Quote from: Littlemisslondon on 21 February 2016, 04:17:32 pm

Hmm Tricky one... The thing is, he may well be telling the truth, there are some really horrible girls out there! Personally, I would be charming to him on the phone, let him get his angst out and let you listen to the expanded picture before making a decision. As a get out clause if he is just too judgementmental then you can always 'say' you would be happy to see him but think as he's had such bad experiences he may be better off taking a break for a while? Not a rejection flat out, but a 'nice & polite' not now... and thank him for his time! xx

I agree with this, he may well have looked at some 'glossy' photo shopped photos of young women who appear to do everything for a very low price, booked them and then been 'stung' by a few, ie; they looked nothing like their photo's and didn't do all they advertised, or charged extra for this that and the other.


Then he decides to use his brain rather than his cock and chooses someone with good reviews etc, but possibly he's also got it in his mind by then that all escorts are bad so just wants to make sure he's made the right choice this time. I wouldn't feel under pressure to go out of my way to reassure him, with these types I just say "Well you never know until we meet" As I said to one similarly 'worried'  client recently,  to remind him what it is:  "I hope your 'PAID SEX' experience with me is better than your last one that you described 


 

ok so this guy turned out not to be ok ....but I've had so many guys get in my door and say' oh thank God I've been so worried, I've had a couple of bad experiences and they make me really dubious , some examples , guy had his car trousers phone stolen when taking a shower ( he only thought one girl there) quite a few have turned up to women who have absolutely no resemblance to their pics , another asking him to bring wine , he did and she drank it from the bottle, when he said , I think I might leave it she started screaming "well as long as you fucking pay me" he said he did just to get out ..another shagged an 'ironing board' who he said didn't move her body or look at him , another asked if she was pregnant when he arrived and she said "yes but it's only six months " and these guys have been in my opinion sensible men who have been totally misled , And also totally relieved and more than grateful to meet somebody , polite, nice and aware that they are spending one hundred and fifty pounds of their hard earnt money ( for a quality hour)...I'm not saying every guys great by any means but I still think it's a lot of money they invest I'd be seriously fucked off if someone told me they were years younger, completely different size, bad breath from fags etc (pig sty house, babies in the house etc ,when their profile said the total opposite and I had been fool enough to believe it....unfortunately it doesn't help genuine girls and the guys are dubious to say the least

Back on topic, I agree that the bloke was probably just trying to guard against a bad experience if he's had them before, but it's not only a twattish thing to say - it's a completely pointless one. Nobody's going to say 'oh no actually, I'm shit'.

I think it's just a lack of any idea how to speak to people, probably down to lack of practice. It's like the one that asked somebody the other day to make sure she'd had a shower before the booking, or the one who once asked me to make sure I was completely 'discreet' when coming to his hotel. If you're unsure enough that you need to ask at all then the person you're asking is going to be the sort of person who won't care and will do what they want anyway.

You just know he's going to expect the world then still think it was shit, don't you? 

I have been asked before if I am discreet what on earth can these guys be imagining?!  Do I really wish the world to know lol....

You would be surprised what clients have experienced, so we really can not blame them for being cautious, as many asshole clients out there are equal measures in asshole wg's.

Agreed.  I was shocked when I found out some of the things escorts have (allegedly) done....but it does seem to go on.

I agree with you too though Fab, if you were the type you aren't likely to say 'No, I'm going to keep your details to Blackmail you with and send them round to all my friends' are you?  But they are just looking for reassurance I guess.

Quote from: Curvygal on 25 February 2016, 03:15:21 pm

Agreed.  I was shocked when I found out some of the things escorts have (allegedly) done....but it does seem to go on.

I can understand a "bad encounter" with a WG, but three in a row...hmmmm.....

I cannot speak for UK obviously, and sounds like you guys have situation under control in comparison, but here good encounters are vastly outnumbered by the bad due to the circumstances. Fake, unrepresentative pictures and ticking everything on the likes list for the sake of landing Search hits is the norm, not the exception, over here.

I'd say it's similar in the UK. Particularly on the most popular directories like Vivastreet and AW. AW has the added burden of private gallery and cam profiles that claim to also escort but actually have no intention of doing so.

Over here it's so bad that anyone with professionally taken photos is dismissed as a fake by most clients.