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amy

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I would hope when they say they did not notice, that they knew that they were wearing one during penetration, but kind of looked down and in their mind thought crikey I did not realize she  slipped one on me, but they did not wan to mention it to the end to prevent "spoiling" the moment.

Oh yes, I'm pretty sure a few did :). I did have one go to stop me once too which I didn't really think about at the time but reading the rest of this it seems uncommon?

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How do you get it unrolled down their shaft with your mouth? Or can you only do it with no hands if they are relatively small? I'd say at least 50% of my clients I can't get enough of their dick in my mouth to fully put a condom on.
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I've just ordered some sagami condoms apparently they are the closest thing to wearing nothing and virtually undetectable. Can't wait to give them a whizz. For ladies that don't do owo it may well be a great thing to give a go. You can buy on amazon. Xx
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I tried.  It costs more, no difference.  Ordinary condoms are just as good.

Jessiegirl

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I tried one of the so called super thin condoms a few months ago with a regular. He couldn't tell any difference between the usual ones.

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Hmmm. I'll see what I think. Xx
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amy

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I tried.  It costs more, no difference.  Ordinary condoms are just as good.

Another 'meh' vote from me - I found Sagami a poor fit and they rustle. If I was going to recommend one for thinness it would be Pasante Unique, but they're so unlike standard condoms I only really bring them out if a punter is struggling with Skyns - it's a pity because they're great (and they have a flared bit around the base which covers more skin too so helps protect from herpes and genital warts). Maybe I'll persevere with them a bit more :).

I keep the condom tucked in my stocking top so I can easily unwrap it then just plonk it on - if you do OW then you get used to applying them when they're only semi hard and the easiest way is to keep your head still and suck to 'draw' the penis into the condom rather than try to unroll it by moving downwards if that makes sense? You can hold it steady with your hands, too - there's no rule that says you can't use them at all. I do change them before penetration if they've been on longer than a few minutes or I've got a dribbler  :-X.

Back on topic, I remember a member posting here years ago that she'd done a similar (sort of) experiment with her AW ad where she ticked the 'bareback' option on her page just to see what would happen and reported back. Apparently her phone rang nonstop until she changed it and she had more emails than she could answer all in the space of about 24 hours.
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I've tried sagamis and I wasn't impressed!For a start they are very small and tight a bit like trim condoms and so no good for anybody over about 5 inches who doesn't have a pencil dick!
I also noticed that on even about 5 to 6 inches it doesn't quite roll down to the bottom of the shaft which is no good really in my opinion but beyond that I found them bloody fiddly to roll down and the last time I used one (this was my 3rd try witj them on an average sized knob) the bloody thing split on me!When I looked properly not just at the split one but a brand new one sagamis actually seem to have virtually no teat at the end for the cum to go into to and so if you have a reasonably heavy cummer I think this is what may cause it to rip!
So am not bothering anymore.
I think the condom thing is mostly a mental thing.I accept that things are slightly numbed but most blokes can feel enough to cum in one,I just think for some they think about the barrier too much and so it becomes a bigger barrier.
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I've just ordered some sagami condoms apparently they are the closest thing to wearing nothing and virtually undetectable. Can't wait to give them a whizz. For ladies that don't do owo it may well be a great thing to give a go. You can buy on amazon. Xx
I've also been interested in these to see if they're any good! Let me know how it goes for you if you can! A regular of mine says he used them twice with another escort and loved them but he hasn't bought any since as his wife nearly opened the package lol! X

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I've read that Sagami 001s are too small for many non-Asians (they're a Japanese brand), and the 002 larges are only average. Given the rustling, price and mixed reviews, don't think I'll bother, though I wouldn't object to a client bringing their own.

I'm convinced that a lot of condom stuff is psychological. I've done experiments and some men noticed no or little difference between Skyns and others, or EXS Air/Durex Invisible and more traditional condoms. If anything I think the size/fit makes more of a difference than the thickness in many cases.

I only look at RBs on AW once every few weeks, but I'd say at least 40 percent now want bareback. I even saw one last time where he said that if you didn't list BB on your profile, he wouldn't mention it in any review. So thoughtful...
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amy

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There's a condom discussion/recommendation thread here for those who want to continue the debate, and whilst I don't have the time or the inclination to start picking out the posts here which belong in it, lets please try to keep the relevant stuff together? I don't think the OP posted the thread to discuss condom preferences; in fact I'm certain she didn't :).

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This is on topic: they may notice a *tight* condom.

I use a size up. Not so they're baggy. Just comfortable. I almost never use "trim" size, except as finger cots for prostate massage. I put passant regular on the small/average and King Size on the generous/average. Big cocks get super Kings, which look like sombreros.


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I think you're right GingerBeer and a tight condom will be uncomfortable. I mis-judged once with a guy and put one on which was too small. We started fucking and then he said I'm sorry this is really too tight, do you have anything larger. So they can definitely feel a tight condom.

I also think Kay is spot on with it being psychological. I've seen some guys' erections wilt as soon as I reach for the pack. They just have this perception in their mind that condoms dull sensation and that they won't get hard enough to fuck. I did invest in some female condoms for guys like that but so far I've only used one as in most cases I offer to finish them off with OWO and they're happy with that.
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I also think Kay is spot on with it being psychological. I've seen some guys' erections wilt as soon as I reach for the pack. They just have this perception in their mind that condoms dull sensation and that they won't get hard enough to fuck. I did invest in some female condoms for guys like that but so far I've only used one as in most cases I offer to finish them off with OWO and they're happy with that.

So much of it is psychological - it's sometimes surprising how a dick can go from fully hard to soft in the few seconds it takes me to reach for a condom.

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Yeah I find the same too how they go soft so quickly. Saw one guy the other day who started going soft during sex although he was hard for most of the session. Took the condom off and sucked his cock and he was hard in no time.
Thought it was just me so glad I'm not the only one who experiences this.