So I have an occasional client (4 times over 2 years) each booking has been for 6-7 hours, but very spaced out in between. Each time he books months in advance, and really drags out the arrangements, and then would email a lotup until the booking. He used to message a lot more, but he saw a twitter thread recently where I (and others) spoke about how annoying it is when occasional clients take the piss with chat.
I know he saw it, as he is OBSESSED with sex work twitter, he likes & replies to everything I post within minutes (and he has a wife & a job!), he has a "client" account and is more active on there than I am! I have muted him but I still can't escape him popping up somewhere he has no business being. Also it annoys me that he interacts with other SW who I suspect doesn't book, I have seen him carrot dangle, talking about how he always does longer bookings with dinner, even though he is barely a client of mine (it is obviously a lot of money for him). Also, he will discuss conversations I had with other escorts (that he wasn't involved in) and escort dramas like he is a colleague. He follows all my friends too, in fact he implied that a wishlist purchase my friend received was from him, but I asked her and it was actually from her regular!
In the actual booking he is easy, the first couple I really enjoyed as he seemed a sweet, gentle man, but then I realised just how unhealthily invested he seems. He has a very unhappy sounding marriage, he didn't have sex before me since before his adult child was born and he is very lonely.
I don't want to see him again, I already ignore him on twitter and he is muted. However he enquired about meeting again soon and I haven't responded, but he keeps messaging saying he can do the next month, or the one after that. I normally just tell them I am not available on the dates they suggest, and they eventually give up, but it is hard to do that here when he has so much availability and books so far ahead. I'm also apprehensive to tell him I don't want to see him as I don't think he will take it very well, so I don't know what to say. It's getting to the point where I realised I am avoiding advertising my availability on twitter (which brings a sizeable amount of traffic) because of him.
Any help on how to get rid of him is appreciated.
Topic: How to break up with clingy client (Read 1327 times)