And why can't I meet them in my civvy life?

Because they are usually spoken for and just want a NSA with no potential complications. In my experience, at least. >.>

You only met them for 30 mins each.

If you were their significant other who had to tolerate them 168 hours a week you might not see them through rose tinted glasses and see them for the lying cheating guys they really are. Well most of them anyway.

The mask is easy to keep on for a short time but for any longer then it's another story.

True. I guess that's one of my biggest fears. Nice guys who turn once they no longer can keep up the fa?ade.

It's like when you have  a regular for a few months at first he is polite and clean. After a few visits he starts to try and take liberties going outwith your profile and pushes the time limit longer.
It's a bit like a marriage all nice and comfortable at first then they start taking u for granted.

It's like when you have  a regular for a few months at first he is polite and clean. After a few visits he starts to try and take liberties going outwith your profile and pushes the time limit longer.
It's a bit like a marriage all nice and comfortable at first then they start taking u for granted.

This isn't my experience at all. I find that regulars who are a problem, always start out that way - there's always something, you think well the over running or  being a bit flaky, whatever isn't so bad, it was their first booking, they were nervous, they'll iron it out next time. What I find is that whatever goes on in the first booking, usually continues. I've never had a regular suddenly take me for granted, or push boundaries it's always been there from the first booking.

And why can't I meet them in my civvy life?

Just had two half hour bookings with two amazing guys. Wow, wow, wow. I would have paid both of them, ha ha!

Does anyone else find this? That no matter where you look in your ordinary life every guy is a scumbag, yet when they pay for it they're the nicest guys on the planet.

Weird.

They were probably thinking the same about you! 

Haha I have thought this a few times and my regulars have said it to me about me in bookings. Then I think... We are only seeing each other for a couple hours a week for sex and a positive chat, and can guarantee if I saw some of them 24/7 the halo would slip and they would get on my nerves haha!

We are so alike, ha ha! Although I did see my favourite again last night and not only did we have great sex, in every position, we also had a great chat too. And he was the first guy to use my shower and it took him ages to figure out that my shower controls are back to front - ie, hot is cold and cold is hot. Bless him! 

Quote from: Gypsy on 22 December 2015, 05:34:48 pm

And why can't I meet them in my civvy life?

Just had two half hour bookings with two amazing guys. Wow, wow, wow. I would have paid both of them, ha ha!

Does anyone else find this? That no matter where you look in your ordinary life every guy is a scumbag, yet when they pay for it they're the nicest guys on the planet.

Weird.

I also have a theory that men value things more when they pay for them, and therefore will treat you better if they have had to sacrifice and save up to see you, rather than having you as a quick free shag at the end of a night out.

x

Definitely,  that's clear to see in loads of areas in life. If something is easy to attain and just handed to you on a plate it loses its sparkle and there's no anticipation