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casey_kisses

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Re: Letting guys use your loo before they've paid.
« Reply #15 on: 29 October 2012, 09:24:00 pm »
I had a client the other week who spent *ages* in the toilet before coming out, and I remember thinking I wonder if hes getting himself off. Turns out he was- he couldn't come and he was a relatively young guy. It really annoyed me because he ended up going over time. Gah. Men.

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Re: Letting guys use your loo before they've paid.
« Reply #16 on: 03 November 2012, 10:40:01 pm »
I'm sure if you just politely ask for payment before they do so then that would be fine. As for making it a new 'rule' I'm sure that such a thing would be unlikely to happen again - you've just had a bit of bad luck  :-\

Yes money first before using the loo that's my policy, happened to me once and now wiser lol.

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« Reply #17 on: 03 November 2012, 11:51:01 pm »
I used to allow them to use the loo first never again after tonight's incident. He pretended going toilet, I could here him wanking. The idiot then came up with the left credit card in car story.

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Re: Letting guys use your loo before they've paid.
« Reply #18 on: 05 November 2012, 09:32:16 am »
I used to allow them to use the loo first never again after tonight's incident. He pretended going toilet, I could here him wanking. The idiot then came up with the left credit card in car story.

What an idiot!

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« Reply #19 on: 05 November 2012, 12:36:57 pm »
Betty i want you to put a sign up on youre bathroom door, *a wank and a wee is not for free* !!!  ;D

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« Reply #20 on: 05 November 2012, 12:54:51 pm »
After having this new system in place is working wonders. As thought that it would be awkward saying lets sort the money out first polity. To be honest if that is how they spend their time wanking in the toilet after so be it. I wouldn't mind at all.

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« Reply #21 on: 05 November 2012, 05:44:55 pm »
Betty i want you to put a sign up on youre bathroom door, *a wank and a wee is not for free* !!!  ;D

Will do Orchid hahaha. ;D

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Re: Letting guys use your loo before they've paid.
« Reply #22 on: 08 November 2012, 12:06:18 am »
I've luckily never had this problem, I can't believe it! lol though the cheek some of them have never suprises me, anything for a freebie..

Did you leave feedback on his profile?

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« Reply #23 on: 08 November 2012, 04:15:28 pm »
I've luckily never had this problem, I can't believe it! lol though the cheek some of them have never suprises me, anything for a freebie..

Did you leave feedback on his profile?

Not sure who that was aimed at but....

As a rule no mater how bad the guy is never to leave them bad feedback. If the case I just ignore it. I have more to lose than a punter. I read on here once that the guy left negative after it was done to him. Any negatives may affect business, it's to bigger risk to take.

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Re: Letting guys use your loo before they've paid.
« Reply #24 on: 08 November 2012, 05:53:05 pm »
REALLY? If that is the majority decision of my fellow working girls then it makes me despair a little.  :(

I very rarely use AW, but if I do get a booking request I ALWAYS look for any negative feedback before I consider accepting. Even something as little as 'cancelled with notice' will help me prepare for the instance of him letting me down at least.
I have very little feedback on there and all of it is positive BUT.. if I was ever given a rough ride by anyone I would have no hesitation in warning other ladies about him.
I wouldn't give a fig if it was twisted by him in return as I think any decent bloke would see through it.

In my experience they all assume that all our other clients are smelly bug-eyed monsters who treat us badly anyway and will just pity even more perhaps?  ;D
« Last Edit: 08 November 2012, 05:54:46 pm by Phoenix »

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Re: Letting guys use your loo before they've paid.
« Reply #25 on: 08 November 2012, 06:32:16 pm »
REALLY? If that is the majority decision of my fellow working girls then it makes me despair a little.  :(

I very rarely use AW, but if I do get a booking request I ALWAYS look for any negative feedback before I consider accepting. Even something as little as 'cancelled with notice' will help me prepare for the instance of him letting me down at least.
I have very little feedback on there and all of it is positive BUT.. if I was ever given a rough ride by anyone I would have no hesitation in warning other ladies about him.
I wouldn't give a fig if it was twisted by him in return as I think any decent bloke would see through it.

I know this is all going off topic but I completely agree.  I think its really important if someone treats you badly/messes you around a lot its important to note this and also that its my duty to warn other girls.  I couldn't give a toss if the guy tries to retaliate.

Actually one guy retaliated horribly (not with feedback) when I left neutral feedback but would I do it again, yes I would.  I've only ever had to leave negative feedback once and it was well deserved.  Obviously I would never leave bad or even neutral feedback for silly or petty reasons.

Going back to the bathroom issue, funnily enough the other week I allowed 2 guys to use the loo before their booking, and I had this thread in my head.  However all was good - usually its not something I allow however.

meetingdiversity

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Re: Letting guys use your loo before they've paid.
« Reply #26 on: 08 November 2012, 06:32:51 pm »
It's just how I operate.

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Re: Letting guys use your loo before they've paid.
« Reply #27 on: 08 November 2012, 07:00:17 pm »
However all was good - usually its not something I allow however.

Forgive me if I am reading this wrong but Ive had a not so good day .... but it shall pass.

Are you saying if a guy asked to use your toilet/bathroom you would not allow it? Thats how I've read it.  Am I wrong?
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LadyLove

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Re: Letting guys use your loo before they've paid.
« Reply #28 on: 08 November 2012, 08:28:28 pm »
I think you've misunderstood,  I was just responding there to the thread title there which was money first, bathroom after.

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Re: Letting guys use your loo before they've paid.
« Reply #29 on: 08 November 2012, 08:34:02 pm »
Thank goodness for that, I thought it was rather harsh.

I got to be honest sometimes I find it difficult to read posts if there is no punctuation (not in your case) as it all runs into one sentence and most of the time doesnt make sense.
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