Author Topic: How many of you are not interested in sex except for the money? (Read 13279 times)

ladyofthemansion · « **on:** 03 November 2019, 07:48:47 pm »

Sex simply does not interest me anymore. Must be my age. When it comes to work I just get on with going through the motion. Am I the only one?

EvelynWho · « **Reply #1 on:** 03 November 2019, 08:04:28 pm »

Bingo! Hi there, that’s me.

85% sure I’m asexual as it just doesn’t do anything for me. The money is the only reason I ever have sex. Even in my personal life it just doesn’t appeal. That’s probably sharing too much, but hey ho - that’s the truth. I’m fine with it. If anything I feel it makes this job easier in a way... xx

CelesteManchester · « **Reply #2 on:** 03 November 2019, 08:16:56 pm »

Same! The very few times I've had civvy sex I'm thinking, "I usually get paid XYZ amount for this..."
& then I get annoyed with myself lol.

There's ONE guy I'm interested in & I can't get him to give me the time of day. I finally find someone who's great in the sack & he's busier than I am. He claims. Okkkk Mike.

Definitely going thru the motions these days.

mySecret · « **Reply #3 on:** 03 November 2019, 09:28:51 pm »

civvy for free nope...less than 0
atm even paid less than 0! ::having orgasm is cool, btm lol i won t it even if i get paid!
change! ahahah

i do not know if civvy lady are soo interested in sex daily! i got doubts!

katrina · « **Reply #4 on:** 03 November 2019, 09:54:59 pm »

My sex drive is the same if not more the older I get, it all depends on the type of client with me though, I'm always trying to teach them

Private sex drive though, exceptionally good!

Kay · « **Reply #5 on:** 03 November 2019, 09:58:13 pm »

No, despite being menopausal I still love sex (assuming the bloke is half decent). My libido/urge has diminished, but then it used to be off the scale just before and after a period, so that's actually a relief. Once I actually start having it though, all good. Perhaps a slight change for me is that sometimes I'm less interested in foreplay, but I always love the PIV bit!

Dynamite Doll · « **Reply #6 on:** 03 November 2019, 11:20:16 pm »

I am probably strange. I can only enjoy non paid sex if I am in Love with the guy and relationship where my real self comes out natural feminine juices. Otherwise I can survive with no sex. I must get paid to tolerate it most times I am switched off faking it and using lots of lube.
If I am not in love no feelings then pay up. No Money - No Honey.

Chastity · « **Reply #7 on:** 04 November 2019, 01:23:39 am »

Quote from: DynamiteDoll on 03 November 2019, 11:20:16 pm

I am probably strange. I can only enjoy non paid sex if I am in Love with the guy and relationship where my real self comes out natural feminine juices. Otherwise I can survive with no sex. I must get paid to tolerate it most times I am switched off faking it and using lots of lube.
If I am not in love no feelings then pay up. No Money - No Honey.

I’m exactly the same. I don’t have one night stands, the only one I ever have was many years ago and I was so drunk I had to be told it had even happened. I have no recollection of the guy or how it even happened. I don’t enjoy sex unless I have feelings for the person. I can fake it for the money, but you could stick some gorgeous guy who is amazing in bed in front of me and I’d be like, nah I’m good thanks. I have no labido at all unless I have the feels, and then I can’t get enough and want to do everything

Mirror · « **Reply #8 on:** 04 November 2019, 10:54:27 am »

I lost my libido through being ill this is now returning, and pleasantly excited by the prospect - prior to this I had blamed it on (a) age and (b) having regular sex. Now do remember I'm a low volume business, and my partner is older/drive waning so when I say regular sex for the last 4-5 years it's been on average 3 or 4 client bookings a week plus perhaps 1-2 times personal life.

By the way very happy with that frequency and I wasn't aware how much was general health related, until I started to recently feel better. Only problem is that my period is likely to return as my health improves.....double edged sword $:-\$

Gypsy · « **Reply #9 on:** 04 November 2019, 01:01:01 pm »

Quote from: DynamiteDoll on 03 November 2019, 11:20:16 pm

I am probably strange. I can only enjoy non paid sex if I am in Love with the guy and relationship where my real self comes out natural feminine juices. Otherwise I can survive with no sex. I must get paid to tolerate it most times I am switched off faking it and using lots of lube.
If I am not in love no feelings then pay up. No Money - No Honey.

+1 +1 +1

Trouble is men always disappoint me in a non sexual way so it's very, very rare that I'm even remotely interested these days.

saltysweet · « **Reply #10 on:** 04 November 2019, 01:04:37 pm »

I'm not anti-sex but always wondered why sex is so popular! Sex for cash is the only time I'm interested. I'm a perv, so sex isn't my main interest. I know it's not PC, but most days I'm not a fan of genitals whether mine or others.

MWM · « **Reply #11 on:** 04 November 2019, 02:08:08 pm »

I can’t remember the last time I enjoyed or actually wanted to have sex with someone who wasn’t paying for it.

I have to really like someone to want to have sex with them - I do miss that, but then on the other hand, I don’t like the part when the relationship ends. Being single is so much less risky, I’d rather not have any heartache again.
I can do without sex, and at work I’m just going through the motions.

Lushblossom · « **Reply #12 on:** 04 November 2019, 03:21:28 pm »

I prefer sex for payment as when sex is for free to my mind it loses the thrill lol.

Dynamite Doll · « **Reply #13 on:** 04 November 2019, 05:42:52 pm »

Quote from: Chastity on 04 November 2019, 01:23:39 am

I’m exactly the same. I don’t have one night stands, the only one I ever have was many years ago and I was so drunk I had to be told it had even happened. I have no recollection of the guy or how it even happened. I don’t enjoy sex unless I have feelings for the person. I can fake it for the money, but you could stick some gorgeous guy who is amazing in bed in front of me and I’d be like, nah I’m good thanks. I have no labido at all unless I have the feels, and then I can’t get enough and want to do everything

I am the same as you. We are so alike hahah x

mySecret · « **Reply #14 on:** 04 November 2019, 06:29:51 pm »

Quote from: saltysweet on 04 November 2019, 01:04:37 pm

I'm not anti-sex but always wondered why sex is so popular! Sex for cash is the only time I'm interested. I'm a perv, so sex isn't my main interest. I know it's not PC, but most days I'm not a fan of genitals whether mine or others.

ahah always laughing! you are sooo funny!
btw yes, i always found that it is not really aesthetic! ... not just c** but i mean even my p**
i never understood why i found it not nice! i was thinking that was my problem...crazyness or some mental thing!

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