Well the finance didn't work out. Not due to the job but unfortunately due to his mental health issues which along with my own were just insurmountable. 6 weeks now and I'm getting there. Getting back to the old me, the me I liked. Looking forward, making plans. Having money again as I can work again properly and he's not spending it all!

Was quite apprehensive about taking new clients again as have only been seeing regs for practical reasons for a good few months now but he presto, last couple of weeks have had some lovely new clients, 2 under 25 (had been considering putting a lower age limit but mind changed now) and so feeling really good. Usual crap from TW's and been quiet but then I need to get back into updating adverts, showing I'm available etc. And I seem to have more patience - ie not getting so provoked by the tw's and wankers -  like it's 'here we go again'. Back in the saddle I'd say. Well certainly up to a trot, working my way up to a canter. Galloping has never really been my thing.

Just thought I'd share. Onwards and upwards I say! And lovely to be back in the forum 

I'm glad you're feeling more like yourself again, it's a lovely feeling.

Good luck moving forward xxx

I'm glad you're feeling more like yourself again, it's a lovely feeling.

Good luck moving forward xxx

Thank you - it's not luck, it's balls. Hooker balls!!! 

Well the finance didn't work out. Not due to the job but unfortunately due to his mental health issues which along with my own were just insurmountable. 6 weeks now and I'm getting there. Getting back to the old me, the me I liked. Looking forward, making plans. Having money again as I can work again properly and he's not spending it all!

Was quite apprehensive about taking new clients again as have only been seeing regs for practical reasons for a good few months now but he presto, last couple of weeks have had some lovely new clients, 2 under 25 (had been considering putting a lower age limit but mind changed now) and so feeling really good. Usual crap from TW's and been quiet but then I need to get back into updating adverts, showing I'm available etc. And I seem to have more patience - ie not getting so provoked by the tw's and wankers -  like it's 'here we go again'. Back in the saddle I'd say. Well certainly up to a trot, working my way up to a canter. Galloping has never really been my thing.

Just thought I'd share. Onwards and upwards I say! And lovely to be back in the forum 

Aww, good for you honey. I have just recently been through a breakup for similar reasons, so I know exactly what you're saying  It does get better after a while and I'm glad I have work to take my mind off things 

All wise words ladies, of which I would expect nothing less!