I've had 2 marriage proposals from punters, one of them was out of nowhere and the other I knew he liked me alot but had no idea he felt that strongly for me, though to be honest I think he was a little bit unhinged from reality!

Even when I didn't have a boyfriend I would often make one up if a client was becoming too fond of me. It wont deter them all but it might help with some 

Happen to me several times then they want me to be exclusive , I surprised one of them reading my text , after he left upset because guys was texting me !

Because you are giving them sex and attention they get carried away. Some just say they love you because they think it will make you offer them more than a client/escort relationship. You just take it with a pinch of salt and most of the time they will go back to what they came for in the first place. It is possible for someone to feel affection for someone at first sight but if the feeling isn't mutual just don't encourage them as someone with that type of personality can become a bit full on.

I have never had this I have always thgought taking money of them creates a boundary which prevents this from happening?  Maybe I was wrong LOL x

When they say that to me I just tell them that they can't love me cos they don't know the real me, not even my real name!!! Had 1 guy get arsey cos he wanted to leave his wife, cash in his stocks & shares etc, would ?18 grand be enough for me!!?? Eerrr "NO!!!"  Well you're just greedy. And your problem is..............?

I always say I have a boyfriend even if I haven't at the time, it can save a lot of hassle in the long run.

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yes i hav two and debating wether to stop seeing them now as a result, i think they forget what we do and its our job. They are asking me to join them on other days to do stuff one i am keen on but he knows i  will keep it work only..

Emily one thing, how could i close off the conversation after one mail back say? would you say 'ok well look forward to hearing from you when you want a booking' or something similar?? and what if they reply again with more chat, would you just ignore them and risk them not booking again or do you find they do get back in touch even if you don't reply?

Well, with his first post-booking email or text, I'll make sure not to ask any continuing questions or respond to anything apart from direct questions. I'll definitely be sure to send something like, "Thank you! I had a great time, too :-) Looking forward to next time!" - really smiley and friendly, of course, because we don't want to be rude here! 99% of clients will completely understand your intent here and won't reply again, or will be fine if they reply again but you don't reply again.

If, however, they keep responding with flirty questions, or even casual questions, I tend to just leave it. Or I'll respond *one* more time with something really brief. Literally, "Thanks!". If they keep responding after that then I just assume that they're not interested in respecting my boundaries so I don't worry about losing them as a client.

Again, 99% of clients have no problem understanding that an escort isn't a girlfriend and isn't, therefore, going to correspond endlessly with him between bookings. This is why I find it easy to let the 1% of "confused" guys (i.e. guys not interested in respecting boundaries) go. It's definitely good to respond briefly but nicely once or twice - you don't want to be ignoring someone just because he told you he had a nice time! - but anything longer than that just leads down a path that you don't want to be going with the client.

All of the, "he just kept texting me and didn't stop!" complaints should actually be, "why did I continue replying to his texts?" questions, to be honest. Usually it's because you've assumed that responding to him would make him rebook but genuine paying clients don't tend to expect tons of correspondance between bookings, and even if a genuine guy did want that you'd end up feeling short changed since for his ?150 hour's booking he's actually getting about 5 hours a week of your time chatting as well. Not such a good hourly rate then!

If in doubt, check with yourself whether you're feeling a sense of dread at checking your phone/emails because there might be something from the boundary-pushing client there? If you're dreading hearing from someone, that's a good sign you should stop communicating with them!