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Kescort

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Re: How old were you when you started escorting?
« Reply #30 on: 05 October 2018, 03:38:02 pm »
I was 18 when started, gone on and off till 20... started with agency's, I've been working in a parlour for 1 week :) didn't like it there at all and i just left.

Now 22, independent, ( i love being independent :angel: ) and i'm hoping to rich my goal until 25 ( hopefully ).

What did you not like about parlours? For me it was the part where the client chooses it was always a bummer not getting picked. Independent is definitely better.

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Re: How old were you when you started escorting?
« Reply #31 on: 05 October 2018, 03:40:37 pm »
51. I think so long as you're health is OK, you're never too old! Past 40 (and then probably past 60) you just attract different clients for different reasons. Not every man is looking for a young, size 8 sex kitten!

Lol! It's just because when I worked in parlours the younger and prettier a girl was the more popular she seemed to be. It's good to know thats not the case independently.

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Re: How old were you when you started escorting?
« Reply #32 on: 05 October 2018, 03:50:56 pm »
Lol! It's just because when I worked in parlours the younger and prettier a girl was the more popular she seemed to be. It's good to know thats not the case independently.

There's also less competition, partly because many use a younger age.

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Re: How old were you when you started escorting?
« Reply #33 on: 05 October 2018, 04:04:59 pm »
There's also less competition, partly because many use a younger age.
Definitely less competition, within a 10 mile radius of my post code on AW there are less than ten escorts in my age bracket.
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Re: How old were you when you started escorting?
« Reply #34 on: 05 October 2018, 04:52:01 pm »
I was 41. After years of being on hookup sites I decided to start charging for my services, instead of giving it away for free.
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Re: How old were you when you started escorting?
« Reply #35 on: 05 October 2018, 05:02:05 pm »
I was 41. After years of being on hookup sites I decided to start charging for my services, instead of giving it away for free.

How are you finding it? I'd never hook up again after escorting unless I was really horny for the guy  ;D

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Re: How old were you when you started escorting?
« Reply #36 on: 05 October 2018, 05:09:57 pm »
How are you finding it? I'd never hook up again after escorting unless I was really horny for the guy  ;D

It's great so far 😊 I don't see many guys as it's not my main source of income, but it's an interesting sideline. I know what you mean about hooking up, it loses its appeal when you know you can get paid.

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Re: How old were you when you started escorting?
« Reply #37 on: 05 October 2018, 07:07:42 pm »
51. I think so long as you're health is OK, you're never too old! Past 40 (and then probably past 60) you just attract different clients for different reasons. Not every man is looking for a young, size 8 sex kitten!

This with cherries on top.
Even in civvy life tops of guys don't want the young size 8.
Young guys fantasize about the milf/gilf this is something that we can easily provide.
They want the experience because they want to learn. Young girls yes, of course, they have something, otherwise, none of us would have fucked in our 20's!!
A lot of guys don't want the size 8 because they want something to hold onto. They don't want the bony ass because for some guys it is painful. Look at the market for the cuddly lady, it's huge. Of course, not all guys want this and do prefer the size 8.

What I have found that works is stay true to yourself. Don't think about what other hookers are doing. Don't try and take on a persona that isn't you. I am who I am and that's what I am selling. The punters don't like this, fine. Of course, I tried this, and omfg the extra stress it brings inst worth it, all that constant brain always staying on, it's not worth it. Chill and be yourself regardless of age or size.
I have ranged from the size 6 to the size 22 over the years, and the size and age of me haven't impacted anything.

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Re: How old were you when you started escorting?
« Reply #38 on: 05 October 2018, 08:49:11 pm »
I was 18, now in my early 30s, but have just come out of a 4 year break. I’ve notice over the years that women seem to either come into this business as new adults, late teens etc or post 35, after maybe kids grown up and or divorced etc  I’ve met fewer women who start somewhere in between. This thread is confirming that trend to me, although of course I know many will sit outside of that.

I think with the age thing or any kind of niche, being indie is easier because men who are either looking for ‘niches’ are more likely to look for indies but also men who don’t have a set agenda but just like to research around for someone who strikes them as interesting, individual. Brothels and agencies appeal more to men who don’t want to research much but still want their expectations to be met, so that dynamic works better for those with more conventional, singular tastes. I’ve used this metaphor before but it’s the difference between researching around for an eclectic cosy bistro and making reservations and just rocking up at a Nando’s, not wanting to take much of a risk and knowing broadly what you’re going to get.

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Re: How old were you when you started escorting?
« Reply #39 on: 17 October 2018, 07:33:52 am »
What did you not like about parlours? For me it was the part where the client chooses it was always a bummer not getting picked. Independent is definitely better.
i so agree with this we used to have to line up for the clients and i got so jealous when they didnt pick me.  it made no sense at all to get jealous but i just did

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Re: How old were you when you started escorting?
« Reply #40 on: 17 October 2018, 01:34:36 pm »
What did you not like about parlours? For me it was the part where the client chooses it was always a bummer not getting picked. Independent is definitely better.


like you're saying the fact that they have to choose from all of us and you don't have the nicest feeling when you're not "the one" :)) and the girls there, not so friendly especially with new girls like me... plus the fact that i was late in one day and the owner called me telling that if i'm gonna be late ever again she will not give me any working days and i was like you know what i'm making money for you so fuck off beeing late 5 min is not gonna harm someone and i just left with no regrets :)

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Re: How old were you when you started escorting?
« Reply #41 on: 17 October 2018, 05:41:59 pm »
i so agree with this we used to have to line up for the clients and i got so jealous when they didnt pick me.  it made no sense at all to get jealous but i just did

Yeah it was pretty bad if it was a slow day, didn't bother me when I was busy but when it's slow urrggh! But I also did get picked a lot too and was often booked up but yeah I just hated that bit for some reason parlour working would be so much better if that didn't have to happen lol!

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Re: How old were you when you started escorting?
« Reply #42 on: 17 October 2018, 05:45:14 pm »

like you're saying the fact that they have to choose from all of us and you don't have the nicest feeling when you're not "the one" :)) and the girls there, not so friendly especially with new girls like me... plus the fact that i was late in one day and the owner called me telling that if i'm gonna be late ever again she will not give me any working days and i was like you know what i'm making money for you so fuck off beeing late 5 min is not gonna harm someone and i just left with no regrets :)

Yeah I'd never do it again unless I really had to do a shift or two to make quick cash even then I'd avoid it like the plague tbh plus the prices are really cheap you'd end up with like £40 from a half hour booking, just shit lol.

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Re: How old were you when you started escorting?
« Reply #43 on: 18 October 2018, 08:55:31 am »
Yeah it was pretty bad if it was a slow day, didn't bother me when I was busy but when it's slow urrggh! But I also did get picked a lot too and was often booked up but yeah I just hated that bit for some reason parlour working would be so much better if that didn't have to happen lol!
i was young and naive when i started in a parlour and wanted to be popular with the regulars, so when clients used to tell me that they usually picked certain girls because they offered certain services i to decided to offer them as well.  if these girls did offer them or not i dont know as not many of them would speak to me

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Re: How old were you when you started escorting?
« Reply #44 on: 18 October 2018, 11:31:13 am »
i was young and naive when i started in a parlour and wanted to be popular with the regulars, so when clients used to tell me that they usually picked certain girls because they offered certain services i to decided to offer them as well.  if these girls did offer them or not i dont know as not many of them would speak to me

OMG this worked at two parlours in greater Manchester that are still goin strong and the most popular girls from both (who were raved about on online forums) I had clients telling me they did bareback and asking if I'd do it too as so and so does. I thought yeah no wonder they are so popular. One of those girls still works now the other retired a few years ago.