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theyettie

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just found out my wife's an escort
« on: 06 October 2009, 07:15:41 pm »
hi i just wanted to find out how many of the people on this forum have regular boyfriends or huspands i was a bit crazy at first but now i seem ok it was a bit of a shock at first ,

i know she loves me and i love her i lost my job and money is tight so i can under stand she has gont to scotland for things to cool down but now i am comming to terms with it i said i would build her a new website for her but i want her to cover eyes and i will do the SEO and directory subbmissions for her .

i am no stranger to escorts my self and use to use them alot when i was earing top money and had some great times with these girls .

she said she wanted to do it to get enough money to start employing ladys which i think is ok i said ok save for 6 monthes and i will help her start an agency .Can anyone tell me if the is ever any trouble from other agencys if a new one starts  please give you feed back

love u the yettie

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Re: just found out my wife's an escort
« Reply #1 on: 06 October 2009, 08:52:19 pm »
hi i just wanted to find out how many of the people on this forum have regular boyfriends or huspands i was a bit crazy at first but now i seem ok it was a bit of a shock at first ,

i know she loves me and i love her i lost my job and money is tight so i can under stand she has gont to scotland for things to cool down but now i am comming to terms with it i said i would build her a new website for her but i want her to cover eyes and i will do the SEO and directory subbmissions for her .

i am no stranger to escorts my self and use to use them alot when i was earing top money and had some great times with these girls .

she said she wanted to do it to get enough money to start employing ladys which i think is ok i said ok save for 6 monthes and i will help her start an agency .Can anyone tell me if the is ever any trouble from other agencys if a new one starts  please give you feed back

love u the yettie

I've been on the other end of this and I now do Direct Webcam shows and sell the panties I've cum in. And yes, I have a fiance. And no, I don't hate all men. Just to clear that up.

I gotta say though, I can't understand WHY your wife had to go to Scotland for things to cool down  ??? . That sounds like a major situation. Maybe if you hadn't used escorts yourself she wouldn't have got the idea to escort in the first place.

I think there's a bit of NIMBY going on here, (not in my back yard) - it's ok for you to visit an escort but you go crazy ( a pretty strong word) when your wife-  who by the way I'm sure is a big girl and can think and make decisions for herself without your help - chooses to work as an escort.

Isn't it her choice whether she covers her eyes or not - I don't, I love what I do and I'm not ashamed of it. And as for setting up her website and controlling the directory submissions etc., I think the applicable word here is controlling.

If you really don't want her escorting maybe you should get off your lazy ass, get down to the JobCentrePlus and get yourself a job, any job??? Digging a ditch, cleaning public toilets, (which btw is what my father-in-law to be has done for 30 years and damned proud of it he is too), anything!

But I get the impression you want a job with the big money so you can go back to your lifestyle of having your cake (going to escorts) and eating it (making sure you have exclusive access to your wife). Even better, get her to start and run an agency and you can get freebies  >:( !

Hopefully while she's in Scotland your wife will wise up and realise what a hypocrite she had the misfortune to marry and dump you like the manipulative control freak you seem to be.

Now these are just my first impressions and I could have got you all wrong, in which case feel free to correct me.

But what I'd be REALLY interested to hear is how your poor wife feels about this. Have you even considered her feelings in all of this? Dunno if you noticed but your post is all "woe is me" and "poor me", basically  "me,me,me". Get her to post here - I'd be delighted to talk to her about controlling relationships (had one myself a long time ago). And one day I just left him a note and went. Hmm, wonder if that'll ever happen to you?
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Re: just found out my wife's an escort
« Reply #2 on: 06 October 2009, 09:05:37 pm »
hi i just wanted to find out how many of the people on this forum have regular boyfriends or huspands i was a bit crazy at first but now i seem ok it was a bit of a shock at first ,

i know she loves me and i love her i lost my job and money is tight so i can under stand she has gont to scotland for things to cool down but now i am comming to terms with it i said i would build her a new website for her but i want her to cover eyes and i will do the SEO and directory subbmissions for her .

i am no stranger to escorts my self and use to use them alot when i was earing top money and had some great times with these girls .

she said she wanted to do it to get enough money to start employing ladys which i think is ok i said ok save for 6 monthes and i will help her start an agency .Can anyone tell me if the is ever any trouble from other agencys if a new one starts  please give you feed back

love u the yettie

Controlling prostitution for gain, which is what you are proposing, is illegal under Section 53 of the Sexual Offences Act 2003 - in light of some of the recent high profile brothel closures plus the proposed legislative changes with regard to the criminalisation of punters for having paid sex with women thus controlled, frankly you would have to be absolutely f*cking demented to be starting a new operation now. As Lila says, get a job  >:(.

And I'm sorry, I KNOW this is an open board and anyone can technically post here, but I am getting sick of seeing punters popping up when they have plenty of boards of their own. There are Punternet, Punterlink and others - why are you even here? Or do you think a few sycophantic posts will make the poor, thick prossies be nicer to you than the punting gents, who will rightly see you for the lazy, wannabee pimp you are? Don't count on it.

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Re: just found out my wife's an escort
« Reply #3 on: 06 October 2009, 09:10:34 pm »
hi i just wanted to find out how many of the people on this forum have regular boyfriends or huspands i was a bit crazy at first but now i seem ok it was a bit of a shock at first ,

i know she loves me and i love her i lost my job and money is tight so i can under stand she has gont to scotland for things to cool down but now i am comming to terms with it i said i would build her a new website for her but i want her to cover eyes and i will do the SEO and directory subbmissions for her .

i am no stranger to escorts my self and use to use them alot when i was earing top money and had some great times with these girls .

she said she wanted to do it to get enough money to start employing ladys which i think is ok i said ok save for 6 monthes and i will help her start an agency .Can anyone tell me if the is ever any trouble from other agencys if a new one starts  please give you feed back

love u the yettie

Controlling prostitution for gain, which is what you are proposing, is illegal under Section 53 of the Sexual Offences Act 2003 - in light of some of the recent high profile brothel closures plus the proposed legislative changes with regard to the criminalisation of punters for having paid sex with women thus controlled, frankly you would have to be absolutely f*cking demented to be starting a new operation now. As Lila says, get a job  >:(.

And I'm sorry, I KNOW this is an open board and anyone can technically post here, but I am getting sick of seeing punters popping up when they have plenty of boards of their own. There are Punternet, Punterlink and others - why are you even here? Or do you think a few sycophantic posts will make the poor, thick prossies be nicer to you than the punting gents, who will rightly see you for the lazy, wannabee pimp you are? Don't count on it.

Well said Amy!  8)  This post was a complete insult to our collective intelligence. Just because we're women and we work in the adult industry doesn't mean we're no-brain bimbos, which is what a lot of these TWs seem to think.

I hope for her sake his wife stays in Scotland and does what she wants, whether that's escorting or not. She doesn't need this dozy twat in her life telling her what she can and can't do. She is an adult after all!
xoxo ~ lila ~ xoxo

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Re: just found out my wife's an escort
« Reply #4 on: 06 October 2009, 09:40:54 pm »
Well, I saw this earlier and just could not be bothered to even respond lol  Personally, I reckon the long intro is more about it being yet another guy trying to set up an agency who is hoping for everyone on here to give him loads of pointers and free advice.  And rather than just come out with it that they/he wants to run an agency, he does the whole sob story first.  Remember a few of us were quite outspoken with the last guy on here trying to find out about how to earn money quickly on other ladies' backs!  If it looks like, smells like and feels like Bullshit it normally is.... ::)

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« Reply #5 on: 06 October 2009, 10:17:24 pm »
Well, I saw this earlier and just could not be bothered to even respond lol  Personally, I reckon the long intro is more about it being yet another guy trying to set up an agency who is hoping for everyone on here to give him loads of pointers and free advice.  And rather than just come out with it that they/he wants to run an agency, he does the whole sob story first.  Remember a few of us were quite outspoken with the last guy on here trying to find out about how to earn money quickly on other ladies' backs!  If it looks like, smells like and feels like Bullshit it normally is.... ::)

I nearly didn't respond but did just in case it wasn't BS (more chance of winning the lottery I know!) I think you're right that they/he want to run an agency and it really pisses me off that he thinks we're stupid enough to fall for it, whether his boo-hoo, poor me sob story is a pile of shite or not. Either way he's an asshole.
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Re: just found out my wife's an escort
« Reply #6 on: 06 October 2009, 10:56:58 pm »
hes a hypocrite im afraid
its ok for him to visit escorts which i take were behind his wifes back
yet when your wife does its all hell breaks loose

and as for doing her website etc sounds pimpish to me
she might tell you to take it or leave it
its her choice

UrbaneAspects

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Re: just found out my wife's an escort
« Reply #7 on: 06 October 2009, 11:02:58 pm »
Wheeeeeeeeeew Gooosshhh...

The seas have become much angered, its a Tsunami up in here...

Jerry, Jerry, Jerry, Jerry!   :D

Obviously it made sense, Im just commentating. I'll zip it  :-X

« Last Edit: 06 October 2009, 11:06:35 pm by JoeyR »

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Re: just found out my wife's an escort
« Reply #8 on: 06 October 2009, 11:25:58 pm »
cant u remove him

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Re: just found out my wife's an escort
« Reply #9 on: 06 October 2009, 11:28:01 pm »
Ladies you're all on fire this evening! I applaud you all  ;D

I also saw this earlier and just couldn't be bothered replying. If I did, I think I may have offended all your lovely eyes with my foul language  :o

So theyettie, are you still thinking of 'living off immoral earnings' I mean pimping your wife I mean Setting up an Escort Agency? Just because you've spent time with working ladies and your wife has chosen to be an Escort doesn't give you any right to be involved. As the other ladies said, Get a bloody job!

You should be ashamed of yourself for having the nerve to suggest controlling her business. You're either ok with it or you're not. I'm guessing you have to say you're ok with it coz you haven't got the brains to go out and earn a wage to support yourself.

Instead of spending time prowling around sites like this one, why not look at sites aimed at finding people work? Or aren't you man enough to get a proper job?

I'm shocked you had the nerve to come on here and write such an idiotic post. If you were expecting sympathy, you certainly came to the wrong place. You're not a man. You're a poor excuse for one

cant u remove him
From the face of the earth?  :P

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Re: just found out my wife's an escort
« Reply #10 on: 07 October 2009, 12:09:56 am »
cant u remove him

Lets here what he has to rebuttle this first. Its better to bring a criminal to trial rather than kill him right away  :D

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Re: just found out my wife's an escort
« Reply #11 on: 07 October 2009, 12:17:52 am »


Lets here what he has to rebuttle this first. Its better to bring a criminal to trial rather than kill him right away  :D

Agree with Joey on this one ? I might mistrust the OP?s motives but this seems to have turned into a right cyber witch hunt cum kangaroo court.  Ok he might be simply another chancer trying to set up an agency but the situation might just be as he described.   We don?t know if he saw escorts during his marriage ? maybe it was before ? he isn?t actually being judgemental or hypocritical in post but was rather candid.  Surely we have to at least concede it is a shock to find out that your partner is in this line of work.  Sometimes it is all too easy to forget that people need some time to adjust as we are so used to the industry.         

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Re: just found out my wife's an escort
« Reply #12 on: 07 October 2009, 12:55:32 am »
Why on earth would anybody believe this "bloke" is for real? Sorry Lila, good post BTW. Please go back to the blokes forum you silly man!!
find out exactly how and why a man hoping to escort women for a living has more chance of plaiting fog, and better earning prospects on Jobseekers Allowance.

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Re: just found out my wife's an escort
« Reply #13 on: 07 October 2009, 01:00:29 am »
i want u people to know i am not here to take  the piss i met my girl in a bar in thailand and was giving her a grand a month may be i am stupid for thinking a thi bitch loved me not money but she was happy for me to take care of her when i was work all night and giving her every thing such as a boob job and payig for her kids school  now i think you girls cant find love money is everything well look at some people who win the lotto and thy wish that they DID NOT cos it fuked there life up i am not on here to sell anything
now my mind is i bits can an escort be happy with a boyfriend.
i got on this site cos i was trying to understand all the terms such as OWO and then is stared reding more and i dont want simpathy i just wanted to see if other girls had BFs or HUSBANDS i am not here to try and SCAM U or PIMP MY wife when  i went ith escorts was when i was not with her I am not aCUNT I am just trying to UNDERSTAND IF WE CAN SAY TOGETHER
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« Reply #14 on: 07 October 2009, 02:19:24 am »
i want u people to know i am not here to take  the piss i met my girl in a bar in thailand and was giving her a grand a month may be i am stupid for thinking a thi bitch

 Well by golly, this is as

 far as I got. I know 'bitch' is a word that always goes down well with me* - Anyone agree?


 * >:(