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MARIPOSA 76

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It has happened to you
« on: 24 August 2018, 05:41:05 pm »
Normally I never have problems having sex with my clients, as long as the man is clean and gentleman, I do not care about the race of the country ... Although I like physically the white men, for me the race is the same, when I do my job. I treat with respect and try to give the best possible service, that's why I have many regulars in my flat for 4 years ...


Today came a man who really gave me a lot of disgust to be with him, with a horrible smell, I told him to shower, almost almost wanted to get it out of my house and not attend it, as I wanted, I attended and really gave me repulsion to be with him. 'l ....
It really disgusted me to be with him, I made a big shower after he left ... I think it's the first time in years that something horrible happened to me like that,with some hair that was long and dirty, I had to change all the sheets for his horrible smell is everywhere in the room.

(the funny thing is that he thought he was cute I wonder what I wanted as a boyfriend)
To top it off I broke the fair condom with this dirty man :FF

 
It has happened to you ?? Have sex in this job with someone who really makes you throw up ?? I had to take my instinct and tell him to leave my house without making the reservation but I think that as well as attending to the clients that I like, they also have the right to someone I do not really like physically ...
  Can any girls give me advice to reject a client after he is already at home and do not make him feel bad please?

Thank you very much in advance and many blessings of light for all :-*


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Re: It has happened to you
« Reply #1 on: 24 August 2018, 05:49:20 pm »
Next time you have a strong 'this is not going to go well' feeling - here, when he turned up making you feel ill - consider stopping it then rather than carrying on anyway.
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Re: It has happened to you
« Reply #2 on: 24 August 2018, 06:56:36 pm »
If the smell was unbearable and he was not willing to clean himself I would have kicked him out with no refund, easier said than done I know and takes assertiveness and tact.

Is the comment about race relevant to this client?
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Re: It has happened to you
« Reply #3 on: 24 August 2018, 09:24:04 pm »
Quote from: Lucie268 on 24 August 2018, 06:56:36 pm


Is the comment about race relevant to this client?

I said of the race because this client is of a race that does not like many WGs ....

  I have seen many profile say: "I do not accept blacks or do not accept Asian" etc

 I am proudly Caribbean and for me we are all human / brothers of the planet

And I did not want to sound racist, saying that this client is of such a race, because for me all humans are valuable because there are good and bad in all countries, but the few times I have had problems with clients who have not been gentlemen have been from that country that I do not want to say the name.

We must recognize that there are more sexist countries than others, that men from one country are more gentlemen and have more sense of hygiene than others, of course with their exceptions ...I hope I made myself understand the idea of what I want to say.
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MARIPOSA 76

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Re: It has happened to you
« Reply #4 on: 24 August 2018, 09:25:59 pm »
Quote from: xw5 on 24 August 2018, 05:49:20 pm
Next time you have a strong 'this is not going to go well' feeling - here, when he turned up making you feel ill - consider stopping it then rather than carrying on anyway.

 Girls very grateful for their experiences and comments in this post ...

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« Last Edit: 26 August 2018, 07:08:24 pm by MARIPOSA 76 »
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« Reply #5 on: 24 August 2018, 10:40:31 pm »
I've been there once. I had someone well over a year ago who smelt a bit and thought that was bad, but obviously it wasn't that bad because I wasn't totally repulsed and I just got on with it.

The last and only time it's happened to me this badly, I just don't think the man had actually showered for maybe a week. The smell with his clothes on was horrible, he was sticky and he looked unclean, skin was awful obviously because of lack of showering. It was that bad that when he took his boxers off I actually gagged and I made him get a shower and he came back virtually no cleaner. I just don't think he had a clue how bad he was and how to clean himself.  ???

I was so taken aback by it all that I felt like all sense went out of the window and I didn't know how to handle it properly. I spent most of the booking nipping in and out of the room on my phone to avoid him.

If there's a next time that happens I'll be turning them away immediately and if it means making an excuse and losing my fee then so be it because I felt disgusting for a couple of days after!!!!
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« Reply #6 on: 24 August 2018, 11:01:21 pm »
It is almost unheard of for me to get a smelly client but when I am least expecting it, yes it can happen.  Eg. a man I have seen 4 times and always fresh and clean came to see me again not long ago. He undressed and lay down to watch me parade around the room a little as was his habit. I smelled it as I approached the bed and could tell he had not showered that day or probably for several days. I was in shock and tried to think what to do.  I lay down top to toe so I could talk to him and be inches next to his cock and balls to see if they were whiffy too. No, they were perfectly washed and squeaky clean. He had obviously taken care of those bits but was too lazy to shower before the short drive to mine.

I was furious but got through the booking. Ok I could have asked him to shower but the mood would have been killed even more so he is now banned but doesn't know it yet. He will be trying again as I have a particular outfit he always asks I wear and it gets him fired up no end. No second chances if they get too careless about hygiene.

Because of his lack of respect I will show him none either and just tell him I do not want to meet again. Leave him wondering why. His own fault.
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« Reply #7 on: 25 August 2018, 12:39:28 pm »
I am clear on my profile that if they aren't washed the booking ends and I retain their cash. One client has tried to push this, and he was sent packing to the shower at his place. He thought I was joking until I reminded him that 1) it's on my profile in several places, 2) it was his time he was wasting as the clock started when I walked through his door.
He did shower. After the booking, he sent me a message telling me he would ruin me with his FB. Told him to go ahead, lol, everyone would know what a smelly cunt he was.
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Re: It has happened to you
« Reply #8 on: 25 August 2018, 09:04:26 pm »
Mariposa, prices start at £40. Your prices attract horrible clients, or just poor & a bit smelly. There are no gentlemen at £40!!
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Re: It has happened to you
« Reply #9 on: 25 August 2018, 09:46:32 pm »
Quote from: espressocappuccino on 25 August 2018, 09:04:26 pm
Mariposa, prices start at £40. Your prices attract horrible clients, or just poor & a bit smelly. There are no gentlemen at £40!!

This is wrong. My prices start and 250 and I’ve had repulsive clients who have been unhygienic and spat the dummy out when asked to wash. Yes she will get more clients that can spare that kind of cash than I will. For example. But that doesn’t mean because I charge what I do for example my clients are better. Some men are just inconsiderate assholes. You cannot determine how many inconsiderate assholes we will come across by our price.
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« Reply #10 on: 26 August 2018, 08:31:57 am »
Quote from: espressocappuccino on 25 August 2018, 09:04:26 pm
Mariposa, prices start at £40. Your prices attract horrible clients, or just poor & a bit smelly. There are no gentlemen at £40!!

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Re: It has happened to you
« Reply #11 on: 26 August 2018, 03:22:28 pm »
Quote from: English natural beauty on 25 August 2018, 09:46:32 pm
This is wrong. My prices start and 250 and I’ve had repulsive clients who have been unhygienic and spat the dummy out when asked to wash. Yes she will get more clients that can spare that kind of cash than I will. For example. But that doesn’t mean because I charge what I do for example my clients are better. Some men are just inconsiderate assholes. You cannot determine how many inconsiderate assholes we will come across by our price.

Agree 100%.

My pricing for a quickie is 40 (sometimes 50 depending on area) and I've never had a an unhygienic or rude quickie client. I have one fairly regular guy who comes to me straight from work - he works in a burger bar so always a bit whiffy when he arrives but always jumps in the shower on his own time.

The most smelly clients I've seen have been guys paying 150 and up. It's mainly guys who are morbidly obese and clearly find it physically difficult to clean themselves thoroughly. Thankfully part of my VIP service involves a shared shower so I am able to give them a good scrub!
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Re: It has happened to you
« Reply #12 on: 26 August 2018, 04:06:43 pm »
Quote from: espressocappuccino on 25 August 2018, 09:04:26 pm
Mariposa, prices start at £40. Your prices attract horrible clients, or just poor & a bit smelly. There are no gentlemen at £40!!

I see a lovely client for a 15 mins that’s always lovely and clean . He comes to see me during his  dinner break from work.
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« Reply #13 on: 26 August 2018, 04:51:50 pm »
I also agree that cost has nothing to do with it. I used to have some lovely 15 mins clients. I only dont do them now as I prefer to only do 2 clients a day and prefer to give these to longer bookings.

I have however had a similar experience to the OP. The guy turned up and was seriously obese. Now I'm no slim Jim myself but he was seriously unclean and dirty, especially under his fat folds. I couldn't even go down on him, as even though he'd managed to clean his bits between is legs stunk.

I should of just refused the booking. But didn't . I agree with the advice to not go ahead with these bookings. I took a week off after and scrubbed my self nearly every day!!
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Re: It has happened to you
« Reply #14 on: 26 August 2018, 06:59:59 pm »
Quote from: espressocappuccino on 25 August 2018, 09:04:26 pm
Mariposa, prices start at £40. Your prices attract horrible clients, or just poor & a bit smelly. There are no gentlemen at £40!!
Hi my  prices start at £40 because I do not offer FK nor OWO ...

  Anyway I have seen many clients 15 minute was very gentlemanly clients,
  If I have to say something is that I've really met wonderful men in this job whether they pay 15 minutes or an hour, usually the idiots blocking them and I do not receive them, my idea was that: I do not like to hurt the client's ego dirty and tell him to leave because I did not want to take care of him because of his unhygienic sense .... but from now on, if I do not feel like attending a client who has already arrived at my house, it is to be graciously rejected without the need to offend him.
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