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UrbaneAspects

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I'm not as bad as it seems!
« on: 31 August 2009, 10:50:55 pm »
This feels kinda silly, but I just want to recap. I know alot of my topics come off as edgy, but I really dont treat clients as badly as it may seem. Just a few months ago there was a topic called no more mr. nice guy where I was recommended to be harder on potential clients/callers rather than a doormat.

And so yes, since then I am alot brusque than I was. However, I do not pick up the phone yelling down at every customer or time-waster who calls. Its not like that. But at the same time, how many times can one just sit back and take it? Eventually saying a flippant remark back wont do any harm. And Im sure all of us are guilty of doing so at one point or another.

I like my job. Really. I like the people I meet and value them and their time. More often than not people tell me I'm "too nice" rather than "nasty/rude". Thats just not me. What makes it look so bad is that when Im rude, Im rude and people are like, "how dare you say that!" And sometimes, I only think about saying what I want and dont actually do so. In the end, they dont know me, I dont know them...there's only so much battling that can go on. They probably do it to everyone. So its not a reason for me to take it personal. But then again, Im not 'everyone' and sometimes I do take it personal and by all means Im going to speak up!

So you see? Im not so bad afterall!

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Re: I'm not as bad as it seems!
« Reply #1 on: 01 September 2009, 11:59:53 am »
It is hard finding the balance. I just interpreted your posts as a way for you to rant. To get it all out of your system before you twat some muppet.

UrbaneAspects

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Re: I'm not as bad as it seems!
« Reply #2 on: 08 September 2009, 07:32:47 pm »
LOL, of course! However I must ask, what does the phrase 'twat some muppet' mean?

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Re: I'm not as bad as it seems!
« Reply #3 on: 08 September 2009, 07:51:32 pm »
ok translation!

twat (hit) some (a) muppet (idiot)

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Re: I'm not as bad as it seems!
« Reply #4 on: 08 September 2009, 09:22:40 pm »
 :D

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Re: I'm not as bad as it seems!
« Reply #5 on: 09 September 2009, 01:41:45 am »
Thats so funny! When I was in LA I had to adapt to make sure I was understood. Not much chance of buying a bottle of pop but if you ask for a soda they know what you want. Also supermarkets didnt have trolleys, you had to ask for a cart.(Luckily it didnt come complete with a horse...)
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