So far I have only had 2 meets, my first one was a lovely man and I enjoyed his company, the sex was only a small part of the appt and was ok I suppose.  Yesterday I had my 2nd meet with a hot younger guy (I attract those that like older women) but the sex was for the whole 90mins, as soon as he had handed over the money he just wanted to fuck, no matter what I tried he persisted with the same monotonous rythm, and no other form of foreplay.  Now I know they are paying me and it's more about them bring happy, they were both clean and nice men.  But I am hoping at some point I will actually get some good sex!  I am also worried because on my profile I have admitted to squirting and gushing, which thankfully I have managed with both (just about) but am worried that with some guys I won't manage at all if they are really really bad and I don't manage to get myself turned on enough with them 

Yesterday - absolutely fantastic session!!

I would say that I enjoy the sex at least to some degree most of the time. I enjoy it a lot maybe 25% of the time. Sometimes, I find it unpleasant, although it's rare that it's actually awful.

I admit to being shallow enough that if they are very ugly, I am turned off. I once had a hideously ugly man give me oral with the best technique I'd ever experienced and I faked an orgasm before I could suffer the indignity of him getting me off. (He was both hideous and annoying as a person.)

I saw someone fairly recently whom I suspect is on the Autism spectrum and found him very odd, awkward, and stiff - it was unpleasant to be touching him naked and even talking to him was difficult, although he wasn't a bad guy.

I know a lot of girls say that they like the older gents but once they're about 70 or older I find them very unattractive and they always seem to have this weird, palsied way of clutching at my flesh - sporadically and desperately grabbing my boobs, running their liver-spotted hands over my body - that makes me cringe internally.

I sometimes really enjoy myself - it helps if they're attractive in some way, but obviously a lot of it is technique and chemistry. That said, what I really enjoy in my extracurricular sex life is feeling free to let go and be selfish or not having to feel in control. My favourite lover at the moment is someone who chokes me and slaps me (gently, I must say) and I really get off on letting him do whatever he wants. I could never let myself go that way with a client.

I've just had a great week, with four clients in a row being fantastic and lovely. I'm about the same as Fabulassie - most of the time I enjoy it, and it's rare that I have a really bad session. I'm lucky in that I orgasm very, very easily and often.

I've only really had three bad meets. One was a copious sweater (that is just so minging!!), one was old and big with a horribly disfigured nose, and another was old and big and reeked of garlic. My whole house stank for a few hours, especially the bedroom. Urgh.

I know it loses me a lot of business, but I don't see anyone older than 55 as I just don't find older men attractive. Never have, never will. Some of my best clients have been/are in their early 50s (and have also been fit as...), but as I know some men will lie I chose 55 as my limit. I want to enjoy the work, so excluding men you know you have zero chance of finding attractive seems like a no-brainer to me, as there's just no way you could give them their money's worth.

Well what can I say, the Gods were smiling down on me this week. I had THE most amazing guy yesterday. He booked with me back when I first started in July but had to cancel so when he rebooked I thought possible time waster. As his appointment time got closer I had this feeling he was going to be good. Oh my giddy aunt was he good, he was drop dead gorgeous had the most amazing fit body, all hairy the way I like em, a not to shabby member and smelled heavenly. Suffice it to say my enthusiasm showed. What a fantastic sesh. I could have ate him, wait I think I did. Please please please let him rebook. 

Ha Carmel, I know what you mean! One of mine this week used to be a competitive swimmer and it showed in his body, plus he had a high-flying really interesting job, and smelled fantastic too. Only problem is the bugger is moving to another country in two weeks' time! 
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Oh no, bummer. This one was a mountain biker. Funny thing was he was going mountain biking today and I was mountain walking, we were saying how funny it would be if we were up the same mountain and saw each other.

It sounds like he was intoxicated. Out of the three years of doing this has never happened to me.  Next time if it happens make out being sore. These guys need firm structure if they misbehave.  If asked twice politly then have to once more. Like yesterday a client fingered and it felt very uncomfortable after asking twice but he still did. So after the warning I said right that toy show. But was polite after. Some don't care taking advantage like that. He was a good man as he brought a bottle of wine. So felt a tad guilty but what needs to be done.

If a client is visually unappealing then I can normally find something about them which is attractive and focus on that. Also, as a professional submissive I sometimes get to wear a blindfold which always helps!