Absolutely despise it when I get asked this and glad others feel the same! If I did incalls then no problem I would definitely answer the door in a lbd dolled up to nines, but for a daytime or evening outcall which is what I mostly do I'm always coming straight from uni, booking requests for a meet at 3pm with 'please wear a long black expensive coat with nothing underneath', ok no problem your highness:) Get real! Agreed that the 'will you wear something sexy?' is equally irritating, no I'll be wearing a binbag babe are you still up for the meet?

That's the problem you can't really try hold ups on in the store or anything, my brain and clothes don't get on well.

I think with when they ask what you'll be wearing, it's often how they ask as well, it's nearly always in the most demanding, bossy way possible, if they asked it in a, I really like it if a woman wears such and such would you be able to wear that for me please? kind of way it would definitely be less grating, I mean I'll do clothing requests if I have it but if me not having their specific outfit is a dealbreaker I do wonder if they'd be better off buying a barbie doll, I thought the point was a sexy time rather than let's see if a green beret suits her golden curls.