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SophiaPrice1

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Keeping your cool
« on: 29 February 2012, 01:26:30 pm »
Okay, so at the minute I live with a friend who I've know about a year. She's a lot older than me, 35. Sat downstairs and belle de jour is on the tv, she comes downstairs and starts watching. It's the scene where Belle's client is a young lad who's wheelchair bound, Belle is giving him an opportunity to be with a girl and not feel judged. it's one of my favourite scenes. And my friend goes "ew, look at that dirty bitch havin sex with a disabled person for money. It's disgusting. Where's her self respect"
...she doesn't know about me. Just the complete disgust on her face and this is just on tv!!  :FF it didn't hurt me it just pissed me off. How can people be so judgemental and harsh. It's quite ridiculous really that people are able to pass judgement on something they know nothing about! Really annoyed me and I almost slapped her for being so nasty! I never pass judgement on anyone! I just wish others could be the same.

Anyway...rant over haha. xx
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Re: Keeping your cool
« Reply #1 on: 29 February 2012, 02:10:23 pm »
I've heard all sorts of awful stuff from, 'If you ever see me getting off with someone who's been an escort, please stop me. I don't want to catch anything', or 'blah blah was chatting up a hot russian girl when she told him she was an escort! How disgusting! He got away from her as fast as he could'.

I've even had people tell me prossie jokes ::) 

At least I can laugh at them.
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SophiaPrice1

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Re: Keeping your cool
« Reply #2 on: 29 February 2012, 02:39:53 pm »
Do you just laugh at them and act as if you agree? The stigma that comes with this job is ridiculous! It's probably the oldest profession in the world and it will always exist. Don't see why people have to be so uptight. I know they're entitled to their opinion but jeez..calm down a bit! We own our own bodies and just because we're escorts that doesn't mean we're riddled with STIs and are doing it to fund our heroin addictions. Honestly, men are more likely to catch something from any girl they pick up in a bar! Just does my head in. Spose I'm going to have to suck it up (no pun intended ;D) and get used to it.

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Re: Keeping your cool
« Reply #3 on: 29 February 2012, 02:51:58 pm »
I find it so fustrating that people judge the way they do.Their judgements keep me living a double life when I would quite happily tell people if I knew I would not be looked upon as some sort of criminal.I cannot see things changing in my life time,if ever?.You just have to keep strong and let it go over your head x

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Re: Keeping your cool
« Reply #4 on: 29 February 2012, 03:26:17 pm »
I know what you mean Figa..I've been contemplating the way in which this job will affect my personal life and relationships and to myself I think well I wouldn't mind if they knew but then it's the fear of the people closest to you rejecting you and just cutting you out. I guess that's why only certain women can do this job successfully. I think I'll adopt the attitude of "it's my business not yours and if you don't like it, there's the door" definitely the way forward :-) x
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Re: Keeping your cool
« Reply #5 on: 29 February 2012, 04:25:22 pm »
Whilst I was doing my nurse training we had a session where we were discussing experiences on our last placement, and one girl was talking about her time in sexual health and said that they had a woman in who had a sponge stuck inside her, and the student was told by the nurse that putting sponges up there was common practice amongst sex workers during their periods etc. then that started the class saying 'ooh they'd do anything for money, they don't care about their health, they're so desperate etc'. >:( I was biting on to my tongue so hard!  :FF I felt like standing up and saying 'well actually......' more for shock value, as they all thought I was posh due to my accent and where I was brought up (erm would I be doing this job if I was posh?! Think not!). It annoys me the stereotypes that people have. I prefer to think of us girls as savvy business women, which we are!  :D

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Re: Keeping your cool
« Reply #6 on: 29 February 2012, 06:38:54 pm »
Yeah, exactly! You feel like going "well I'm a bloody whore and am I anything like how you've just described working girls?!" No need for the stigma but I suppose we're never going to change the way some people view it.  ::)
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Re: Keeping your cool
« Reply #7 on: 29 February 2012, 06:47:19 pm »
(erm would I be doing this job if I was posh?! Think not!). It annoys me the stereotypes that people have. I prefer to think of us girls as savvy business women, which we are!  :D

Do you mean the nursing or the whoring? lol

(I am an ex nurse) x

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Re: Keeping your cool
« Reply #8 on: 29 February 2012, 07:48:03 pm »
(erm would I be doing this job if I was posh?! Think not!). It annoys me the stereotypes that people have. I prefer to think of us girls as savvy business women, which we are!  :D

Do you mean the nursing or the whoring? lol

(I am an ex nurse) x

Both come to think of it!x

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Re: Keeping your cool
« Reply #9 on: 29 February 2012, 09:15:08 pm »
Ugh.

I work in property and had to listen to an office full of people rip prostitutes to pieces when two girls were found running a brothel from one of our apartments. I was so shocked at the attitude of my colleagues, especially as the boys had been flirting with the girls and talking about how gorgeous and lovely they were when they had initially taken out the contract! I admit, I had to leave to get a coffee towards the end of the conversation because I was so furious at the way they were talking about "skanks" and "dirty bitches".

Two things I did enjoy though- telling them self righteously that prostitution was legal in the UK and having them all dispute it like the closed minded twats that they are.... and I ESPECIALLY enjoyed sitting amongst people who think I am a nice funny friendly person, smirking to myself that I am also one of the "skanky disgusting whores" they have also been slagging off. Immense satisfaction!!! As I said, closed-minded twats.

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Re: Keeping your cool
« Reply #10 on: 29 February 2012, 09:46:48 pm »
People can just be ridiculous. I've had people say to me that prossie's are ill-educated and "lower class". Ironically the same person also called me posh for going to boarding school and a nerd for having a post-grad degree. Idiot...
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Re: Keeping your cool
« Reply #11 on: 29 February 2012, 11:53:22 pm »
It's so exasperating! Honestly! If a woman slept with a different man every day then it's fine but because money changed hands it's 'disgusting' and 'skanky'! Please! I am a well educated, intelligent woman with a professional career! Agree Carla...People are SO closed minded it's unreal! Love us having a prossie-hater bashing session ;D
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Re: Keeping your cool
« Reply #12 on: 01 March 2012, 11:30:53 pm »
 :FF YES l agree with all the above!! but all l say without repating the latter is what l said to one TW today in an email (where l was called a cheeky hoe)... but he was emialing me wanting to meet bla bla bla....

''Well it is prob more so you ca't afford me hehe, at least l don't have sex for 'free' unlike you, my time is precious therefore worth every bloody penny''

then he was block SAY NO MORE.....lmfao.....

all l think is well l have to look after ones self.. as sure through evidence (people not evening knowing if i've eaten etc) im healthy and feeling good while im doing my thang!!

WHERE THERE IS DIRT (meaning; so called underground jobs) THERES ?????'S LOL.

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Re: Keeping your cool
« Reply #13 on: 02 March 2012, 12:06:25 am »
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I work in property and had to listen to an office full of people rip prostitutes to pieces when two girls were found running a brothel from one of our apartments. I was so shocked at the attitude of my colleagues, especially as the boys had been flirting with the girls and talking about how gorgeous and lovely they were when they had initially taken out the contract! I admit, I had to leave to get a coffee towards the end of the conversation because I was so furious at the way they were talking about "skanks" and "dirty bitches".

Most probably they were clients and had seen these girls thus the need to make a "public statement" infront of their colleagues. A "normal guy" would be more relaxed about it, laugh  and wouldn't take it "so far".
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Re: Keeping your cool
« Reply #14 on: 10 March 2012, 09:41:27 am »
I only get paid to have sex with people because I'm rather good at it.
Why?
What's your point?

At least that's what I think.
Though sometimes I say:
  • Me: What fucks like a tiger, gets paid and winks?
  • Idiot/group of: Don't know
  • Me: Says nothing, .....instead I just  ;)
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