Quiet day in Barcelona, you’d think we’d all be busy with the Grand Prix bring 90,000 visitors, but they all go to the brothels and largely find us independents. If you work in the brothels, you’ll have a very busy weekend.

My boyfriend, who knows what I do, does not get jealous, he understands it’s just my job. I do however get jealous, even if he just flirts with a female client. He is in sales, so this happens! I know he is not cheating on me, but I still get very jealous, is this common?

Just something I’m thinking about whilst I’m waiting for nothing to happen in Barcelona!

I think if you feel something whether it’s good or bad can’t not be normal because it’s how you feel, I get jealous when I’m in a relationship & my friend thinks that because I’m a sex worker then I should’nt get jealous but sex work is a job, not a state of mind! I think I’m jealous because I know how men can be about cheating; sex is just sex but I don’t see it that way at all tbh, I think your feelings are perfectly normal

i get very jelous too im seeing someone at the moment he knows what i do but the thought of him being with another woman horrifies me and hes not even my boyfriend! i just see it like i hate escorting i do not like it one bit i prettymuch hate sex i get no pleasure at all apart from the money but him going and sleeping with someone because he likes her or likes the look of her would really hurt my feelings even tho i sleep with other pepole 2 days a week its crazy xx

I feel EXACTLY the same way as you and I too hate the job and only like the money and it’s why I’m taking steps to get out of the industry, I want to be ‘normal’ and fall in love and I don’t want to be a bitter man hater whose hardened at the thought of anyone having a loving monagamous relationship, I’ve known so many long term sex workers to be like this and I look at them & think ‘I never want to be that way’, I used to have a friend in the industry who had had so many flings with her friends’ boyfriends and I just think she’s a horrible insecure person & she gets a kick out of knowing that she’s better in bed than her civvy friend    but being a great shag to a guy isn’t enough to make him love you and I’d rather be loved from a man & have a mental connection with him rather than being ‘that bird that gave great head’, it’s hardly an achievement is it?! I used to tell her that she was a prostitute through & through because she’d put £60 before a friendship as she had also done business with a friends boyfriend, you can see why I got her to fuck, she is the reason women are threatened by us sex workers, personally I would never ever sleep with a friends boyfriend for cash and that’s even if I had no electricity or gas.  Sorry for going off topic

My sex work does not influence or change how I feel about personal life relationships, if I'm going to be jealous I would be jealous. As it happens I trust my OH OK nothing is ever 100 percent but I know any distrust is my own insecurity, I'm more bothered about stuff I can control which is how I behave towards him and the time we spend together.

Personally I prefer to stay away from guys messing around with other women: it would bring nothing positive.

Hello Everyone.  First time poster. I'm an incall girl in New Zealand. Been in the business 13 years as an escort/pro-sub and 3 years as a pro-domme.

Jealousy is a totally normal thing. I think any partner should show understanding and respect for personal needs and boundaries. They're just different for different people.

I personally encourage my partner to go enjoy himself if he finds people. The way I look at it, leaving the door open for him to explore sexually is an asset I bring to the table. He goes to lots of LARP events and attracts lots of women friends, so I give him plenty of supplies and encouragement. Expectations are safe sex and honest communication ...preferably with juicy details!

I'm not worried about jealousy, but losing him to someone else would be bad, seeing how my workspace is in his house. But it's my job to keep him happy and I get better at it with time, so I think I'm way more likely to damage the relationship by trying to control him. That's what his previous partner did in a theoretically open relationship, and it didn't work out well for her.