Not as unusual as it sounds, certainly in my experience. As long as he wants to continue and it doesn't freak you out why would you end the appointment ? I'm assured that stiff or not most things will feel good. Clearly penetration will be as successful as plunging the sink with a blancmange but other than that. I just switch to gentle and teasing (lips, necks nipps, balls, fingers) rather than fast and furious and they often rise to the occasion after a while anyway (certainly once they have moved past the performance anxiety). 

Definitely no reason to end the appointment!

Lots of Clients dont manage to get a hard-on all the time you're concentrating on it. This is particularly true of older Clients and the ones with health issues but nerves can affect even the youngest fittest man. Like Juicylucy says a change of pace can often work, or if you've been the more active partner try getting him to do things to you for a change. If he can stop thinking of his hard-on for a few minutes it's amazing what can pop up when it previously seemed dead! It's fine to ask a Client to show you how he touches himself too and I have to say I've seen some pretty surprising techniques that I would -never- have tried if I hadn't seen them do it to themselves first!

Just relax though - anxiety wont help either of you and it's perfectly possible for a Client to leave happy even though he hasn't managed to orgasm. If you can deal with the situation in a nice way and make sure that they dont end up feeling like they in some way 'failed' then I quite often find they come back to see me again. (And again and again!)

R xx

Quote from: lucyjuicy on 23 January 2013, 11:57:06 am

Clearly penetration will be as successful as plunging the sink with a blancmange but other than that.

Bwahahahahaha...oh thank you for making me laugh, I needed that!

My pleasure 

Ladies i had a 1.5hr booking with a client whos large floppy cock just wouldnt get hard, even with poppers(he enjoyed them)
I felt worried as time was going really slow, i sucked and played lots for him & he wanted to fuck but it wouldnt get hard.
In the end he admitted to being nervous and he got himself hard  -how i dont know and it came on him!. 
He had requested me do  analplay to him which was fine but no rising in the crouch department
In future should i end bookings like this early ?
any advice welcome x

Orchid something like this happened to me also, and I will share.. just because you mention your client was 'large'

I had a well endowed client that I thought wasn't hard, I thought he was 'semi' throughout the booking until he came in my mouth, ha!
I am thinking because he was particularly large he didn't get that hardness we are used to because he was too big? 

Even if this wasn't the case with your client, what other have said will be right. Just be relaxed and casually ask what you could do for him to get him going. Don't end the booking - I think that's up to him x Don't feel bad at all xxxxx

Once a guy came to see me for a quickie, he was massive and the condom wouldn't fit, he wouldn't get hard and he wouldn't fit either, reason why i do not do quickie'e anymore. some guys just don't get proper hard but still have a good time!

they know there own body, they shouldn't be getting funny with you if you cant make them hard. just an excuse to try and blag extra time. it annoys me xx

I too find this a nightmare I hate the feel of a floppy cock in my mouth lol and it turns the booking into a boring long wank fest. I've had a few older guys who have came whilst soft, I think with them they just couldn't get a hard on but could still cum so wasn't a problem at all. I couldn't be doing with longer than an hour with a punter that couldn't get hard or cum at all.

I had once an older guy in his 70s, and he was doing coke as he asked me if he could use at mine..which of course I declined...he wanted me to talk dirty to him about his big throbbing cock...when his cock was-- and i am not joking-- pale pink going white and lifeless and all..I don't know about you, but no matter how dirty I can talk, I can't really make up dirty things to say about a throbbing cock that is...well...dead... in the end I took my rabbit out, put a condom on it and rubbed it on his cock...he managed to get hard-ish and come when his wife started calling ..lol