I find that those clients that say
what will you be wearing are 99percent timewasters simply wanting you to stay on the phone for their wank material - I normally ask those that ask this question something really boring like excuse me what's the time as it a real wank killer and instant limp dick and they normally hang up.
those clients that say
can you wear stockings ,suspenders or can you wear that item from your photos tend to be genuine as stockings suspenders or a particular dress is part of there fantasy when seeing you
But i have yet to get really disturbed by this question, Its not as if they are asking something really weird or strange they are just a bit wankerish. But then again very little bothers me, if i were to let things something simple and takes 30 seconds of my time to bother me i would have been sectioned many years ago and defiantly not let out - No care in the community for me