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MEQR

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Hi people, I am new to escorting and have had one appt (last week).... the agency I have started work for seems to call me more or less daily to say they may have an incall which either is never followed up with the 2nd call to confirm or they do confirm only to cancel later.  Part of me thinks it is the way it is when you start off, but the other side of me thinks I am available and keen and maybe the person making the appts is trying to get chaps my way due to be being convenient.... but maybe my age is putting them off (35) and maybe once a yonger girl returns the agy's call I get knocked off the radar... or maybe they try another agy....  maybe my head is on overtime.   The agency seems to have lots of girls younger than me.. more in there 20's really - slim and gorgeous of course and maybe I am not the norm... size 12 shapely and in my 30's. 

Maybe someone of my age has expereinced this??.... or maybe all new girls experience this?? should I go it alone as my market is a wee different to what chaps calling an agy are expecting. (well one that has noone my age)

If anyone has a slant on this, that would be great... I guess I could be more relazxed about it, but each time I have an evening booking I have to make quite a few arrangments which make this a little bit more hard work when the appointment does not pull off.

Thank for reading and maybe sharing your view.

Misha. x


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Re: Do all new escort experience this or is it my age?? and being with an agy?
« Reply #1 on: 13 September 2010, 06:12:05 pm »
It sounds like your agency isn't really set up for ladies like yourself. If an agency has nothing but young, slim ladies available then all their loyal clients will be men who prefer young, slim ladies. It will take a while before men who prefer your type notice that an agency that used to have nothing for them, now caters to their tastes.

I think if you want agency work you would do well to have a look around and see if there are any agencies that have more ladies of your age/body type working there - as that is where your client base will be. Being the new girl is usually a good way to get lots of interest so either your agency isn't working hard for your interest, or their client base just isn't the right one for you.

If there isn't an agency that you feel will represent you well, then definitely look into going indie. It can seem scary but the money is better and it gives you a lot more freedom.
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Re: Do all new escort experience this or is it my age?? and being with an agy?
« Reply #2 on: 13 September 2010, 08:04:18 pm »
Thanks Krystal,

I am just at the learning curve stages and trying to figure out what is what... so having your slant on it and the suggestions you have made are very useful.   Thank you once more.


Misha. x

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Re: Do all new escort experience this or is it my age?? and being with an agy?
« Reply #3 on: 14 September 2010, 02:11:26 pm »
Hi Misha.

As someone who has worked for a few agencies myself i have to say your agencies approach seems a little odd. For them to be contacting you regarding 'possible' bookings just isint a professional way to go. I would have thought they should only be letting you know if the booking has been arranged and confirmed. Its no good to you if they are ringing you saying 'Peter might want to see you at 5pm on Friday' as frankly what use is that knowledge to you? if it isint a confirmed booking then its meaningless.

When you say incalls are the clients visiting you at home or do you have to travel to the agencies incall flat?

With regards to clients cancelling, ive found agencies often use this tactic to make out that they are busier than they are. I used to work for an agency were clients were always booking and then cancelling and it happened so often i dont think the clients actually existed. It was just the woman who ran the agency trying to make out she had more clients than she did to keep us ladies working for her. That said of course genuine clients do often book and then have to cancel so you can never be 100% sure either way.

As Krystal said if your agency has a 'type' of lady it takes on its clients will also be looking for that type. Its no reflection on your attractiveness, its just that different agencies attract different types of clients. Perhaps if you do want to continue with agencies it might benefit to look around for an agency that represents a broader range of lady?
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MEQR

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Re: Do all new escort experience this or is it my age?? and being with an agy?
« Reply #4 on: 15 September 2010, 09:43:36 am »
Hi Simone,

Well what seems to be happening (I think) is I get the call... are you avail?? I say yes mostly... and then she say I will call you back in 15 mins as the client says he will call me back.... I hear nothing and then assume he has not called back... sometimes she calls or txts to say no go... What I think is.... lol...listen to me... hehe.. I think she is weighing up my avail incase the girl the client has choosen is not avail so she has a back up plan.... not sure like you say... and because I am sooo different to the other girls she has... I cannot see me be choosen really.. but hey hoo.... I have done two calls... and the first wants me back... well supposedly.

The incalls are at an apartment.. I have done one in and one out so far... one for an hr and one for two.....so far so good.. but that is two in 1 week... I was hoping for a little more going on.. but it is early days I guess... pics only went up last week.

Thanks for your time and sharing your thoughts on my wee matter.

Misha. x

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Re: Do all new escort experience this or is it my age?? and being with an agy?
« Reply #5 on: 17 September 2010, 09:38:11 pm »
 Has something changed over the years because in my agency days you had to be booked in to work in order for them to contact you ?
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Re: Do all new escort experience this or is it my age?? and being with an agy?
« Reply #6 on: 18 September 2010, 01:54:47 am »
Has something changed over the years because in my agency days you had to be booked in to work in order for them to contact you ?

Well I am not sure I am qualified to answer that... but I think there maybe be two types... one where you sit in an apartment and wait and another where you are called to the incall apartment or given info for the outcall....  but hey there may be another slant on that.. after all I am a real newbie to it all.. not just on here. ;-)

Mischa. x