I get asked it quite often but I dont mind.  I normally just answer with lingerie, stockings and heels and that seems to suffice

Its not just you, me too.

It disturbs me deeply when my clients tell me what to wear. I am always well dressed, wearing lingerie and high heels. Its a given. I don't like the tone they take with me, I feel like I'm being ordered around as some sort of put down. Maybe its imagined but I do think its sexist. I have never in my life told a man what to wear and accept them for who they are. Apparently, the feeling is not mutual.

Baffles  me whenever I'm asked "Will you wear something nice?", or "Will you wear something sexy?". I don't think I have anything which isn't sexy or 'nice' however one guy did explain not every lady does this, some don't wear stockings, heels, matching lingerie so maybe that's why they ask?

If I'm asked I just say "High heels, stockings, suspenders, matching lingerie and either dress or skirt and blouse over the top" because that's usually what I go for, unless asked otherwise. One client asked me to wear "whatever you wear when not working", well that day I had a reasonably formal interview, so was dressed in way not unlike that for when I am seeing clients and that's what I kept on for his booking because it was true - I was dressed as I was when not working[that day].

I don't think Lottie means when punters book and request specific items or garments - I read it as when they don't specify anything and ask 'what will you be wearing?' in order to try to get you to spend more time on the phone than is necessary talking about all your Sexxee Lingeree .

Despite always being told never to answer a question with a question, I tend to respond with 'well I have lots of nice things - is there something you particularly like or don't like?' People who just want free sex talk then normally bog off, and the ones who just wanted to check you have stockings and suspenders, or a particular colour (or whatever) can do so .

I don't mind unless they show signs of wasting my time.

Wear a coat or a jumper or even better when you see the client ask him for the lol tr him you have something up your sleeve. Put the top on once you have the monies in the bathroom. You kill time and everybody is happy.

Remember your giving a service yes u want the money but you sti have to be a professional and bite your tongue till he's crossing the line.

jasmine123, I refuse to pander to a clients wants regarding outerwear. Underwear, yes within reason. Any man that wishes for me to turn up looking like a slapper can do one! I have the brains to work out a suitable outfit for a location.

Also, not sure you can talk about the killing of time and being a professional at the same time if I am honest!

ladyofthemansion, I have had a couple ask, one said "Thank goodness, I want a lady in the parlour and slut in the bedroom. The last lady got it the wrong way" after I filled him in lol. The other gave me the creeps with a few other things and so I declined his booking. He wanted me to arrive at The Dorchester (I checked the booking, he was there) wearing fishnets (and a butt plug) amongst other things.

Actually, I am wrong. I have pandered to "Can you wear a button up top". No problem.

Oh gosh I know...same reason I am not going knickerless, wearing feck all under a coat etc. Not knocking those that chose too, but I just refuse to.

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