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*amber*

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I am pregnant
« on: 01 September 2010, 04:55:48 pm »
FUCK

Off for a little cry now

Again FUCK

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Re: I am pregnant
« Reply #1 on: 01 September 2010, 04:57:55 pm »
Congrats?  :D

Which month are you pregnant?
He came in the morning and woke me up with killer instinct. Wish I could stop this now.

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Re: I am pregnant
« Reply #2 on: 01 September 2010, 05:15:50 pm »
Pregnant by a client or with someone in your private life? I'm sensing from your post that you are not thrilled and congrats are not in order :-(
do you know how far gone you are etc?

I bet your brain is going at a million miles an hour but I hope you are ok and have lots of support around you to help/give advice etc xxxx

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Re: I am pregnant
« Reply #3 on: 01 September 2010, 05:16:02 pm »
Two fucks....i think that may be what caused it.

Should we be congratulating you?
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Re: I am pregnant
« Reply #4 on: 01 September 2010, 05:22:22 pm »
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Two fucks....i think that may be what caused it.

Oh bless you, you just made me laugh so hard I puked! (TMI?)

I am not sure if its congratulations or not. I have no idea what to do but I just looked at the test and smiled. The father is my long term partner so it could be worse but we are in no situation to have a baby.
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Re: I am pregnant
« Reply #5 on: 01 September 2010, 05:32:17 pm »
Well if you smiled first, before your little cry then I think that is congratulations! 
If it happened to me I would just cry and be google the nearest abortion clinic.

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Re: I am pregnant
« Reply #6 on: 01 September 2010, 05:40:04 pm »
Christ I am only 23 would I not be doing something very selfious?

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Re: I am pregnant
« Reply #7 on: 01 September 2010, 05:52:47 pm »
Fuck indeed. It usually starts that way.


Ok, Amber. Two choices, they are both yours. I personally think 23 is way too young to be tying yourself down, but I am also a serious baby fan- as long as I can give them back at 6pm. I will PM you, don't cry, there will be enough of that ahead.

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Re: I am pregnant
« Reply #8 on: 01 September 2010, 09:00:50 pm »
Oh sweetie, I really feel for you. The first time I watched the little blue line appear I was only 18 so I know how you are feeling.
No one can help you decide what is for the best and I dont think we are ever really ready financially or emotionally to bring a new life into this world as until it happens we have no idea what it really entails.

Most doctors will be able to put you in touch with a pregnancy councellor (sp) at very quick notice to help you decide how you really feel.

Whatever you decide, I wish you luck. as for your comment about being selfish, NO it is not. How can it be selfish to do what is best for you?
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Re: I am pregnant
« Reply #9 on: 01 September 2010, 10:21:50 pm »
Hi Amber
As others have said nobody can tell you what to do and it is your choice. Does your partner know yet and if so what are his feelings.
I am probably biased slightly as a 31 year old woman with no children and serious baby hunger issues but i dont think there is a 'right or wrong' time /age to have a baby . There is only the time that feels right for you. If your first reaction was to smile then that implies to me that your first reponse was happiness which seems fairly positive despite your reservations regarding finance.
I really do hope you can reach the decision that is right for you and wish you the best of luck in whatever you decide.

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Re: I am pregnant
« Reply #10 on: 02 September 2010, 12:53:31 am »
After talking with Mr. Man I have decided to go with an abortion. As much as I would love a baby I do not want to do it with a man who is so agaisnt it and for very valid reasons (he has 2 children and one is already is struggling to adapt to so many changes this year)

Its a decission I am struggling with and know will have a long lasting effect but bringing a new life into the world now which could potentially have a negative effect on two children for me isn't an option.

Thank you guys for all your support which has been wonderful compared to the support I was expecting from my best friend which was ummmm well lets just say I have (not lightly) deleted her number.

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Re: I am pregnant
« Reply #11 on: 02 September 2010, 01:05:57 am »
Sorry Amber.




There is nothing else I can say. The quicker, the better really. I am always around if you need a chat, and in the mean time a bit of virtual sympathy.



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Re: I am pregnant
« Reply #12 on: 02 September 2010, 05:11:29 am »
Wow! Breathe and process things one moment at a time. Lots of virtual love.
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Re: I am pregnant
« Reply #13 on: 02 September 2010, 08:31:07 am »
Just adding my support, too, and hugs. :) You've obviously thought things through very carefully and with due consideration to all the many factors, and even so this is never easy. But you mustn't feel bad; you're a wonderful woman to be being so selfless and careful. (more hugs!)
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Re: I am pregnant
« Reply #14 on: 02 September 2010, 08:41:24 am »
Hi Amber,

We don't know each other, but I wanted you to know that my heart goes out to you.  Remember that the decision was made by both of you, so please don't beat yourself up or blame yourself in the future.  You can only do what you think is right now and it does sound like you have looked at it logically.  If only the heart could follow so easily.

You are in my thoughts.

Kate x
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