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Tickle

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #15390 on: 27 July 2022, 09:22:46 pm »
I do the same. Well, if they ring me at stupid o'clock I wouldn't see them but if they rang the next time at a sensible hour I might consider it. If it's repeated out of hours calls and all my profiles state I don't work past 9pm, then I do block them. I also block repeated texters. I give them 1 chance after the first text, that I always ignore. If they text me again, blocked.

I used to tag out of hours callers with "OOH". As 99% of them either didn't fit my preferred client profile or fitted the usual pattern of repeat stupidity it became tiresome so I felt it was easier to block them. Scanning through a few months worth of out of hours numbers suggested they weren't the bother so I won't be losing out on a lot. Possibly one call every 1-3 months and that's pushing it. The main clincher really is the vast majority don't fit my preferred client profile so it's an easy filter.
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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #15391 on: 28 July 2022, 12:38:28 pm »
Without contacting me first.. a random man At 4am in the morning sends me random booking request for tomorrow night for 10hrs overnight. For the comments he put don’t let me down.. ha

I don’t even advertise I do overnights so he clearly hadnt read any of my profile.. I just block and delete these types..

I even have it on my profile don’t send me a booking request without organising it with me first. Yet I still get them sending them without any communication expecting me to be available.

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #15392 on: 28 July 2022, 01:54:51 pm »
I had a 1am booking request this morning stated 'please text before 3am to say you will call as I'm at work' tore him a new arsehole. I also state don't send random booking requests without making sure I'm free.

Tickle

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #15393 on: 29 July 2022, 12:05:32 pm »
Messaging me by introducing himself by name and asking for my rate and location? This rudimentary information is contained in my profile if he could be bothered to read it which is the same place he got my number from. As he couldn't be bothered to call I can't be bothered to reply especially for a speculative request for 5.30pm later in the day. On top of the laziness it's just more psychological distancing. I have turned message enquiries into calls and a firm booking but none I recall which ever met this message profile.

There are times when I hate the marketing, and call and enquiry handling part of this job. I suppose there's a balance to be struck between an effortless plastic smile and utter ruthlessness versus various forms of surly jobsworth flannel. None of this is anywhere near my skillsets. I've got no excuses really having been doing the job for long enough.

Update!

He phoned after lunch but my phone was off. I'm doing my washing and can't be bothered. I've got in the mood for cleaning and reorganising my wardrobe!
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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #15394 on: 03 August 2022, 03:58:18 am »
I state calls only but I get quite a few texts stating 'is it ok to call?'. I mean it's not school, so I don't get why they need permission. Am I being unreasonable?

I have exactly the same. I’m calls only and sometimes I get those, usually a bit lengthy texts ending with « is it ok to call? »

I ignore them:
1)if you reply those guys will go on with « ok give me 10 minutes », then « can I ask you a question first » etc. They are just wanting to text, they don’t want to call anyway.

2) it’s a stupid question really. My number is displayed, I have it all over my profile  « calls only », I have a FAQ that I don’t reply to texts/emails. So clearly it’s ok to call. What’s not ok is to text  :FF :FF




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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #15395 on: 03 August 2022, 07:50:23 pm »
I have exactly the same. I’m calls only and sometimes I get those, usually a bit lengthy texts ending with « is it ok to call? »

I ignore them:
1)if you reply those guys will go on with « ok give me 10 minutes », then « can I ask you a question first » etc. They are just wanting to text, they don’t want to call anyway.

2) it’s a stupid question really. My number is displayed, I have it all over my profile  « calls only », I have a FAQ that I don’t reply to texts/emails. So clearly it’s ok to call. What’s not ok is to text  :FF :FF

Totally agree with you. I just see it as an attempt to push my boundaries now.

Tickle

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #15396 on: 05 August 2022, 10:25:32 pm »
The SMS classic "Hey". I always wonder if these are automated messages from a shady scam factory based in a low income country.

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #15397 on: 06 August 2022, 02:12:17 pm »
Can I wank over your flip flops !
Never again am I putting a blog about me going to the beach on my profile  ::)

Tickle

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #15398 on: 10 August 2022, 05:47:08 pm »
I'm mostly happy with how I block calls. The persistent ones have been a pest as call reminders from my phone network supplier come in. Thankfully I discovered the "do not notify" setting for individual numbers so won't get pinged every time they call.

After I replied to a voice message and a client who I had previously thrown out turned up until I twigged and cancelled him before he knocked my door I have learned to check the voice message number before replying as it's a loophole they can dodge through.

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #15399 on: 10 August 2022, 10:30:50 pm »
Had a message from the early hours on WhatsApp just saying "hey x", which I left on read for obvious reasons. A few days later, there was another message "Wow, how rude"  ::)

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #15400 on: 11 August 2022, 12:12:28 am »
Had a message from the early hours on WhatsApp just saying "hey x", which I left on read for obvious reasons. A few days later, there was another message "Wow, how rude"  ::)

Hahahah what a dick. Those - hey - hi - hello all get blocked texts and via whatsapp. I do open and read but still block save as a full stop.

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #15401 on: 11 August 2022, 09:07:59 pm »
Had a message from the early hours on WhatsApp just saying "hey x", which I left on read for obvious reasons. A few days later, there was another message "Wow, how rude"  ::)

Haha

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #15402 on: 14 August 2022, 01:50:23 pm »
Do I use cocaine? Maybe I'm leaving money on the table and missing out on a thrilling experience but no I can't say I do.

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #15403 on: 14 August 2022, 09:19:06 pm »
I went out today as I didn't want to be stuck in waiting on calls since going back on a certain site I got loads of messages again although I say no text they still do it this wanker
Are you free today for a booking ?
Could you do half a hour ?
?????
Guess not then
Waste of time I tried ringing you
Don't this dickheads realise we are not sat 24/ 7 by our phones
Sometimes it's good they show their true colours as saves having arseholes like that coming with shit attitude
I put on ad I see respectful men but I always get the disrespectful idiots  forever text or ring 🤬

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #15404 on: 15 August 2022, 10:42:57 pm »

Waste of time I tried ringing you


It's so passive aggressive.  You couldn't possibly be with someone else, busy, dealing with a delivery. Many of these types don't think. I would purposely ignore someone who did this to me.