right this is not really to do with escorting but then it is...
apologise right now if this is really long,


woke up this morning, used charger of flatmate1 who is now away, her and flatmate2 (I am just staying here over the summer and for one more week until i get my own private flat) are best friends and I know i shouldnt have but i read their texting/phone convo and it was pages, i mean pages about how im such a loser, how im such a slut with an older man (im seeing not dating someone older- who knows what I do and is understanding), how I am disgusting and that I probably have stds (OBVIOUSLY I DON'T), how I am so selfish, how I am a lesbian because I said my estate agent (female who is very pretty; thats all), and how I am always away shagging this guy when half the time I am actually out at a doctors appointment or just getting stuff done or escorting, but is it really anyones business where I am? I always pay for the groceries, always take out the rubbish, yes I hire a cleaner, but I pay for it out of my own pocket.

I am incredibly hurt because I those these two girls were my friends, I always paid the rent on time, and now have just cancelled a holiday with flatmate2 and given her all her money back because I am just that upset.

A few questions...

a) should I confront them at all?
b) I only have one week left; should I stay? or try and stay with a friend; they may bitch about me more... i really feel uncomfortable.
c) After I move for sept 1st/2nd, do I still have to be nice to them or can I just outright not be friends with them? I will only be living 10 minutes away from them but really I just don't want anything to do with them anymore.

I'm not angry or anything, just really, really hurt...

sorry for going on and on..

Firstly you looked at phone messages without asking and saw stuff that you didnt like,& youre sure its about you .
whats the point in confronting them, they will only say you shouldnt have been looking at the messages.

As you are about to move on, just focus on what you need to do.
Do them no favours at  all, keep youre distance.
Now you know they are obviously not youre friends, dont keep in touch.
There is no point is there?
On the occasions when ive found out what people are saying about me behind my back its upsetting but at least I then knew.
I switch those kind of people off mentally.
block them , dont answer any calls from them.
best wishes
O xx
 

Aww you poor thing, can imagine that really must've hurt you  . Well, me being me with a bit of a revengeful streak would probably use the final week there to stir up a bit of trouble. Maybe you could say to flatmate1 "flatmate2 said you think this/said this about me", and do the same to the other one. Make up some stuff as well, so then they'd blurt out "no I never said that I said this". The penny might drop with the silly cows that the only way you would know this is if you read their phone, but then are they really going to come out and say that they had said all that stuff?

Sorry to put such a bitter message when everyone else here is going to be sensible and supportive. I'm one of four girls and we are all professional bitches  . I can't stand outright nastiness like this. A bit of a rant after you've let someone down or annoyed someone is fine, but what they've done is plain cruel.x

"We cannot control the evil tongues of others; but a good life enables us to disregard them."
Cato the Elder

Good luck with the new flat!

Drizzy If you dont want to stay for the week and can stay somewhere else do go.. the bad vibe for you wont be much fun to sit it out , the days with them will be awful.  id definatly go if i could earlier...
you will at least be relieved when you move
 o xx 

My advice would be to probably stay and then cut ties. However I know I personally would have to leave. Whatever you do good luck hun x