I am so glad that I'm not the only one. I haven't ever really enjoyed sex, and have only ever really done it for the money. My exes have always criticised me for not 'putting out enough,' but I don't like doing it for free... I see it as a bit of a chore...

Sex ? out of context its not interesting at all.... boring indeed messy and all that, however with the right person that pushes my buttons... its ok going on good.

personal i know what I want and i dont put up with selfish lovers. if your in it for yourself then im not interested, you'd better not cum and fall asleep... like to be held, and like the smell of aftershave and fresh sweat. a feeling of being filled while held.. my hands in his hair. i made use of doing this and worked out the things that work for me and what I like and god knows with the right guy im interested. brian from accounts that hardly does anything outside of work and id guess likes to train spot its his hour as hes paid me and ill do what he wants. but when im with my partner he better be good and do his thing. the money makes brian interesting lol

Same here. I only truly enjoy it with a boyfriend that I am actually attracted to. The paid Sex is good though since we get a direct tangible benefit out of it.

Sex Only for money. I have no interest in sex anymore at all, especially after what I have had a chance to observe during my escorting.
We escorts have " a chance " ( not necessary pleasant ) to see what usual women will never see or hear ( good for them)
Escorting made me completely loosing an interest in sex and also in men  .

I used to have this thing, where I'd be deliberately boring in bed with partners in case they guessed that I was a whore...

That's quite funny, but it's also a real possibility worth remembering. I've been very careful how adventurous I get because it would be a dead giveaway. I find particularly I have to slow things down quite a lot with non-clients. Fortunately they are few and far between these days.

I find giving free sex really isn't appealing at all.  It takes all the fun out of it!

Last time I did it, which is quite a while back, I felt a bit cheated. Which I didn't ever feel before. I still like it, but being paid makes it feel more complete.

Even before I started this work over 25 years ago I thought there are only 2 reasons to have sex. 1 for money and 2. if you love him/her.

From the first I get money which I need plus orgasms which is  something civvies don't get in their paid work.

From the second I get orgasms plus my soulmate and best friend.

I'm not interested in *only* sex, so all the blokes who before were throwing their cocks around talking about their prowess are now cancelled.  It is often the first way men approach me and I have no interest in it at ALL! Now I am looking for a practical Mormon type or maybe an Orthodox Jew, old fashioned, take me out to eat and kiss me before we part at the end of the date kind of energy. 

I did however see a guy who claimed both prowess and being charming and  fun.  He was neither, complete shit in bed and then all he did was fuss about his house, he didn't buy me any food and then snuck down and ate something on his own.  It was....horrible...If I saw him again it would be too soon.