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Re: Is it just me who hates it when they ask what I will be wearing?
« Reply #15 on: 13 March 2013, 09:00:57 pm »
I understood perfectly, I am just very spatial  ;D ::)
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« Reply #16 on: 13 March 2013, 09:15:44 pm »
  I find that those clients that say what will you be wearing  are 99percent  timewasters simply  wanting you to stay on the phone for  their  wank material  - I normally ask those that ask this question something really boring  like  excuse me what's the time as it a real wank killer and instant limp dick and they normally hang up.   

  those clients  that say can you wear stockings ,suspenders or can you wear that item from your photos tend to be genuine as stockings suspenders or a particular dress is part of there fantasy when seeing you 

But i have yet to get really disturbed by this question,  Its not as if they are asking something really weird or strange they are just a bit wankerish.  But then again very little bothers me, if i were to  let things something simple and takes 30 seconds of my time to  bother me i would have been sectioned many years ago and defiantly not let out - No care in the community for me  ;D
« Last Edit: 13 March 2013, 09:23:18 pm by ParisB »

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Re: Is it just me who hates it when they ask what I will be wearing?
« Reply #17 on: 13 March 2013, 09:16:14 pm »
Well it's all good fun, but as Paris says (and I was trying to) when we're talking about the difference between a punter who probably will turn up compared with one who almost certainly won't, I think it's a distinction worth making, if for nobody's benefit other than the noobs :).

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Re: Is it just me who hates it when they ask what I will be wearing?
« Reply #18 on: 13 March 2013, 10:12:24 pm »
My personal pet hate is when they ask, "are ya any good" grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

I mean hth do ya answer that without sounding big headed or vain or do u play it down and say well actually no mary in number 50 is far better lol

I tend to say" if you have to ask then i'm probably not the lady for u "
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« Reply #19 on: 13 March 2013, 10:13:47 pm »
My personal pet hate is when they ask, "are ya any good" grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

I mean hth do ya answer that without sounding big headed or vain or do u play it down and say well actually no mary in number 50 is far better lol

I tend to say" if you have to ask then i'm probably not the lady for u "


i say depend on you -  I'm  only as good as the dick that I'm sucking /fucking

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« Reply #20 on: 13 March 2013, 10:25:54 pm »
My personal pet hate is when they ask, "are ya any good" grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

I mean hth do ya answer that without sounding big headed or vain or do u play it down and say well actually no mary in number 50 is far better lol

I tend to say" if you have to ask then i'm probably not the lady for u "


i say depend on you -  I'm  only as good as the dick that I'm sucking /fucking

I sometimes say, "No I'm rubbish don't come see me" ending with a little laugh. :D

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Re: Is it just me who hates it when they ask what I will be wearing?
« Reply #21 on: 14 March 2013, 04:29:30 pm »
Here here to meeting diversity.

I'm not being rude we are escorts and we all waste a little time so please don't act like you perfect and you lov every job because you don't. Your an escort for easy money that's the truth. Don't get me wrong I'm get happy truly but I hate people who act they give a hundred percent perfection be quad you don't.

Good luck with you whatever I just think to be honest it should go both ways it's not all about you and it's not all about them their should be a mutual balance

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Re: Is it just me who hates it when they ask what I will be wearing?
« Reply #22 on: 14 March 2013, 04:35:17 pm »
Here here to meeting diversity.

I'm not being rude we are escorts and we all waste a little time so please don't act like you perfect and you lov every job because you don't. Your an escort for easy money that's the truth. Don't get me wrong I'm get happy truly but I hate people who act they give a hundred percent perfection be quad you don't.

Good luck with you whatever I just think to be honest it should go both ways it's not all about you and it's not all about them their should be a mutual balance

Jasmine, if you're addressing somebody in particular can you please quote their post so both they and everybody else are clear about where your comments are being aimed?

And please do not appoint yourself to speak for other people - you have no idea nor any way of knowing how or why other people work, whether you believe it to be 'the truth' or not. Your opinion is as valid as anybody else's, but that's all it is and that does not make it fact.

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« Reply #23 on: 14 March 2013, 05:26:12 pm »
ok to point out i think it was for nobody interesting lol.

feels like i got a telling off. should you not read the other messages and say the same thing amy.

I have stated an opinion yes do i believe its right again yes. Am I always on the look out to learn something new yes.

Thats me done with this topic

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« Reply #24 on: 14 March 2013, 07:09:55 pm »
There are no other messages as far as I can see which claim to know what other people think and feel, or state that the opinions in them are 'the truth'. That is the only part which is not acceptable - the quoting just makes it a lot easier for everybody to follow and reduces misunderstandings.

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« Reply #25 on: 14 March 2013, 08:22:17 pm »
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Re: Is it just me who hates it when they ask what I will be wearing?
« Reply #26 on: 14 March 2013, 10:49:26 pm »
(granny bras and bridget jones pants anyone?!)

No bra and granny pants for me! I hate wearing bra's, I wouldn't go out without one but being braless at home is bliss.

Re: Callers asking what I will be wearing, I just say nice underwear and heels. I don't entertain much more chat about it, I don't care for the question much myself.

Genuine requests, such as gents that prefer stockings to holdups or want me in knee high boots rather than heels is fine and I can usually tell the genuine ones.

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Re: Is it just me who hates it when they ask what I will be wearing?
« Reply #27 on: 15 March 2013, 11:33:24 am »
I'm not being rude we are escorts and we all waste a little time so please don't act like you perfect and you lov every job because you don't. Your an escort for easy money that's the truth. Don't get me wrong I'm get happy truly but I hate people who act they give a hundred percent perfection be quad you don't.

I have never, so far in my limited time, wasted time of the clients. I have also genuinely liked every job and give as much of me that is possible. Additionally money is NOT my primary reason (note that does not mean this is not a business choice) and in fact I work harder for this money than I have ever worked previously. That is me. It is a fact for me. Other women work very differently from me, from their needs to their attitudes and reasons. I do not speak for them, just me.
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Re: Is it just me who hates it when they ask what I will be wearing?
« Reply #28 on: 15 March 2013, 02:38:42 pm »
Here here to meeting diversity.

I'm not being rude we are escorts and we all waste a little time so please don't act like you perfect and you lov every job because you don't. Your an escort for easy money that's the truth. Don't get me wrong I'm get happy truly but I hate people who act they give a hundred percent perfection be quad you don't.

Good luck with you whatever I just think to be honest it should go both ways it's not all about you and it's not all about them their should be a mutual balance

Anything I do within an appointment is all part of interaction with the client during the booking, it's not to waste time and in fact I prefer to be actively engaged rather than lying back hoping time will fly by - willing the clock on doesn't work, and doesn't lead to the same sense of achievement(knowing you've put the effort into earning your day's income).

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Re: Is it just me who hates it when they ask what I will be wearing?
« Reply #29 on: 16 March 2013, 02:37:55 pm »
Am I the only person who actually took the OP exactly as it was written (ie nothing whatsoever to do with genuine clothing requests and everything to do with timewasters wanting you to waffle on the phone about underwear) ???

I read it as that too.... when someone asks me that, I interpret it as an attempted phone wank so get of the phone sharpish and just say 'I need to go, my booking has turned up, email me any specific requests'.

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