, 08:55:33 pm »
I have only had one of these and he had left the door open slightly and I could see him wanking in the toilet so when he came out and said he was leaving I told him straight as he had obviously had a service of sorts he could either pay me or I would call the police (I was bluffing as nothing they could have done about it) and he suddenly found my fee.  I just wonder how many other ladies he had gone to see and wanked in the loo for his thrill of wanking in an escorts toilet and walked away without paying
What type of man gets his thril from wanking in a womans loo then walking away??   :FF :FF

Now I always take the money from them and then show them the bathroom to stop this type of thing.  I also no longer get amazed or stunned/shocked by the actions of some

I've had this happen to me. I couldn't see him but I could hear *icky*. I wish I'd walked in on him and frog marched him out sans pants, but I was to stunned at the sheer cheek.

But generally I find a lot of the guys ask to pee, even before we manage pleasantries, are really nervous. They get exam stress symptoms. I - like most people - have had walkers and usually they just walk asap. I've stopped conjecturing on the reasons why because it offers the potential of giving a subjective opinion, a particularly dubious form of subjective opinion (person looking for sex) too much validity. I just make sure I never wear anything too revealing when they book, if they've never met me before, so they don't get a free eye-full.

Of on a small tangent... I had one client once admit to me that he booked a couple of escorts sometimes whenever he wanted a service, and if he 'wasn't sure' about the first he'd go on to the second. If the first was 'adequate' he'd leave the other one tapping her fingers. I had to smile through bleeding gums when he told me that one...  >:(