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lulu7

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I feel so insulted.
« on: 25 February 2016, 02:25:35 pm »
I had a client I had seen before message me at the start of the feb asking for a booking. I told him then to contact me in the last week of the month to talk about the next month.
I tell everyone this as it prevents me from being booked up months in advance and because I don't know what I'm doing too far in advance.
As of monday the small amount of availability i had was booked up. I took down my avaiblitly/blocked out my calendar  So today! The aforementioned client emails me and ask for a booking. My auto reply replies and says that I am fully booked and I am so sorry.

He then says "Seems there is little point in making contact again as I am not a "chosen one "

I was like  ??? so I message him and explain I found that a little unnecessary because I had explained I only see a very small amount of people now and there's not much I can do if other people email before him as I did tell him to contact me in the last week of the month.

he then says
"You clearly said to make contact near to March which I duly did ......
SOME WAFFLE IN
It's business after all. You exhange your body for money and both parties can decline"

It's not march and I checked my emails as I DELETE NOTHING! and there was my explanation of when to contact me  plain as day.
Now i'm so angry because he felt the need to bring up "you exchange your body for money" Just because he felt slighted that I didn't have any availability this month! I'm not bothered by it because it's true! but why did he need to add it to his email ?
My earlier emails stated nothing that could have lead to that remark and he's really just trying to insult me because he feels annoyed that I didn't give him special treatment and wait until he decided to book me. Like are you kidding me?
He's someone i've seen before  a few times! so it smarts because he seemed like such a nice guy and he's old enough to be my great grandfather so I mistakenly thought he was mature!

Am i overreacting because I really feel like he specifically said that to point out that I was just a lowly prostitute as it was a really unnecessary sentence. It had nothing to do with what we were discussing.

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Re: I feel so insulted.
« Reply #1 on: 25 February 2016, 02:33:52 pm »
He's bitter he's been rejected and doesn't get to see you that's what it is, take it as a compliment that he wants to see you that bad he's pissed off haha!
I've had guys do this as like you I see a small amount of guys and am very part time and get guys throwing their toys out the pram when I'm booked up, and one saying I'm nothing special men use me for sex, to which I replied yes they use my body for sex and I am more than happy with that, I also said I just be incredibly special for him to get so annoyed that he can't see me when it's convenient for him! And I thanked him for his message and told him not to email me again, blocked him and a week later he's texting my number apologising trying to book haha no chance!

This client obviously couldn't take the fact others got there before him the comment he made is typical comment from a bitter rejected client if it were me I would be like "Yes I exchange my body for me and clearly you really wanted my body else you wouldn't be so annoyed so thanks for the compliment and have a nice day, please don't contact again." And I would block him, that would really make him realise.

Block him and forget about him, he will regret being nasty to you eventually the ones who are desperate to see you like this one and then fly off the handle always try come running back. He aid that because he was annoyed he hasn't booked you and wanted to hurt you don't make it hurt you he's just another bitter sad loser who can't take rejection on the chin. Enjoy your bookings with the patient clients who don't feel the need to be nasty x

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Re: I feel so insulted.
« Reply #2 on: 25 February 2016, 02:50:19 pm »
I always make it clear that when someone contacts me at a later date, any booking is subject to my availability. He's angry and feeling rejected.

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Re: I feel so insulted.
« Reply #3 on: 25 February 2016, 03:05:47 pm »
All I can say, apart from that he is an arsehole, is that those 'great grandfather' types often behave that way, bacause there is not that much going on in their own life, so they think you must be the same, and waiting with your legs alart for their call. Plus you were clearly busy&unavailable which makes you more desirable in some people's little minds.
Don't even try to feel insulted as this is more ridiculous than insulting, how some people react if they don't have their way.
Oh, and of course he had to mention the body in exchange for money, that's their favourite!
Don't reply to him. He will be disappointed that his nasty little email had no effect on you.

lulu7

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Re: I feel so insulted.
« Reply #4 on: 25 February 2016, 04:25:00 pm »
Thank you guys! You are all absolutely right.

It was honestly so baffling and just serves as reminder to me that I need to stop taking everyone at face value.
They're only nice till they can't get what they want, then I'm just a lowly prossie whore  ::)

Like it seems silly considering my counter to the argument could have been but "you are somebody who has to pay girls to sleep with you. If I had to choose between being paid for sex and paying people for sex I think I know which one I would pick" but I'm not honestly of that opinion. If you buy/sell sex I don't judge or care and would never use that opinion as an insult because I felt slighted.  :FF men  ::)

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« Reply #5 on: 25 February 2016, 06:15:32 pm »
Write a reply perhaps something along the lines of;

 "listen up grandad (and that's me being polite), maybe you should see someone who's a bit closer to your own age & strop trying to massage your flagging ego & (sagging body) by pestering young women before they are actually available. Can't think of anything worse than sucking your wrinkled hairy dick. I'm far too busy with younger men who respect my dignity."

Then delete it before sending.  ;) His response says more about him than you. Bitter old git.


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Re: I feel so insulted.
« Reply #6 on: 25 February 2016, 08:03:00 pm »
Yes he is bitter but when these guys feel rejected etc, the truth about what they really think of escorts comes out doesn't it.

Take all their niceness with a pinch of salt (because it can turn just like that) and keep taking the money x

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Re: I feel so insulted.
« Reply #7 on: 27 February 2016, 09:03:06 pm »
You DO NOT exchange your body for money. You sell a service you provide with your body, as do we all.
If you sold your body, the guy would be legally able to carry it out the door and put it in the back of his van.

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Re: I feel so insulted.
« Reply #8 on: 27 February 2016, 10:24:42 pm »
Good lord, I can see why you were upset.  What he said was as rude as it was idiotic.

I would have felt inclined to respond "You exchange your money for pleasure and I am opting to decline giving you any pleasure so F off."

Hugs to you, hon.  We don't need idiots like this in our lives.

lulu7

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« Reply #9 on: 27 February 2016, 11:09:42 pm »
Thank you guys!

Haha Nova that's true!

I did reply and I told him I was offended by his comment and i pointed out that he's older than me by far! He should behave in a manner that befits his age. It's so silly to throw all his toys out of the pram because I'm not available once!
He replied (paraphrased)

"Thank you for the vitriolic message (eh? Did he read the message i sent ???) I know that all you want is money etc, This is what all the adult work girls want, you won't have to deal with my old body anymore as I now know you can't stand it. Gold digging whore etc"


I was baffled because he was playing the victim and inventing things that I never said. :FF
To say I was incensed when I read it because I never said I didn't enjoy his company. Nor did I ever say I can't stand his "old man body" or anyones for that matter.
I never said all I wanted was his money (because if I did, wouldn't I have booked him in? In fact wouldn't I work a lot more than I do now!) and I had no idea why he started playing the victim when I told him off for doing something so juvenile and unnecessary. I expect this behaviour from someone my own age!

Honestly that gold digging comment is one that some guys like to throw around the moment you point out they're wrong.

I had one email me a rather sexual email (nothing about a booking mind you)  which I ignored. He then emailed me again and told me to check out his cock. I replied no thanks, go away. He started screaming I was a gold digging whore.  ::)
I replied if being a gold digging whore keeps me away from men like you then yes! I am one.

So bloody juvenile. I shouldn't have engaged him in all honesty. I'm annoyed with myself but it really irked me because he seemed like such a nice guy and i have seen him a few times! And it baffles me that he insulted me all because I wasn't available for a booking!!!

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Re: I feel so insulted.
« Reply #10 on: 28 February 2016, 09:24:01 am »
I have had an old guy like this behave this way after being really nice. These guys are obviously incredibly insecure and cannot copy  with the fact they are old now. You are well rid of him as he has shown his true colours now!  Just ignore and   think of him as a nutter.

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« Reply #11 on: 28 February 2016, 11:36:15 am »
QUOTE:
He replied (paraphrased)

"Thank you for the vitriolic message (eh? Did he read the message i sent ???) I know that all you want is money etc, This is what all the adult work girls want, you won't have to deal with my old body anymore as I now know you can't stand it. Gold digging whore etc"
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Give me his number, I will sort him.

 ;D

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Re: I feel so insulted.
« Reply #12 on: 28 February 2016, 12:46:37 pm »
I am the only one who sees why the client is quite peeved???

Imagine if you wanted to make an appointment to a hairdresser for example who you decide you like and have started using regularly. You ring them up for an appointment they tell you to ring back in a week or two, so you do now they tell you they are full, would you not be pissed and tell them your taking your money else where? I would.

I am also baffled what his age has to do with it.


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Re: I feel so insulted.
« Reply #13 on: 28 February 2016, 01:05:42 pm »
Why argue with these guys? Silence would have been a better response.

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Re: I feel so insulted.
« Reply #14 on: 28 February 2016, 01:26:31 pm »
I am the only one who sees why the client is quite peeved???

Imagine if you wanted to make an appointment to a hairdresser for example who you decide you like and have started using regularly. You ring them up for an appointment they tell you to ring back in a week or two, so you do now they tell you they are full, would you not be pissed and tell them your taking your money else where? I would.

I am also baffled what his age has to do with it.
You  Do have a point. I think he left it very late though at the end of the month. Maybe it would have been better to pencil him in before you knew your availability and just let him know if you weren't able to do that day.