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Inappropriate outcall locations
« on: 20 August 2024, 03:43:04 pm »
There's another thread on here somewhere about visiting client homes while the partner / wife is out etc but I wondered what strange / inappropriate non domestic places anyone else has been asked to do an outcall to and whether you've done them?

I've turned down requests to have sex on the basement stockroom floor of a shop, the bare staircase of an empty house being renovated and many other similarly uncomfortable proposals. Similarly I'd never contemplate an outcall on wheels or outdoors myself, although I respect that there are providers who do.

I totally get the sexy secretary / interviewee coming into the office scenario so was moderately interested in agreeing to such a booking request today and asked for the specific address. He annoyed me from the outset by asking if I could be discrete etc, which always seems deeply offensive.

He then went from describing the venue as "a business I run" and giving the road name (quite a long road) then when prompted said it was a charity  - so I was assuming an admin base - then eventually gave the name of the building but still not the business name.

Upon googling it, it turns out to be a day centre for the elderly, although he then assured me the staff would be gone by the time I got there. Still totally unethical as far as I'm concerned so I refused and told him why.

Has anyone else been asked to visit somewhere completely unethical / inappropriate for an outcall?

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« Reply #1 on: 20 August 2024, 05:44:25 pm »
I had a recent outcall request at his home whilst his wife was home, but not to worry we wouldn’t be disturbed as she has Alzheimer’s.

How utterly disrespectful to his poor wife.

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« Reply #2 on: 20 August 2024, 07:02:58 pm »
I had a recent outcall request at his home whilst his wife was home, but not to worry we wouldn’t be disturbed as she has Alzheimer’s.

How utterly disrespectful to his poor wife.

OMG that is horrendous.

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« Reply #3 on: 20 August 2024, 07:16:22 pm »
I had an outcall for 4 hours to someone’s private home. Very chilled had dinner downstairs for around 2 hours, when we walk up stairs he casually opens the door to his 8 year old son asleep and says ‘don’t worry he sleeps like a baby, he won’t hear us’….  I found it really disturbing as he then told me it was his turn to have him over (separated from partner). Like WTF you couldn’t wait till he went back to his mums??!

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« Reply #4 on: 20 August 2024, 10:00:30 pm »
I've had an outcall years ago to a reg. His wife used too go out on weds for the day. (I  didn't know this). So we right in the middle of it and she walks in! Apparently the gym shut for the day (some emergency electrical problem) and everyone couldn't use the premises

She started screaming at us. I got my clothes and said sorry don't scream at me, hes paid me I'm just doing my job and had no idea he had a wife and walked out.

Another time I seen a young lad about 19, his mother came home early and just walked in his bedroom and I had too pretend I was a girlfriend (i was in my late 20s)

But I did have one awkward booking. A guy contacted me. He was a carer for his wife who been in car crash, she was paralyzed from neck down in wheel chair. They had an agreement that he could see escorts at his home. I spoke to her and she was fine and he had lots of feedback and I spoke too another escort he seen. So knew it was all above board.

So got too house and went upstairs done business. On way out the wife in wheel chair was waiting, she told husband to make a cuppa tea, and said to  him  make sure the lovely lady has some cake and biscuits and then started chatting about normal stuff and like did I have far too drive , and genuine conversation. She was so polite and nice. I felt awkward as just been upstairs and done business. She didn't mention anything about that think she was happy to have another woman to talk too!


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« Reply #5 on: 20 August 2024, 11:38:55 pm »
I've had an outcall years ago to a reg. His wife used too go out on weds for the day. (I  didn't know this). So we right in the middle of it and she walks in! Apparently the gym shut for the day (some emergency electrical problem) and everyone couldn't use the premises

She started screaming at us. I got my clothes and said sorry don't scream at me, hes paid me I'm just doing my job and had no idea he had a wife and walked out.

Another time I seen a young lad about 19, his mother came home early and just walked in his bedroom and I had too pretend I was a girlfriend (i was in my late 20s)

But I did have one awkward booking. A guy contacted me. He was a carer for his wife who been in car crash, she was paralyzed from neck down in wheel chair. They had an agreement that he could see escorts at his home. I spoke to her and she was fine and he had lots of feedback and I spoke too another escort he seen. So knew it was all above board.

So got too house and went upstairs done business. On way out the wife in wheel chair was waiting, she told husband to make a cuppa tea, and said to  him  make sure the lovely lady has some cake and biscuits and then started chatting about normal stuff and like did I have far too drive , and genuine conversation. She was so polite and nice. I felt awkward as just been upstairs and done business. She didn't mention anything about that think she was happy to have another woman to talk too!

I thought I had heard/seen it all but after reading your post I realised I've had a very sheltered life lol.
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Re: Inappropriate outcall locations
« Reply #6 on: 21 August 2024, 08:58:47 am »
I have been to some filthy dumps.
I'm glad I got all the Cynthia Payne books before the prices rocked to sky high.

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« Reply #7 on: 21 August 2024, 07:04:10 pm »
I had a recent outcall request at his home whilst his wife was home, but not to worry we wouldn’t be disturbed as she has Alzheimer’s.

How utterly disrespectful to his poor wife.

Oh my goodness yes, very disrespectful

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« Reply #8 on: 21 August 2024, 07:06:04 pm »
I had an outcall for 4 hours to someone’s private home. Very chilled had dinner downstairs for around 2 hours, when we walk up stairs he casually opens the door to his 8 year old son asleep and says ‘don’t worry he sleeps like a baby, he won’t hear us’….  I found it really disturbing as he then told me it was his turn to have him over (separated from partner). Like WTF you couldn’t wait till he went back to his mums??!

I'd imagine you found it hard to relax at all after that, did you stay for the rest of the booking?

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« Reply #9 on: 21 August 2024, 07:09:30 pm »
But I did have one awkward booking. A guy contacted me. He was a carer for his wife who been in car crash, she was paralyzed from neck down in wheel chair. They had an agreement that he could see escorts at his home. I spoke to her and she was fine and he had lots of feedback and I spoke too another escort he seen. So knew it was all above board.

So got too house and went upstairs done business. On way out the wife in wheel chair was waiting, she told husband to make a cuppa tea, and said to  him  make sure the lovely lady has some cake and biscuits and then started chatting about normal stuff and like did I have far too drive , and genuine conversation. She was so polite and nice. I felt awkward as just been upstairs and done business. She didn't mention anything about that think she was happy to have another woman to talk too!


I guess that's a very enlightened approach to the situation they were in, fair play if they were both in agreement, but not at all what we're used to!

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« Reply #10 on: 26 August 2024, 09:54:01 pm »
Two spring to mind. One was a youngish man about 22…said his girlfriend has just gone out for the evening. She kept texting him and he was really jittery. Then I heard crying (there was a lot of toys everywhere) from the next room. It transpires his 4 month old was in the bedroom. He’d already paid me. I left. That’s just not exciting on any level - why didn’t he just go and visit someone?

The other one was a car mechanic who told me he’d leave the door open and just come in. I duly did and found him strapped to a step ladder bent over in gimp mask, thigh high boots that I was jealous of and a PVC corset. Which is all fine in itself but the living room was revolting. Full of cat parts.., again not so bad except it was like it hasn’t been cleaned in years. Oil and grease and just rubbish everywhere. The bathroom was awful. Crusty. Then the bedroom where he said his 10 year old comes to stay every weekend had beetles on the bed. Seemed like a nice man I just can’t see how he could invite someone into that but I don’t think reading your other answers that these men think like we do.


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« Reply #11 on: 26 August 2024, 09:55:23 pm »
Sorry CAR parts !!!

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« Reply #12 on: 27 August 2024, 09:05:09 am »
The other one was a car mechanic who told me he’d leave the door open and just come in. I duly did and found him strapped to a step ladder bent over in gimp mask, thigh high boots that I was jealous of and a PVC corset. Which is all fine in itself but the living room was revolting. Full of cat parts.., again not so bad except it was like it hasn’t been cleaned in years. Oil and grease and just rubbish everywhere. The bathroom was awful. Crusty. Then the bedroom where he said his 10 year old comes to stay every weekend had beetles on the bed. Seemed like a nice man I just can’t see how he could invite someone into that but I don’t think reading your other answers that these men think like we do.

Made me laugh then gag!!!

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Re: Inappropriate outcall locations
« Reply #13 on: 27 August 2024, 09:26:56 am »
Two spring to mind. One was a youngish man about 22…said his girlfriend has just gone out for the evening. She kept texting him and he was really jittery. Then I heard crying (there was a lot of toys everywhere) from the next room. It transpires his 4 month old was in the bedroom. He’d already paid me. I left. That’s just not exciting on any level - why didn’t he just go and visit someone?

The other one was a car mechanic who told me he’d leave the door open and just come in. I duly did and found him strapped to a step ladder bent over in gimp mask, thigh high boots that I was jealous of and a PVC corset. Which is all fine in itself but the living room was revolting. Full of cat parts.., again not so bad except it was like it hasn’t been cleaned in years. Oil and grease and just rubbish everywhere. The bathroom was awful. Crusty. Then the bedroom where he said his 10 year old comes to stay every weekend had beetles on the bed. Seemed like a nice man I just can’t see how he could invite someone into that but I don’t think reading your other answers that these men think like we do.

Quite a few men say they will leave the door open, just walk in. I want to see the face of the person before I step in - for me it's safety. When I was robbed at knifepoint incall I hadn't looked before letting him in, if I had I might have either (a) noticed him wearing a mask and not let him in or (b) seen a glimpse of his face before he put his mask on. The only person(s) I would walk in without seeing them are regulars whom I know a lot about.

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« Reply #14 on: 27 August 2024, 02:29:29 pm »
Mirror you are right. This was a long time ago when I was younger and didn’t think/know as much as I do now.

I (silly now) thought as it was 3 pm in a house in the suburbs that it would be OK. And it was in the sense that nothing bad happened to me…but it could have. This is years before I started reading this site and if I’m honest with you I’ve learnt a lot here. I stopped doing this for a long time and in the hiatus became less risk taking.

Thinking about it now - that was silly. But also he had literally bound himself up and let a stranger into his house. However what was I going to steal ? Dirt ?!