See also the main SAAFE.info site for more Support And Advice For Escorts

Author Topic: Is it just me who hates it when they ask what I will be wearing?  (Read 10897 times)

strawberry

  • Guest
Re: Is it just me who hates it when they ask what I will be wearing?
« Reply #45 on: 01 April 2013, 09:28:12 pm »
I tend to feel irked when asked what i will be wearing or asked to wear specific outfits tbh.
I know what i want for my bookings and that is a client who wants a person to interact with ,not a body encased in a particular item of clothing.
To meet men that are not interested in me,just my body would ruin my self esteem and i would quickly have to stop escorting.
does that make any sense??

What annoys me is clients expecting you to be able to wear the clothes from your pictures, or do your look exactly the same, not realising it likely took you hours to doll yourself up for your pics and that you might not have that particular outfit anymore.  I heard of one client who expects girls to put certain make up colours on and Wear particular jewellery. Fair enough for a long booking but a half hour?

Clients who expect nurse, police, schoolgirl outfits to be proper ones instead of novelty Ann summers style. Do they have any idea how much a real police or nurse uniform would cost, baring in mind these outfits arnt asked for often?

I do have stockings these days as punters like them but I hate them and don't think they look good on me, I didn't own one pair the first 2 years I worked and don't have them on any of my pictures so why do guys still ask for them? In general yes I don't like being asked for specific outfits and always ignore clients who request slutty pvc, bodystockings as I don't like that kind of gear.

On the other hand I don't think it's acceptable to not make any effort at all with your dress, I always atleast do my hair and makeup, wear something comfortable, easy to get off and sexy but iv heard of girls answering client in tracksuits with no makeup on and unwashed, unstyled hair. Unless he's asked for that I think it's pretty poor really, I wouldn't dare see a client looking a mess physically.

I use clothing and lingerie in photoshoots that I can wear for clients and it doesn't take me very much longer to get dressed up. Ok for make up I use a heavier foundation, more mascara because of the flash, but I'll be getting changed from one outfit to another just as quickly as I can when dressing for a booking.

Only problem I have had was when I lost weight, guys would ask for the corset in a set of photos which having lost 10lbs and reshaped my body with exercise would just fall right off me. I will however offer a similar alternative instead. The other problem is some of the things are actually old favourites - they look great on camera, or my photographer guy picks them out from a pile of stuff I'm throwing out, and yes they make great pics but in real life look quite tatty. I one greeted the photographer in an old wrap dress which he really wanted me to wear in the shoot, which I did then felt terrible when I got requests for it because it did have visible bobbling. In the photos it looked very stylish, in reality it looked like the New Look washed twenty times cotton jersey it actually was!

Melanie

  • Guest
Re: Is it just me who hates it when they ask what I will be wearing?
« Reply #46 on: 09 April 2013, 06:56:52 pm »
@poshtotty I stole your response to the question if I will wear something nice ;-). This question annoys me and after reading this topic I had some inspiration. For the first time I responded: No, I will wear something crappy... hihi... this guy had a sense of humor and took it well  ;D

ladyjennaj

  • Sr. Member
  • ****
  • Posts: 688
Re: Is it just me who hates it when they ask what I will be wearing?
« Reply #47 on: 12 April 2013, 11:39:02 am »
It actually drives me mental. Usually because I don't decide what Im wearing until the last minute, so it's ridiculous. Also, they say - 'can you wear something sexy?' as if you wouldn't anyway!  :FF

CSJ

  • Jr. Member
  • **
  • Posts: 33
Re: Is it just me who hates it when they ask what I will be wearing?
« Reply #48 on: 12 April 2013, 12:40:15 pm »
I am no great fan of wardrobe requests!

My default outfit for bookings is a beautifully cut, figure hugging LBD, lingerie set, stockings and heels. I feel like a million bucks in my work clothes, and want to go into a booking with a sexy and confident mind set. As a size 14, I know that dressing in a hot pants and crop top type get up is not going to do anything for my figure. I usually answer requests for outfits that are not going to make me look and feel great with 'I am afraid I don't have anything like that, but I will look very sexy wearing......'. Most times clients are still very happy to book. 

I no longer offer 'uniforms' after one too many stressful last minute dashes to Ann Summers only to have the client say ' that isn't quite want I had in mind, I wanted a red nurses dress, not white!'. Sometimes no matter how hard we try to please, it is never quite what they had in mind! 

ladyjennaj

  • Sr. Member
  • ****
  • Posts: 688
Re: Is it just me who hates it when they ask what I will be wearing?
« Reply #49 on: 12 April 2013, 02:09:48 pm »
Agreed. I firmly believe that offering uniforms is a waste of time and money.

jasmine123

  • Full Member
  • ***
  • Posts: 111
Re: Is it just me who hates it when they ask what I will be wearing?
« Reply #50 on: 12 April 2013, 04:48:11 pm »
Chin chin can't be asked to wear uniforms either

Lady_Lust_XXX

  • Sr. Member
  • ****
  • Posts: 6,700
  • 'nil carborundum illegitimi'
Re: Is it just me who hates it when they ask what I will be wearing?
« Reply #51 on: 12 April 2013, 06:06:41 pm »
Ive read on other forums that girls are happy to answer the door at their incall premises in jeans and a t shirt.  Im a stockings, sexy lingerie ................ smart clothes sorta person.  I would be appalled if I was a client and went to a WGs door and she answered the door in jeans and a t shirt.  Would put a dampner on the booking for me.  :(
Beauty is nothing to do with having a pretty face.
It is about having a pretty mind, a pretty heart,
And most importantly a beautiful soul.

strawberry

  • Guest
Re: Is it just me who hates it when they ask what I will be wearing?
« Reply #52 on: 12 April 2013, 06:40:03 pm »
Ive read on other forums that girls are happy to answer the door at their incall premises in jeans and a t shirt.  Im a stockings, sexy lingerie ................ smart clothes sorta person.  I would be appalled if I was a client and went to a WGs door and she answered the door in jeans and a t shirt.  Would put a dampner on the booking for me.  :(

I've seen those posts, reports and a couple of clients have said to me "I like visiting you you always wear lingerie, other ladies don't". Only time I haven't was a time when a guy I'd already had a couple of bookings with, who I know is hopeless with advance notice but is reliable spur of the moment asked if he could see me in the next 20 minutes. I said "Ok then but you'll have to have me as I am" I knew he really thought I was very attractive, and I don't need much make up anyway. I already had clean, matching knickers and bra set on but did swap the woolly tights for hold-ups his request for stockings and suspenders at ten minutes to go was ignored(I was busy with the quickest whip around my place, putting heating on, tidying laundry away and figured the basics were the most important at that point).

ParisB

  • Guest
Re: Is it just me who hates it when they ask what I will be wearing?
« Reply #53 on: 12 April 2013, 07:58:42 pm »
Ive read on other forums that girls are happy to answer the door at their incall premises in jeans and a t shirt.  Im a stockings, sexy lingerie ................ smart clothes sorta person.  I would be appalled if I was a client and went to a WGs door and she answered the door in jeans and a t shirt.  Would put a dampner on the booking for me.  :(


I know  I'm always dressed in stockings suspenders lingerie high heels   On the odd occasion if someone wants to see me quickly and its a regular i may answer the door with just a towel ( but i would still go a get changed straight away)

meetingdiversity

  • Guest
Re: Is it just me who hates it when they ask what I will be wearing?
« Reply #54 on: 12 April 2013, 08:36:22 pm »
Ive read on other forums that girls are happy to answer the door at their incall premises in jeans and a t shirt.  Im a stockings, sexy lingerie ................ smart clothes sorta person.  I would be appalled if I was a client and went to a WGs door and she answered the door in jeans and a t shirt.  Would put a dampner on the booking for me.  :(

I only wear casual when not working like taking the day off. I think it is a must to be sexy on their arrival. After all that is what they will be paying for. Also clients will more than likely return. 

ladyjennaj

  • Sr. Member
  • ****
  • Posts: 688
Re: Is it just me who hates it when they ask what I will be wearing?
« Reply #55 on: 12 April 2013, 10:01:07 pm »
I go for a little black dress, stockings and heels. It works fine for me :)

meetingdiversity

  • Guest
Re: Is it just me who hates it when they ask what I will be wearing?
« Reply #56 on: 12 April 2013, 10:53:57 pm »
I am no great fan of wardrobe requests!

My default outfit for bookings is a beautifully cut, figure hugging LBD, lingerie set, stockings and heels. I feel like a million bucks in my work clothes, and want to go into a booking with a sexy and confident mind set. As a size 14, I know that dressing in a hot pants and crop top type get up is not going to do anything for my figure. I usually answer requests for outfits that are not going to make me look and feel great with 'I am afraid I don't have anything like that, but I will look very sexy wearing......'. Most times clients are still very happy to book. 

I no longer offer 'uniforms' after one too many stressful last minute dashes to Ann Summers only to have the client say ' that isn't quite want I had in mind, I wanted a red nurses dress, not white!'. Sometimes no matter how hard we try to please, it is never quite what they had in mind!


I would never go out and buy on request another uniform on their demand unless they paid for it in advance via aw voucher. I have a range of uniforms, with a fresh one every day. I have learned that many talk nonsense 98% of the time. But will make that extra effort of being ready on arrival for aw bookings.
« Last Edit: 12 April 2013, 10:57:44 pm by meetingdiversity »

Lady H

  • Guest
Re: Is it just me who hates it when they ask what I will be wearing?
« Reply #57 on: 15 April 2013, 12:17:52 am »
Am I the only person who hates stockings/holdups? I generally won't wear them unless requested, if I answer an incall dressed I wear tights and whip them off fast (I also have hold up patterned tights because I'm practical I guess) if I answer in lingerie and a robe I just have bare legs. I just I hate how easily they fall off or rip or whatever, I rip them FIRST TIME always and then it's ?10 down the drain so I just have one pair on standby just in case otherwise I don't wear them.

Kimmy

  • Sr. Member
  • ****
  • Posts: 482
Re: Is it just me who hates it when they ask what I will be wearing?
« Reply #58 on: 15 April 2013, 12:39:39 pm »
Am I the only person who hates stockings/holdups? I generally won't wear them unless requested, if I answer an incall dressed I wear tights and whip them off fast (I also have hold up patterned tights because I'm practical I guess) if I answer in lingerie and a robe I just have bare legs. I just I hate how easily they fall off or rip or whatever, I rip them FIRST TIME always and then it's ?10 down the drain so I just have one pair on standby just in case otherwise I don't wear them.

I worked for 2 years without any and had no problems, guys asked but I just told them no, most still booked. I don't like them, they look horrible and old fashioned and need replacing all the time! Maybe cos clients tend to be quite old (compared to me) as I've found most young guys don't like them either.  I too jus have a crappy pair incase anyone asks. No idea what men find so 'sexy' about them.
« Last Edit: 15 April 2013, 12:41:37 pm by Kimmy »

Lady H

  • Guest
Re: Is it just me who hates it when they ask what I will be wearing?
« Reply #59 on: 15 April 2013, 04:33:09 pm »
Yeah they don't do anything that long socks don't do, thing is if you stay perfectly still holdups can look kind nice but as soon as you move they create all sorts of unflattering bumps esp with a garter belt, and under clothes they make the most ridiculously lines. I'm pretty sure they're only seen as sexy because they're so impractical and ruck up as soon as you move. I've worn just holdups with a long skirt for my bf before and they fall down without fail, same with stockings, walk too quickly and the plastic thing unpings or they ladder and you end up looking really unsexy because you're always fiddling with them.