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Re: I am pregnant
« Reply #15 on: 02 September 2010, 09:21:28 am »
Amber...just make sure it is what you want, I don't know how long you two have been together etc. but men change and don't just do it because he thinks it is best really make sure it is what you think as well.

I had an abortion at a http://www.mariestopes.org.uk/ and found them very good and understanding although I can't compare it with the NHS they have a advise line number on the site.

Hope you are ok today.

Steele

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Re: I am pregnant
« Reply #16 on: 13 September 2010, 07:22:50 pm »
Only just got to this thread (I've been away for a few weeks) but wanted to add my support. I had a surgical abortion on the NHS last year and they took really good care of me. I have no regrets but at the same time I have never wanted children and wouldn't know what to do with a baby if I found myself with one, so the decision was very easy for me. Make sure that you're certain about your decision and get all the help and support you need :)
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Re: I am pregnant
« Reply #17 on: 14 September 2010, 06:37:20 pm »
there is never a good time or a right time to have a baby if your young and dont earn much  you worry that you wont have any money   if your older and your in a  professional job or have good earnings you worry that you wont be able to afford it  or get back into your job at the same level
cant think of anything else really but whatever you do it will be right for you
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Re: I am pregnant
« Reply #18 on: 18 September 2010, 09:06:30 am »
Just to give you guys a update. I am booked in for a surgical abortion on Wednesday.

I feel ok about what is about to happen as despite the fact that if my situation was different I would be making a very different decission and I know there is no right time to have a child but there is certainly a wrong time to have a baby.

Needless to say there have been a few tears and not just from me and currently I am finding my relationship hard work and the only way I feel I can see if we can survive this is after the proceedure and take it from there.

Anyways I hope everyone is happy and healthy and doing plenty of whoring.

Kisses

Amber

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Re: I am pregnant
« Reply #19 on: 18 September 2010, 11:16:05 am »
Hey honey,

I'm sorry you're in this situation, and feeling emotional and stressed but It's worth remembering that your hormones are all over the place right now so any decision will seem more daunting than usual. Try not to put pressure on yourself about your relationship, now isn't the time to be doing that. You need to think about yourself right now more than ever. Easier said than done I know, but it'll all over over and done with soon.

Good Luck for Wednesday, if you're in the south and would like some moral support give me a shout. Sending lots of virtual cuddles and support your way.

Love Alex x