I really feel for you here, he 100% should have told you beforehand, it's not as if they don't know. It's so fucking rude, like they are paying and it shouldn't matter. Worth a post in the warning section perhaps? I'd want to know if he tried to book me.

I guess there will be differing views here but personally I would not see someone with that issue, given a choice. We all have our limits and we should be aware if there is an issue like this, some will be fine and some not. Me personally, not. Sorry you had to deal with this. 

Cum is gross enough to fucking deal with, without the issue of piss & shit. I feel sick now. Glad I don't do any kind of anal!

You ladies are saints!

The saving grace was as he could not get even a little bit of an erection so all I could give him was a massage and try to give him a bit of hand relief but that was no good and just increased the dribbling so I stopped that. He was a nice bloke and if he hadn't had a 2 hour round trip to see me I think I would have terminated the booking.

He said he wants to visit again but I currently have the throws and towels from the bed in the wash, the bedroom window open and candles on for the old man smell so that will not be happening.

 

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Actually, I feel a little sorry for him, must be horrible to have those sort of things happen to your body and feeling old and probably too embarrassed to say on the phone and you had towels down so what was the problem? Maybe he would have said something if you hadn't.

Maybe, as someone has suggested, if you don't like the problems that come with old age you limit your clients to under 60.

I have lots of older clients that are lovely but he had no way of knowing if I was going to protect the bed and did not check or know that I had as I had a large throw over the towels so as far as he was concerned there may have been no protection under this. I have sympathy for him and understand he may have felt embarrassed by his "little problem" but he made no attempt to mention anything until I mentioned to him that he seemed to have a issue.

I am a health professional so I know how to approach these situations and have no issues with older gents but I am not prepared to do oral without (as he requested) when there is incontinence and I am not going to allow him to rub his penis on my vulva without being able to use a condom (as he also requested). I feel the issues I have raised show his attitude that we should make allowances for things we are unaware of at the times of booking and how these may impact on the services we are willing to provide.

I do feel sorry for him but have experienced things like this myself and it made for a very uncomfortable booking which I would have preferred to have a clue about before hand.
I feel they don't say anything sometimes because they worry about being turned away.I had disabled welcome on my adverts all through my career so they should have known I would have probably been fine with alot of things if they had been honest.
This included several people who admitted they had occasional faecal incontinence due to medical problems which they only were like 'Oh yeah' when there was shit on the bedding.One guy had had the cheek to ask for rimming because he had showered but still had anal leakage.Another expected me to do anal play on him again knowing he had constant anal leakage.
Another bloke turned up with severe Parkinsons and expected me to somehow get him in the bath and pee on him...just ridiculous!Oh yes and the guy that shot blood in my mouth during cim then admitted after that it happens now and then due to prostrate issues.
I have to say putting an upper age limit would have been pointless as several of these blokes were middle aged rather than elderly.
No matter their reasons for not wanting to tell you before hand,it is a form of boundary pushing especially when they expect services that their medical issue can affect.

but I am not prepared to do oral without (as he requested) when there is incontinence and I am not going to allow him to rub his penis on my vulva without being able to use a condom (as he also requested). I feel the issues I have raised show his attitude that we should make allowances for things we are unaware of at the times of booking and how these may impact on the services we are willing to provide.

How old was he?I don't understand why they come & see us if they have all these issues & especially after just been operated on how ridiculous to be leaking piss & expect a woman to offer sexual services. 

The bit in bold; how vile, I'd be livid after he dropped his pants. Why proceed with the booking if he was pushing the boundaries like that? It's bad enough not telling you about the incontinence. He knew that he wouldn't get a look in that's why. What an arsehole. Guys like this are out to degrade from the outset, they've got zero respect for women.

I praise your capacity for patience & compassion but you shouldn't feel like you have to put with that especially from a boundary pushing prick.

The only time I've had a guy wearing a nappy is when it's been a Fetish & he told me first. I wouldn't see him again though I found it too weird & him a bit creepy.