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Red KB

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Very Annoying Neighbours
« on: 17 May 2014, 07:05:16 pm »
The row of houses where I live all have front and back gardens. For some reason my neighbours started only sitting in their front garden last year. I find it so intrusive knowing they can see who is coming and going from my house. I just wanted to vent a bit about it!
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Re: Very Annoying Neighbours
« Reply #1 on: 17 May 2014, 07:14:00 pm »
Oh gosh even though they are probably just enjoying the weather, that would piss me right off!!

Do you have a back entrance that your clients could use so there is no chance of the nosey neighbours seeing them?
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Re: Very Annoying Neighbours
« Reply #2 on: 17 May 2014, 08:02:36 pm »
Do you work from your home? If so you would be better using a hotel or looking for a flat for work.

Places where the neighbours are always about (wether thats because they don't work or that they are housewifes/husbands) and places with kids are one of the worst places to work from.
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Re: Very Annoying Neighbours
« Reply #3 on: 17 May 2014, 08:26:03 pm »
I work in a quiet residential street and the neighbours opposite are retired so especially in the summer are in their front garden pottering around, I am just as discreet as I can be, I don't see loads of clients daily, ask them to park round the corner, I also always say hi if they catch my eye, small talk about gardening, which I know fuck all about!  Difference is I don't live there.

I get paranoid that they suspect but don't think they do x

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Re: Very Annoying Neighbours
« Reply #4 on: 18 May 2014, 02:40:20 am »
Layla, has the timing of their sitting in the garden co-incided with your working.  By that I mean did they start sitting in the garden a few months after you started working from the place?
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Re: Very Annoying Neighbours
« Reply #5 on: 18 May 2014, 11:16:36 am »
They could be enjoying the weather...but why not use their back garden which is far more private?! It does seem their sitting in the front garden has coincided with my working though I don't really see many clients.

I considered renting somewhere else to work but it's all added costs and when I have a perfect extra bedroom just for this it would be a shame to not be using it.

At the end of the day I could always be offering a book keeping service ;) It really is none of their business. I just wanted a bit of a whinge! Thanks for the replies :)
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Re: Very Annoying Neighbours
« Reply #6 on: 18 May 2014, 12:38:03 pm »

When i first started escorting i lived on a less than desirable street where i had the same problem. (I'm not suggesting your area is undesirable by the way, just speaking from my own experience with annoying neighbors). The neighbors would sit in their front gardens and congregate on the door steps chatting and drinking in the sun - it was almost like benefit street but not quite as bad an area lol.

I found it virtually impossible to work from that place because of the type of neighbors i had, so at that point made the decision to only offer out calls. Looking back, if my neighbors had of been the retired and elderly type like you described, i may of felt able to work around it a little. The kind of neighbors i had seemed to feel they owned the street and took far too much notice of what other people were up to, so i'm pretty sure they would of twigged on.

Good luck, i hope you can work around this without it affecting your work  :)
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Re: Very Annoying Neighbours
« Reply #7 on: 18 May 2014, 03:47:29 pm »
It'll almost definitely be completely innocent, people do sit out at this time of year. I once had a client complain because the neighbours were sat and stood chatting around a communal flat entrance door. There's nothing you can do and majority of the time they are not looking out for the local prossie nor her clients - simply enjoying the weather. I've also worked from a house and occasionally neighbours did sit out like this, I don't see many clients and don't work every day so it actually rarely coincided with a client arriving and leaving. When it did nothing happened, one or two clients did say "uh there's someone sat out in their garden", and I would explain, yes they are entitled to do that on their own property, that I thought they would be more interested relaxing in the sunshine than wondering if he was a 'punter'.
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Re: Very Annoying Neighbours
« Reply #8 on: 18 May 2014, 04:18:10 pm »
I'm guessing guests to my property are less likely to notice them, thankfully none of them have ever mentioned it in any feedback I've been left. However my neighbours have been sat out there when the weather isn't so nice...
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Re: Very Annoying Neighbours
« Reply #9 on: 19 May 2014, 04:15:15 pm »
if it were me, next time you're chatting with the neighbours about gardening etc I'd casually mention that you're doing some part time work as a seamstress/giving guitar lessons/are thinking of renting out your spare room- either option will account for the occasional male visitor. Chances are they've not noticed anyone coming or going, but if you give them an explanation before they notice you've covered yourself!

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Re: Very Annoying Neighbours
« Reply #10 on: 02 June 2014, 03:06:21 pm »
I had a client ring today just before he was due to arrive because he was wary that my neighbours were in the front garden :/ Thankfully I was able to reassure him I'd be waiting at the front door to usher him straight in so he wasn't loitering on my doorstep too long.

I love summer but sometimes I wish it was winter!
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Re: Very Annoying Neighbours
« Reply #11 on: 04 June 2014, 11:39:35 pm »
Do they ever look at the guys or simply ignore them as that's a sign they don't think anything.

One of my neighbours smokes about 10 a day he told me so he stands out the front. He has a garden but mostly uses the front! Some of my guys have seen him there and wondered at 1st if he was my boyfriend or pimp! No one has cancelled cos of him though.  Only once in over 3 years has someone knocked on his door by mistake so he has no need to ask me about my business. I'm conscientious of course hence trying to get rid of 3.30am man. I can tell by neighbours reactions they suspect nothing.

One guy left a month ago and 2 of my neighbours were there gossiping about the bins. When my guy left I looked at the guys and they barely glanced at him and carried on (I listened carefully). Said client booked me again Saturday and said it bothered him a bit. (That's why he didn't leave me feedback ::)

He should travel further out then.
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Re: Very Annoying Neighbours
« Reply #12 on: 04 June 2014, 11:41:43 pm »
I live in a block I forgot to say so his front door is just inches away from mine ::)
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Re: Very Annoying Neighbours
« Reply #13 on: 05 June 2014, 05:00:29 pm »
Clients can be super-sensitive, one guy would comment on people passing by in the street or a neighbour outside their property. Same person has now said isn't it great that there are other people doing normal things nearby providing a distraction. Open but also very discrete.
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