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amy

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Re: Januhairy
« Reply #15 on: 16 January 2019, 08:02:09 pm »
Agree with Scottish Emily
I think hair under the arms looks horrible on a woman

So where do you stand on making rude, judgemental and sexist remarks about what other women choose to do with their bodies?

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Re: Januhairy
« Reply #16 on: 17 January 2019, 07:47:20 pm »
Agree with Scottish Emily reg shaving everything off.. I wax also.
 always shave armpits and wax the rest off.
I probably would wax even if I wasnt escorting. Hate pubic hair after getting it in my mouth doing owo.
Smooth is best.
If a client asked me to grow it I'd refuse.

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Re: Januhairy
« Reply #17 on: 18 January 2019, 01:10:02 am »
So where do you stand on making rude, judgemental and sexist remarks about what other women choose to do with their bodies?

agreed it's bad enough having men judge us let alone colleagues.

fwiw i don't shave my pubes and have had one client complain in the 3.5 years i've ben working.

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Re: Januhairy
« Reply #18 on: 18 January 2019, 12:26:32 pm »
I've been out of action since before Christmas and I've reverted from shaved to bushy. It feels nice and natural so I'll probably keep it this way. I think a lot of people like the 'vintage' look so it could work in my favour :)

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Re: Januhairy
« Reply #19 on: 18 January 2019, 02:06:39 pm »
2019 and here we are feeling a need to justify whether we rid out bodies from hair. Sad really.

In terms of work - clients all have different tastes, whichever way you go there will be plenty of clients and quite honestly if a client's dealbreaker is whether I have pubes or not he can jog on!


I also have a problem with Januhairy- unless you are doing to raise a ton of money for charity then what on earth is the point?! Women's body hair shouldn't need awareness raising (such as something useful like having smear tests or checking your breasts) and it's not feminist to grow your hair just for a month to think you are making some sort of clever point!

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Re: Januhairy
« Reply #20 on: 18 January 2019, 10:06:58 pm »
I also have a problem with Januhairy- unless you are doing to raise a ton of money for charity then what on earth is the point?! Women's body hair shouldn't need awareness raising (such as something useful like having smear tests or checking your breasts).

Completely this^
  I also don't like januhairy because I feel it is just adding more focus on cosmetics when body hair and cosmetics when this really shouldn't matter this much. Want a  bit of hair? So what? Want to be bald? So what? Want to grow a fuzzy forest? Also so what?

Regarding work - I  fairly recently changed my aw to unshaved and have had no difference in bookings. I really don't care if other people dislike my hair choices.  I'm kind of liking the look and have a weird "Well noone is complaining so what the hell was I worried about?" Even had a compliment in December.
 I wear stockings to work and very rarely shave my legs anyway, the rare occasion a stocking rolls off I'm hoping my calves are not the focus.

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Re: Januhairy
« Reply #21 on: 19 January 2019, 09:49:55 am »
Who remembers all the hairy fannies in the 70s and 80s dirty books as we called them?

I use veet.
I'm glad I got all the Cynthia Payne books before the prices rocked to sky high.

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Re: Januhairy
« Reply #22 on: 20 January 2019, 08:59:38 am »
Who remembers all the hairy fannies in the 70s and 80s dirty books as we called them?

I use veet.

Yes I remember them; and guess what, people were still Having sex!
If you choose to shave that's fine but don't make derogatory comments at those that do.
I mentioned it before, that being hairless is not cleaner, it is a marketing and advertising ploy designed to sell product.  It's consumerism.
It also makes women's genitalia look pre pubescent, which forgive me for finding creepy and not sexually attractive.
I feel the same about men's dicks. I am not attracted to a bald male genitalia at all. Especially when they shave the shaft to make it look an extra inch longer.... I do not give two hoots if you have extra length I just want your cash!
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Re: Januhairy
« Reply #23 on: 20 January 2019, 09:04:40 am »
I think it looks vile but I do know older men prefer pubic hair on a woman as they can remember watching porn from the 70's and 80's when it was full bush. I can't stand the feeling of stubble and regrowth and have to shave everyday, it grows at such a rate. I'd be like a yeti if I didn't shave!

Breaking news. I've been with more younger men that love my unshaven couchie and I've had more of them then you have probably had hot dinners. I also had a 35 year old partner who asked me to grow my armpit hair because it turned him on sexually. Age is irrelevant.


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Grace D

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Re: Januhairy
« Reply #24 on: 20 January 2019, 11:35:20 am »
That's good to hear HP. I just can't be bothered to shave anymore. It feels quite liberating to go natural again. Do you make a point of advertising your bush or do you not mention it? I'm wondering whether to make it a marketing feature to weed out those clients who prefer shaven.

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Re: Januhairy
« Reply #25 on: 20 January 2019, 12:40:47 pm »
I like to shave, I prefer it to be smooth, that's everywhere! Although I only do it every day if I'm working.

Clients shouldn't take issue either way, there is a bit on AW where you can put those details anyway. If someone wants something specific they should check when they book, can't complain otherwise.

I honestly prefer when a client has at least trimmed or better still shaved, not so much for sex but definitely for a BJ, even a HJ really. BJ's are so much simpler with nothing in the way  :-\ ;D

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Re: Januhairy
« Reply #26 on: 20 January 2019, 01:48:37 pm »
That's good to hear HP. I just can't be bothered to shave anymore. It feels quite liberating to go natural again. Do you make a point of advertising your bush or do you not mention it? I'm wondering whether to make it a marketing feature to weed out those clients who prefer shaven.

I mention that I have natural hair, and it's probably a selling point for me. In 4.5 years I've only once had someone ask me to shave it off.
"There is no sin except stupidity" - Oscar Wilde

Grace D

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Re: Januhairy
« Reply #27 on: 20 January 2019, 01:55:15 pm »
Chocololic, there's definitely something for everyone! I used to love being shaven and smooth but I feel differently now. Perhaps I could change my name to the Wild Woman of Borneo!

Kay,that reminds me, a few years ago I'd been a week without shaving and a client asked to shave me. He really enjoyed it. I believe it's a fetish among some people. (Another marketing idea perhaps!)

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Re: Januhairy
« Reply #28 on: 20 January 2019, 09:51:05 pm »
So where do you stand on making rude, judgemental and sexist remarks about what other women choose to do with their bodies?

My comment wasn't rude, judgemental or sexual.
It was my honest personal opinion like people might say "I think Brussel sprouts are disgusting."
That's all it was. If you took offence not my problem.

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Re: Januhairy
« Reply #29 on: 20 January 2019, 09:54:47 pm »
My comment wasn't rude, judgemental or sexual.
It was my honest personal opinion like people might say "I think Brussel sprouts are disgusting."
That's all it was. If you took offence not my problem.

A Brussel sprout isn't a person with thoughts and feelings. Also the opinion you expressed was about a perfectly natural  part of the person.