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FayeBloore

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #510 on: 30 June 2010, 10:31:48 am »
Wasn't quite sure i handled this one correctly but his request disturbed me and then his making out that i was the person with a problem after refusing to participate infuriated me!!! Dam my marketting ploy of polite courtesy at all times, this knob received a cussing!

Me: Did you have something in particular in mind?

Dickhead: What I had in mind I suppose was to play on your petite size and youthful looks by exploring the whole 'daddy' role play thing... is that something you'd be comfortable with?

I'm in Ireland for the next week or so then back in London... how about maybe in the meantime if we agreed a rate for some naughty phone chats, and if you had, say, Paypal, I could transfer some cash and call you to discuss some fantasies? I imagine you have a vivid and highly erotic imagination which I'd love to hear about

A slightly Put-out Me: As we're being straight with each other, I shall be completely honest regarding your requests;
Age-roleplays and Daddy daughter role-plays aren't things I'm quite comfortable with so unfortunately would not be very convincing for you. Also I don't use a work phone- I arrange all meets by email and living with family makes it difficult for me to find anytime to myself.
 
I appreciate your offer to set up an unchanging rate for calls etc so I can feel comfortable but I'd much prefer to stay within the boundaries of my previous work; emails and meets only. Sorry that I've had to turn down your offer, I hope that you can find a young lady to accommodate you better than I.

Dickhead: Hi - I'm a bit surprised to be honest; I'd have thought your looks and naughtiness would have meant you'd be quite experienced with men like the age / daddy stuff! Certainly you look about 14 in the school uniform type pic on Seeking Arrangement lol, so I assumed you were well-versed in all of that.

To be honest the whole role play thing isn't something I'm ever into - the most I like of that is perhaps during fucking, when you're getting close to cumming and you start to moan 'daddy, fuck me harder please!' etc... that does it for me big time lol; whereas the whole play acting thing doesn't really... perhaps if I@m fortunate enough to meet and play with you we could at least try that!

Irate Me: are enough clients requesting a more conventional service from me to allow myself to keep to what i enjoy. I've tryed alot of different scenarios and levels of involvement with the whole 'daddy' idea but none of which I've felt comfortable with, sorry.
 
Just thought I'd let you know, as i feel that you may have your heart set on me calling you daddy at some or any point which is something unfortunately i will not indulge in.

Hoity Toity Dickhead: Hm.... no worries, you're entitled to your prejudices of course - though I feel that for someone who appears to pride herself on her ability to provide pleasure, then mere utterance of a 2-syllable / 5 letter word during intercourse really shouldn't be beyond her skills or willingness to please...

Silly Me: Why do I find that I'm not surprised you would take some offence to my last correspondence and be rude in return. I simply told you that i would not be doing as you've requested, it's my choice- something you seem have no respect for no matter what i say. It's not a prejudice; me not agreeing to calling you daddy, it's a choice i made, because i tryed it before and know that i wasn't convincing because it made me feel uncomfortable. And rightly so! I've tryed to be polite but you're quite disillusioned if you think many women would feel comfortable with addressing a sexual partner as their father.
 
'Priding' myself on a capacity to give pleasure, does not just extend to physical pleasure although i wouldn't say it was 'pride' with which i feel the weight of my talents more simply; that I'm aware they're there and that i can use them.
 
You are an insulting disillusioned man, how dare you try and force your strange fantasy onto me and then when i politely refuse you, tell me I'm the one with the problem, what a load of shit.





I am now wondering to myself why i did not express the full extent of my feelings towards his disturbing request.

Faye x

P.s. This post is in no way meant to offend any working Ladies or Gentlemen who have indulged in this kind of role-play, as I said to the dickhead- i tryed it but found it rather creepy.

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #511 on: 30 June 2010, 10:43:02 am »
I don't think there's anything particularly wrong with how you handled it, though I would have just stopped responding after "looks and naughtiness". No good will come of corresponding with pushy arseholes (other than material for this thread).

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #512 on: 30 June 2010, 10:53:18 am »
This thread is what has kept me going whilst dealing with the mundane process of replying to emails in the same manner over and over........ praise the lard for comical time-wasters!

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #513 on: 30 June 2010, 12:26:58 pm »
Faye, you handled it really well. I would have been really rude from the start, to be honest. I hate guys like that, I wonder if they have any idea how fucked up they are. The last guy that asked me for age play got a text back saying "You don't need a prostitute, you need a psychiatrist".
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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #514 on: 30 June 2010, 01:14:43 pm »
hey,

i know you don't list "being filmed" on your "likes" but do you allow being filmed? (like on video)

Obviously you have no way of trusting me, but no one would *ever* see it (no internet uploads, no mates seeing it etc). i'm not the type that would go telling mates ive gone with an escort...

thx

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #515 on: 30 June 2010, 01:23:51 pm »
Faye, you have my sympathies. I once had a regular client who seemed very ordinary in his sexual tastes. Standard stuff, although he seemed a bit sleazy at times. On the 10th booking (or something like that) he started talking about roleplay and 'daddy' stuff etc. I was uncomfortable with it and told him so and he backed off but after the booking kept going on and on that 'maybe we could do it next time' etc -  I never answered his calls/messages again. I think you handled it really well.

Last night - (well got them this morning when switched on phone!)

2.30am - 2 missed calls from number
3am - text from said number "I'll giv you 100 for a lapdance and a bj?"
3.30am - another missed call from same number
4am - "come on babe you not workin?"

erm....no.
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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #516 on: 30 June 2010, 01:36:33 pm »
Well he hasn't replied yet so I think I may have hit a nerve lol  :)
Poor perverted dear ey?

Hi Krystal, I think I'll be opting for your way in future and hi to LouLou aswell.

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #517 on: 01 July 2010, 10:52:56 am »
On Adultwork this morning:

'Hiya,

So like the title says I am a 28 year ago guy who is new to the area and have moved here for work, so at the moment I don't know anyone outside of work.

Now this may not be the ask to come but I thought I would give it a go anyway. Basically Im looking for someone to hang out with, maybe a bar, cinema so food I don't know, anything to get out of the house on these warm summer nights. Im not looking for any other service other than going out together.

I would like to know if you might be up for something like that, maybe even get something arranged for this Friday night? Cinema, popcorn and treats on me!!

Hope to hear from you soon'

Umm... so, I should cancel all of my friday night bookings so that I can get free popcorn?  ::)

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #518 on: 01 July 2010, 11:04:06 am »
Umm... so, I should cancel all of my friday night bookings so that I can get free popcorn?  ::)

LOL! But don't you want a lovely friend who badgers you constantly for free sex and gropes you in the cinema? ;D

I had a guy yesterday who just wanted a date and he actually took up a whole hour of my time before telling me he wouldn't be paying because he didn't want sexual services, just a 'friend' or 'someone to go out for drinks with' - why the effing hell are they looking on Adultwork for SEX WORKERS?! These little boys just don't know what they want or how to get it. Time for another headdesk. Actually, this incident was too recent and I am still too cross - better not headdesk or I'll make a dent!
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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #519 on: 01 July 2010, 11:37:20 am »
Faye, why did you not hang up after the first sentence?  Why humour people you do not wish to meet?

I am probably over harsh but its my life and my time.

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #520 on: 01 July 2010, 12:06:45 pm »
Faye, why did you not hang up after the first sentence?  Why humour people you do not wish to meet?

I am probably over harsh but its my life and my time.

I agree. I've usually got a pretty good idea within the first 20 seconds of a call whether I ever want to be in the same room with the caller, and if necessary I make my excuses and hang up - just save the number under 'No' or whatever and probem solved  :).

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« Reply #521 on: 01 July 2010, 05:19:30 pm »
Faye, you certainly lived up to polite courtesy, but given the serious boundary pushing on his part, nothing you could say, short of "yes, daddy", would ever have been good enough. Some people do not deserve polite courtesy, because they do not return it.

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #522 on: 02 July 2010, 02:02:33 am »
I agree. I've usually got a pretty good idea within the first 20 seconds of a call whether I ever want to be in the same room with the caller... <snip!>

Sounds like your Wank-O-Meter is finely tuned. Or is it Wanky-Dar? Ah, same old tools really.  ;D
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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #523 on: 02 July 2010, 10:59:28 am »
It was his persistance that was key in annoying me and you're absolutely right Amy and Pandora, if he'd have phoned me i would have cut him off but he was emailing and was able to gradually irritate me over a time. x

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Re: How not to book an escort,world championships!
« Reply #524 on: 02 July 2010, 11:25:53 am »
Don't know if this qualifies for this thread, but I saw a Reverse Booking on AW today for my area - want's a "regular girl to meet often" who "likes to drink alot" (when working?!) for.. wait for it.... 16 hour incall for ?150!!!! :o Oh yeah , I'm sure most escorts would love to do a 16 hour booking for around the same/similar to what most charge for 1 hour, just because you're a "really nice guy, easy to get on with" . If you were a really nice guy you would just book an hour if that's what you can afford instead of insulting us with an offer which works out at ?9 per hour!!!. :o My last job in a supermarket, they paid the nightshift more than that. grrrr. And 2 people placed a bid as well.  ???
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