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Re: Bored to tears.....
« Reply #15 on: 13 October 2011, 09:16:13 pm »

I'm in Glasgow and I was so happy to think I had mostly escaped the recession here UNTIL around late August  :(  and since then there has been days which have been busy but only 2 days a week seem busy, the rest seem dead.

Trust me to arrive in Glasgow  in July and start work (intermittently) from August!!  Every time I work from a hotel here I swear I get more TWs/idiots  and less nice guys than the time before.

I swear the only thing that is keeping my sanity at the moment is being able to eat, pay basic bills etc OUTWITH sex work stuff. If I was relying on it for all my bills I'd be seriously pissed off right now. I'd say cut outgoings as much as possible. I know people say "speculate to accumulate" but for me it seems to be more money down the drain at the moment.

Yup having been unable to work for 3 weeks I am haemorraghing money!!  I keep 'treating' myself to cheer myself up, gotta stop that!!!!

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Re: Bored to tears.....
« Reply #16 on: 17 October 2011, 12:59:12 pm »
Oh god....shouldn't of read that thread!!! Im just returning from a couple of years away and hoped that I could get my debts paid back sooner doing this than anything else...... Nothing else for it girls, I need a sugar daddy  :-*

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Re: Bored to tears.....
« Reply #17 on: 17 October 2011, 01:08:00 pm »

double recession? Halloween? aghs!  ??? ???

Gives me an idea though....
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Re: Bored to tears.....
« Reply #18 on: 17 October 2011, 05:11:04 pm »
The main thing that's been becoming a problem for me is the amount of timewasters, or needy newbies that are around. Now I don't have a problem with newbies and I am more than happy to see someone new to this, however there does seem to be a lot who make bookings then turn around on the day and either don't confirm or start umming and ahhing after I've turned other, regular clients away or declined personal arrangements. Now this would be reasonably acceptable if it weren't for the reports you see every day of guys complaining they've been scammed, ripped off, turned up to tatty premises, girl isn't the one in the pictures, isn't offering what she says she does.

I am therefore guessing that with all the profiles out there, guys heads are turning at the ones who look the most exciting but then getting their fingers burned. Even worse then coming to more extablished ladies with massive doubts and messing us around as a result, thus then getting themselves on the banned list.

As said above I am quite happy to use the extra spare time, put it to good use but unfortunately at the moment I cannot predict when that time actually is - and I'm having quite a bit of my time taken up offering appointments at times clients request, to find I'm sat around on the day spending hours trying to work out who is actually coming, who isn't and dealing with those who want to check every detail by text, several times.

Like I say would relish the spare time, but I've been turning down personal stuff then finding I'm left twiddling my thumbs.

In real terms my income/actual bookings have actually stayed the same, or even increased but that's because I don't actually want to see that many clients each day - so have never made the amounts talked about here because I simply can't accept that volume of bookings. I also had personal reasons as to why I limited my bookings, this has now changed so I can be available more consistently and reliably!
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Re: Bored to tears.....
« Reply #19 on: 17 October 2011, 05:27:54 pm »
I can really sympathise with this - I had two of these last week and whilst I don't think either deliberately set out to mess me about, I was annoyed because I cancelled other things I was doing on both occasions.

Neither were end-of-the-world things - the first time was cancelling a morning Pilates class which I always go to just for a punter who had only rung and booked the evening before to not confirm (haven't heard from him since), and the second when I'd planned some decorating which I then didn't start after taking a 7pm appointment because I didn't want the place stinking of paint - he eventually confirmed half an hour later than I'd asked which should have given me a clue, and then texted (not rung) me at twenty past seven (five minutes after I'd given up waiting and got changed) to say he was in the parking place - I was so annoyed by then I told him to go home. If he'd let me know he was running late it wouldn't have mattered, but his attitude stank.

I don't get a lot of the hardcore timewasters that really don't have any intention of turning up, but there's definitely more of these ditherers about who either don't realise how much trouble some of us go to, or just don't care. I don't really see what else I could have done to prevent these two, which is the most irritating part - if I'd turned a regular away I would have been furious.

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Re: Bored to tears.....
« Reply #20 on: 18 October 2011, 01:06:55 am »
 in glasgow  a guy booked for 7 .30 pm  and i sent him a text to confirm this as well as i always do ( it was short notice ie he called around 6pm ish  so at 7.15  i get a text from him saying hi been waiting outside hotel for you since  7pm where are you  ( like why the f,,,didnt you call if your outside in the cold ) so i text back and  asked that and also reminded him that his appointment was for 7.30 not 7 pm  

didnt hear back from him untill 7.40 when he said so where are you can we still meet up  i just said no sorry  not now youve wasted my time and if you cant follow simple instruction before you get here you will be 10 times worse when your in my room so im cancelling   Generally i  am really patient but not with lateness  while i dont mind if someone keeps me informed  if they dont then and they are late then im happy to cancle as i just think they will be more trouble than there worth
  
i seem, to find a  fair amount of tw and idiots and ones that dont confirm or turn up late  and dont let me know they are going to be late recently which i generallly manage to avoid  i think its the time of the year for it    

now i just stick to my guns and if ive something planned that i want to do  then i do it and tell clients that im not free tilll xxx time  less stress  that way  

also seems to be a huge amount of guys wanting info by text not just are you availble which i dont mind anwsering  at all   but  questions like  what do i get, what will you wear, how many times  

my standard response is please see my website and then give me a call
if they text back asking the same stuff i text back   As i said see my website and then please call me  

i seriously think its all the networks that give guys these free texts that why the text rather than call

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Re: Bored to tears.....
« Reply #21 on: 18 October 2011, 09:49:29 pm »
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i seriously think its all the networks that give guys these free texts that why the text rather than call

Yeah I seriously think it is too. Drives me up the wall! The first or second line of my profile on AW is a little friendly bold text "Please CALL guys, as my phone does not receive texts at all, so I won't get them" (liar! hehe) but I still get more "Available today/now?" "Details" texts as I did before, and I have a separate number for adultwork so they are definitely coming from there!  :o
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Re: Bored to tears.....
« Reply #22 on: 18 October 2011, 10:50:49 pm »
Woohoo I'm working for the first time in almost a month tommorrow!  Lets see if I'm innudated or Bored to Tears...........

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Re: Bored to tears.....
« Reply #23 on: 19 October 2011, 12:01:06 pm »
Woohoo I'm working for the first time in almost a month tommorrow!  Lets see if I'm innudated or Bored to Tears...........

Great, I hope it goes well for you!
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