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fallen angel

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Re: How many of you are not interested in sex except for the money?
« Reply #60 on: 05 August 2020, 12:34:29 am »
I used to love sex with randoms but now find that my criteria for non paying partners is exceptionally high to the point where virtually no guy will qualify ... So I guess that's a no from me  :-\

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Re: How many of you are not interested in sex except for the money?
« Reply #61 on: 06 August 2020, 06:09:23 pm »
I used to love sex with randoms but now find that my criteria for non paying partners is exceptionally high to the point where virtually no guy will qualify ... So I guess that's a no from me  :-\

^^This^^

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Re: How many of you are not interested in sex except for the money?
« Reply #62 on: 07 August 2020, 03:51:18 pm »
It is a mixture for me if they are good in bed I enjoy but mostly everypenny counts.

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Are you still interested in men and sex in the civvy life?
« Reply #63 on: 14 August 2020, 12:46:52 pm »
I find this job totally desensitised me to males in general, and especially to those encountered in the civvy life. I literally have zero interest in them, they can disappear tomorrow, and the sexual things don’t excite me any more the way civvies get excited about it. In the daily life, I don’t have much exposure to them except punting, work and shops/restaurants. I treat them like air otherwise and they have to pay me for me to bother with them. I don’t engage in any sex chat unless the comms are to do with making the booking.

(Yes I’ve been let down and heart broken many many times)

Anyone relates?

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Re: Are you still interested in men and sex in the civvy life?
« Reply #64 on: 14 August 2020, 12:49:25 pm »
Yes.

I like to think sex work keeps me under control!

Kay

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Re: Are you still interested in men and sex in the civvy life?
« Reply #65 on: 14 August 2020, 12:57:37 pm »
Sort of, but it comes and goes with me, and it's not the only factor. Up until 2.5 years ago, when I was in Herts, I was still doing a lot of unpaid shagging. But then I had a perfect storm of relocating 200 miles, menopause and an insane civvy work schedule, which is still having an impact, and I've only had two FWBs in that time (on top of doing hardly any bookings). Down the line I might look for more, but at the moment I just don't have the time or inclination.

That said, I think it was my experiences of online dating that affected my overall opinion of men more than whoring.
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Re: Are you still interested in men and sex in the civvy life?
« Reply #66 on: 15 August 2020, 12:19:49 pm »
Yes.

I like to think sex work keeps me under control!

I don't feel like I need to be under control. But it certainly helps with keeping the civvies at bay. I get all I need from work sex, and I don't feel any need any more to deviate from that, notwithstanding the past six months.

TantricTease

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Re: How many of you are not interested in sex except for the money?
« Reply #67 on: 15 August 2020, 01:05:30 pm »
Genuinely how many women on SAAFE do this job for sex? I believe that there are none!

roseanna

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Re: How many of you are not interested in sex except for the money?
« Reply #68 on: 16 August 2020, 11:40:11 am »
Genuinely how many women on SAAFE do this job for sex? I believe that there are none!

Don't be so sure. When I first started I was curious about it and I thought it was a good excuse to have a lot of sex without anyone thinking I was crazy about it. I was young at the time, and the novelty did wear off eventually. But I think everyone has their own reasons and they can be wildly different. That applies to most aspects of life I find.

Kay

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Re: How many of you are not interested in sex except for the money?
« Reply #69 on: 16 August 2020, 12:39:40 pm »
Genuinely how many women on SAAFE do this job for sex? I believe that there are none!

No, it is definitely part of why I do it, but I'm mature and very low volume.
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Re: How many of you are not interested in sex except for the money?
« Reply #70 on: 16 August 2020, 01:33:45 pm »
Money only for me, not interested in sex.  All sorts of things run through my mind when I’m with a punter and none are to do with sex.  Somehow, I manage not to show this & can switch when I’m working but that’s it  ::)

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Re: How many of you are not interested in sex except for the money?
« Reply #71 on: 16 August 2020, 03:55:38 pm »
Money only for me, not interested in sex.  All sorts of things run through my mind when I’m with a punter and none are to do with sex.  Somehow, I manage not to show this & can switch when I’m working but that’s it  ::)

Totally agree with this. My mind flits around from everything once the booking is underway..

Can I get away abit earlier? If so, do I stop for petrol/nip to Aldi/the gym? (do I have my headphones though?)
A swim would be better, this guy is sweaty/full of bloody Lynx (don't want others to smell it) OK, so a shower at his? Would rather not/have I set to record Derron Brown tonight?
 Rather hope this guy doesn't want full sex, he's abit big/What am I having for tea? So his money brings my weekly total to... Etc, etc.. ;D

I swear blind none of them have a clue  8)

It's little wonder that ten minutes after leaving, I can't remember a darn thing about the booking or the bloke himself (good job I make some notes in my phone after 5  ;))

TantricTease

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Re: How many of you are not interested in sex except for the money?
« Reply #72 on: 17 August 2020, 03:23:35 am »
No, it is definitely part of why I do it, but I'm mature and very low volume.

But if the sex work paid normal wages then you wouldn’t be one, surely? Sure the sex partly is enjoyable for you but it’s still the money that motivates you too, surely?!😀

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Re: How many of you are not interested in sex except for the money?
« Reply #73 on: 17 August 2020, 12:08:58 pm »
After having  incredibly bad sex for free with a guy I will  now only have sex  for money  bad or good ..

Kay

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Re: How many of you are not interested in sex except for the money?
« Reply #74 on: 17 August 2020, 12:48:30 pm »
But if the sex work paid normal wages then you wouldn’t be one, surely? Sure the sex partly is enjoyable for you but it’s still the money that motivates you too, surely?!😀

Yes, that's why I said 'part' - I like the sex and the money and the social interaction.
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